About blind dates Please help me pay attention, why are boys so difficult to figure out

One of the biggest differences between a blind date and looking for oneself is that the two parties on a blind date have already reported the same purpose to carry out, and they have to determine the relationship between friends first, then good friends, then close friends, then lovers, and finally determine whether to get married. It's a tough process, and it's also nerve-wracking. Blind date, everyone sits down and knows that they are getting to know each other on the basis of the object of the report to get to know each other.

Saved a lot of things. However, it also takes a long time of in-depth understanding and friction to gradually get into the state or find the feeling. So it's better to try it once than not to try it at all, and I add that the contemptible person is also a member of the blind date team, and now I am also in the process of understanding the run-in, and I don't get along well.

You don't have to listen to someone who says it's better to find it yourself, traditional blind date and self-search have their own advantages and disadvantages, and we have to treat them with a dialectical view. After all, blind date is to know the roots, first grope for the side information, and then study the positive information yourself. Compare insurance.

The insurance factor is a little higher. And looking for it by yourself, you are groping with your own experience and way of doing things, and it is inevitable that you will make mistakes or make mistakes, and it will be very troublesome if your parents do not agree. However, there is an advantage that you can get the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment of self-realization value, after all, there is a process from strangeness to intimacy that will be unforgettable.

And the blind date doesn't have that kind of obscurity. Very realistic. But then again.

After a blind date, you can also romantically go from strange to intimate is not without a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, the most important thing is to be able to find someone worthy of your life's love, if you can do this, whether it is to find yourself or a blind date is desirable.

If you're enthusiastic about him and he's still cold, then give up, it's not interesting.

Does he want to pretend and wait for you to chase him? Unlikely.

Texting is useless, it's better to talk often, eat, drink coffee, or finish a game, and slowly feel it.

It's a very simple question, but I advise you to think it through and hope to understand more. But as a man, he cares about you a lot, but he doesn't have his own ideas, and usually does it by others. Girls need to be reserved, and boys need to be magnanimous.

If you like it, tell him, and if you don't like it, tell him. It is expected that it is better to get straight to the point. Then you will be very happy and happy in the future.

I wish you happiness and find your true love.

Don't think too much! It's yours in the end, it's yours after all! There is nothing to ponder about fate!

I'm also a boy.,But it's not a blind date.。。。 I'll tell you about it. I think so.

If you have any doubts about him, you can ask him directly. For example, you can casually ask: Why have you been busy lately, and you don't have time to send me a message, really...

If he's very responsive to you, then you can keep in touch. If you are still cold, I am afraid that you feel that you are not suitable and want to separate. But either way, as the third floor said.

SMS doesn't solve the problem. More together is the key. Finally, I don't know if you won't like to listen to it.

If this is a boy who comes from free love, you may think it's not good to ask him, just guess. But you are now on a blind date, and you have come together for the purpose of marriage. So as upstairs said, go straight and don't think too much...

You send him a message and there will be an answer!

Is he really busy? Or the interface, this is important!

When a man meets true love, his emotions can be a little abnormal. Or very happy, or grumpy, or full of melancholy, always one is abnormal. Because your emotions will affect him all the time, and when you agree to date him, he will be ecstatic; When you refuse to go shopping with him, he will be covered in gloom.

He met his true love, how could he be willing to let go? He will do anything to attract your attention by doing strange things. Love is a maddening poison, and once contaminated, it becomes unusual.

2. Men will involuntarily pay attention to everything about you.

When a man meets true love, he can't help but want to know your habits, your preferences, and everything about you. He will look through the news you have posted, ask about you from your friends, and contact a different you from the Internet. When a man takes the trouble to go to your circle of friends every day, then he must care about you very much, otherwise he will not pay attention to everything about you.

He cares about you, cares about you, and loves you.

3. Men will want to date you from time to time.

When a man meets true love, he will want to date you from time to time. He wants to ask you out, to get to know you better, to get to know you better, to get involved in your life, and to be the one who will be with you for the rest of your life. If you don't see each other for a day, the man you meet will want to ask you out to meet from time to time, even if you leave for a quarter of an hour, he will miss you a lot.

Because I love you, that's why I want to see you.

4. Men will tolerate everything about you.

When a man meets true love, he will tolerate everything about you. When you encounter love, there will always be times when the two hearts rub violently, but even if you do something wrong, he will tolerate your mistakes, your bad habits, and everything about you. In his eyes, your vexatious troubles are just playing petty, with a different cuteness.

In the eyes of the lover, in his eyes, you are perfect, and he will tolerate everything about you.

Men's attitudes determine how they relate to each other.

In a happy marriage, two people must get along with each other in an intimate relationship. In other words, harmony and cooperation can bring happiness to two people. If, in marriage, only the woman is working on it, and the man is passive, indifferent, and does not stand by, then the final result will not be more than two.

One is that the stubborn woman persistently strives to maintain the integrity of the marriage, swallowing all the tears and sorrows and digesting them silently. On the other hand, the woman finally refused to sing this one-man show anymore and began to give up her marriage career. In the end, the two became strangers and parted ways.

But in fact, no matter what it is, as long as the man's attitude can change and they can face the marriage positively, everything can change. It can be said that the quality of the relationship between two people largely determines the quality of the marital relationship and the satisfaction of the two people with the marriage. For women, only in a good relationship mode can they feel the love of men, taste the sweetness of love and the happiness of marriage.

Therefore, in marriage, whether a woman lives well or not often depends on the attitude of the man, because the attitude of the man determines how the two people get along.

If a man cheats, or does not live with a woman wholeheartedly, then in this case, the woman will also feel particularly tired, and this tiredness is not physical, but internal. If this happens to a man, the woman may divorce because she is too tired.

In marriage, if you want to be happy, you need men and women to work together to manage well, as a man, you must make your woman happy, if you make women feel bitter, the marriage is about to end.

This is normal.

You should also be anxious about your cousin.

He's thirty years old, and he's not too young.

As your relative, you should also be anxious for him.

I'm in a hurry to get off the list, I'm in a hurry to get married, and I don't think it's okay if I'm impatient! It's normal.

I think it's understandable that everyone has a different attitude towards marriage, so the way it behaves is also different.

Zi is not a fish, how do you know the joy of fish?

Every man's thoughts are not necessarily the same, and this has nothing to do with whether he is a man or not. Feelings look at fate and sincerity. Flowing water seems to be ruthless, but what about falling flowers? What do you think now?

= If you are only looking at him to relieve loneliness and boredom, or want to text again to express your concern due to guilt, then you don't have to. Insincere love is the beginning of tragedy, try to meet new people of the opposite sex, make more friends and give yourself more opportunities.

Oh, it's so sad, do you know why I didn't message you later? Because he doesn't want to contact you anymore! I used to just get along like friends, and if I feel that I can talk further, if not, I won't contact you directly, this man can't do it, and he won't be so happy when he gets married in the future!

Boredom, immaturity, narcissism are my analysis.

It doesn't matter what the girl's character is.

In response to the problem you mentioned, I think that in the face of different strange blind date men, we must have different ways to deal with them.

1. When he finished making a promise, you smiled at him and told him: If you are promising me, then I can see how you behave in the future. Or, you tell him that you don't like his promises and think you don't have feelings for him.

2.I think in this case, you're being spare. Don't get in touch anymore. This kind of man doesn't even know what he wants, and he doesn't know how to entrust it.

3.I think that in the first 6 months of acquaintance, the AA system is a must. He likes to joke, so you ask, why lend him money?

You don't have to hold a shelf, and a man who is embarrassed to borrow money from a woman or a blind date is not a man (unless he really forgot to bring his wallet, but it doesn't matter more than three).

4.Selfish. 5.Hypocrisy.

Summary: Break up, you will find a better one.