Please do me a favor with what kind of mentality I should have towards her

I think this process is also the process of her own mental state of change, I thought that the choice was what I liked, but because of the relationship between region and time, the relationship has cooled, but you can often touch it, and the bigger the person, the more realistic it is, I think she is still more inclined to like you in her heart now.

Now it's up to you to see if you want to be a "sinister" person or an "upright" person. "Sinister" person, don't mention the confession for the time being, contact her more, don't put pressure on her, be good to her as she likes, when she slowly gets used to your existence, you confess again, even if she doesn't accept it at the time, it's not good to get over the face, in fact, I have already accepted you in my heart.

Honest" person, just confess to her directly now, saying that she has liked it for a long time and wants to be together, if she rejects you, she will always care about her like a friend, and there will always be a day to be impressed. If you accept you, you should take the initiative to tell your brother, and try not to hide it from your brother.

Overall, through your experience together, I think your chances of winning are close to 100%.

If she is in two places with her boyfriend for a long time.

That time can kill a bit of emotion.

You have a good chance of succeeding.

I wish you the happiness you earn.

Love, just say it! Don't be alone!

There will definitely be results, but the quality of the results depends on your mentality! Ordinary heart!

The main thing is to see what the girl thinks before you can make a decision!

Addendum: Success is earned by yourself, this can't be done, but I bless you, I hope you succeed, sincerity is spiritual, I believe she will feel your sincerity!

You just ask her what she thinks in her heart, ask her if she sees you as a good friend or something, and she often wants to see you, if she doesn't have you in her heart, why do she still see you?

Don't you want to know why she came to see you? It's good for both of you to ask this clearly, and it won't waste time, maybe she was loyal to her in the first place or why she chose him over you?

If you really like her, then take the opportunity, otherwise she will be snatched away by others

From a woman's point of view, she likes you! Because I think she chose your good brother in the first place, maybe because she liked you, but she didn't know how to get close to you, because you didn't confess to her, and she chose to settle for the next best thing.

Don't say that my opinion is a bit strange, I have my own personal experience as an example! When I was studying, I liked the cousin of a male classmate, and I asked him to introduce me, and he did, but when I graduated, he told me that he liked me, and he introduced me to his cousin because it would naturally allow him to spend more time with me than other male students.

You can wait until she breaks up with him before taking the opportunity to confess...

But now that you've decided, go for it. If I were to choose you... o(∩_o

Maybe you should see if they are happy, you choose love and friendship now, in fact, if she likes you, then it is natural for you to choose love, but if you just like her, then you should think clearly, don't get love by then, even the only remaining friendship is gone. So, it depends on the situation, comfort you, it's not that I want them to separate, it's that long-distance love always can't stand the test, you know what I mean, hehe, wait a minute.

She likes to be close to you, and you have a good chance of success. Go for it. Good luck!

Confess, you will definitely not be strangers, in fact, from the perspective of a girl, he is hinting at you. She likes you and wants to be with you. But I'm ashamed to say it.

If you like someone, you have to tell her, no matter who she chooses in the end, because at least you won't regret it at the end of the day, you didn't confess to her in the first place, and if you have love in your heart, you have to say it.

I think she must have feelings for you, too, and she would have said yes to you when she wasn't asking her out, and maybe that's how a girl's heart is, and she doesn't want you to find out that she likes you, too, and maybe she's just waiting for you to say to her, "I love you."

Don't take your love for someone to heart, tell her that the opportunity is created by yourself, not by someone else.

I hope you succeed.

Don't wait until early next year? Maybe then it'll be too late

If only she had a good personality! And you just say, even if you don't succeed, you won't be too embarrassed, and you can still be friends

Her introverted words hint at etc. Anyway, the sooner the better

Advise or don't. Although there are some things to fight for. Because she only treats you as a regular friend now.

Girls. She has been with her boyfriend for so many years, and she is generally a woman, and her love is deeper. They are not in the same city.

It's hard for such a love to have an ending. I believe that soon they will break up. Then you go and confess now.

She won't take it. You are still young. She's only 20...

Wait until she falls out of love and then go to her. That would have been the perfect ending.

Feel the emotional things with your heart.

I sent you a message when you had a job, and you confessed to her that if I were you, I wouldn't necessarily cherish her in the future. Because, she changed because a man had a career. A woman who is torn between two men is generally not optional, I am a woman, I suggest you do not choose her, this kind of woman is the real disaster.

Let's help me see what kind of mentality I should have with him again.

The seven-year-old age gap is a bit big, but it's okay, it's not particularly big, you can look at him everywhere first, talk about it if you can, and there is no need to be reluctant to slow down if you can't talk about it.

If the boy is seven years younger than you, then for the boy, he should be very mindful of this age problem. But anyway, if you like the other person very much and still want to associate with him, then you can use your previous mentality to get along with him. Keep it as you were before, unless he says he cares about your age and doesn't want to associate with you anymore.

If you like him, you can take the initiative a little more quickly, since you all know each other's age, you are 7 years older than him, he must also know, if he does not reject getting along with you, but also shows that he likes you, you can get along and try to be together, depending on whether both parties are sincere.

When getting along with others, I think we should do it with a normal state of mind, and a normal state of mind makes us feel the beauty of life, otherwise we will regret it. We think that life is not as good as one day.