In the face of opposition from the family! Face the man who loves me! How exactly should I choose!

That's how life goes up and down.

But we can't sigh too much.

Sometimes true love becomes very ...... in front of parents

Maybe you don't agree with my point of view.

But I still choose to listen to my parents, in fact, many times, parents are realistic and think about it.

They're only thinking about us, so why can't we think about it for our parents?

Now back to your own question:

Yes, you yourself know that your former boyfriend's family was relatively wealthy, so in order to honor your parents, you will definitely have children again.

So, will your own choices hurt the child?

You live with your step-boyfriend.

Then, it's not only yourself who suffers, but also your children, in fact, you also have a certain amount of love for your ex-boyfriend, otherwise you wouldn't feel embarrassed when your ex-boyfriend came to beg you.

Let's be realistic! It's true! Your current boyfriend is good to you because he wants to impress with the only thing he can do!

He knows he can't really bring you happiness!

But he did not have selfless love.

When this kind of thing happens, he should take the initiative to let go.

If he doesn't take the initiative to leave, he won't really be good to you!

See that for yourself?

Be serious.

After all, you have to face too many choices :

A life of hard work, the future of the child.

Whatever you choose, be sure to think about your children and parents.

The child is innocent, don't let yourself work too hard.

It's a very realistic thing!

My words are too realistic.

I hope that all netizens, don't treat me with too extreme words.

Because I also look at the problem from a realistic point of view! It's unreasonable, but it's also true!

Water under the bridge.

Since you said that your current boyfriend is so good, why do you want to think about it before.

People are always like this, if they don't get it, they beg hard, and if they get it, they don't cherish it. Especially men.

Your former boyfriend pleaded with you because he knew you would be soft-hearted, but please think about your current boyfriend.

You still have to go home, bring your current boyfriend back with you, so that your family can rest assured.

Love is created by oneself, and I propose to keep it! Don't wait for a loss to regret it!

In general, you should choose someone who likes you because that person will be good to you. At least, the mind won't get too tired!

You said that you broke up with him before because that woman was always in contact with him, so at least he didn't keep pestering that woman, so I don't think the man you love should be very bad. You say you hate that you always give it yourself, but you don't respond. So how much love in this world can you get as much as you give?

I think it may be that you make him feel that it is too simple, three times, three times is enough for him to see you through, perhaps, you are too soft-hearted. I'm sure you'd love him like a fairy tale lover. But the road ahead of you is not good, but since you have passed, forget it.

Tell him, say that you are tired, that you are just a girl, that this kind of love makes you feel more and more unbearable, tell him that you want to make a final decision, tell him that you actually love him very much, want to be good to him, and want him to be good to you. Then consciously or unconsciously keep a distance from him, since he will be lukewarm, then I hope you will follow suit. Also, don't say anything about his former girlfriend in front of him, even if you have to mention it, just say that the woman is fine.

Let him have a feeling that he is not sure about you, it will work, and if none of this works, then leave. It may still be tiring to do this, but it is worth it for the love you want.

LZ, in fact, you already have a choice.

You put the people who love me first.

In fact, it is the deepest answer in your heart.

You are so tired, if it is my case, in what you say now, you have lost faith in the person you love, but you are very tired and tired, the person you love together should not be paid by only one party, if you feel like a lover, just break up, why let yourself be miserable? But the key depends on whether you are willing to give up, it is very painful to give up a person you love, if you are not reluctant, let him make a choice, if you know his relationship with that woman, it will be completely divided. Do you have a crush on the person who loves you?

If you choose him, you must cherish it, and don't be too nostalgic for the tenderness of being with the person you love in the past...

You should still choose someone who loves yourself and is happy after all.

Break up with the man you love... He doesn't love you anymore. Get along with the man who likes you. While there is less care, there is more friend who cares about you.

If I were you, I would break up with him and choose the one who loves me.

It's been separated three times and it's like this, obviously I don't care about it, so in the future, when you get married in the future, you still have to accommodate him, otherwise it's really unimaginable.

But the person who loves you is different, he loves it to the heart, so when you get married in the future, he will cherish you.

Communicate directly with the people you like. It's a showdown. When you are together, two people work together, and two people are in love to be called love. If he still can't cut ties with his former girlfriend, you can separate from him. Can you tolerate flaws in love?

As for the people who love you, try to accept it if you start a new life. Feelings can be cultivated. Every woman wants a stable, warm life. I don't think there's anything wrong with finding someone who loves me.

It's been 3 times.,I'll forget it.。。 He doesn't have a serious attitude at all.,And this and that.,It's messy.,Maybe even he doesn't know how to choose.,It's better to accept the one who likes you.,And you don't hate him.,Personal opinion.,Just for reference.。。

What you love, what you don't love. If you don't love you, whoever you choose, you won't be happy. There are two choices: one. You can try to get to know the person who loves you, and it is possible to develop again, two. Find a new one you love and love yours.

You love bad people, and you don't have to be bad people who love you, how do you choose.

Can the landlord take a personal photo?

I'll tell you the answer.

Of course, it's a good thing to be able to be in love with the person you like, but how can there be so many things in life that can go our way. If you can't make the person you like be good to you, you can only go to the person who loves you, because happiness is the most important, and only the person who loves yourself will care about your feelings, and will love you and care for you.

No one can predict the future, if you choose a good relationship at present, live a poor life in the future, and your feelings are worn out by firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is more painful than choosing someone who is rich although you don't love you so much, if you choose a rich person, if you don't treat you well after marriage, you will also be sad, so you are very entangled, no one can help you pay for your future choices, think about it yourself.

How can you have both fish and bear's paws, the first man's economic conditions are average, which does not prove that he is average all his life, and the latter man has very good conditions, which does not prove that he can be good to you. If you are far away from the first man's home, then negotiate whether you can let him buy a house near your house to get married, and if not, find a place to get married. How to choose this matter depends on what kind of life you need, do you want to be happy and stable?

In fact, there is nothing wrong with becoming realistic, it shows that you know how to think seriously about your married life. But it is important to remember that the so-called reality is not just the existing economic power, but the character. The most important thing is to be able to live with you for the rest of your life.

If both are lacking now, then you can take a second look, and maybe there will be other options.

If loving someone is hard, then being loved is blissful! I think if you want to be happy for a lifetime, you should find someone who loves you for so long!! In this way, there will be people rushing at you for the rest of your life!

What if you live far away? As long as you are happy together, people from both countries can get married, let alone you are in China?

Money is a thing that is not brought in life or in death, as long as it is motivated! I think you prefer the one from the other county! Work hard together and it will pay off!

If you want to choose a house and a car in the same county, what's the use of not getting in? It has to be emotional, it has feelings, and everything is there, isn't it? If it were me, I would choose another county!

It's good to be afraid of something!

Follow your heart or you will regret it.

I am a person from the past, and I have faced such a choice as you, if it were me, I would choose the former! The road is not a problem, the key is the heart. I believe that if there is a heart, there is a spirit!

If you love him, you will be with whomever you want. The choice is yours.

Happiness is to take the initiative to strive for it. But I want to face two men who both love you, and the best result is to choose one of them in your heart.

Let's take a look at the friend group of the two people, who are they? Because things are like and people are grouped, and with this as a reference, you can have some ideas, plus family factors, and consider it holistically.

Ask your heart, which person do you feel best about? When you have a problem, who is the first thing you think of? Who do you most want to say to when you're unhappy?

Marriage is a lifelong affair, don't think about whether your parents are against it now, even if your parents don't agree, you have to slowly convince them to accept the person you choose the one you love the most.

The most important thing in emotional matters is to be loyal to your heart, first determine which one you prefer, or who you get along with better. Secondly, you should also consider the actual situation, if the family is resolutely opposed, so reluctant to be together, may not be happy, because their opposition will inevitably affect your relationship. And if your family supports you, it is also the foundation of your emotional stability.

What's more, through your description, both boys are very good to you, and it's best to decide as soon as possible, otherwise it will be not one person who will be hurt in the end, but three.

Choose what the family agrees to A marriage without the blessing of the family is not happy

Not knowing is hard to tell.

Let's see after a while.

Maybe one of them will not hold on and give up on you.

Go with your feelings.

Maybe a third person who loves you will come out.

However, if the family agrees, life will be better in the future.

Look at which one you love, choose whichever you love, don't think too much, or it will hurt whether you love you or what you love, isn't it

Yes, choose what the family agrees to, and your parents will only make the choice for you :)

Find someone who loves you, the relationship is for a lifetime, don't let yourself be too hurt in the future.

Choose me.

I'm out of town.

Choose what you love It's as simple as that.

What do you think?

You're not just looking for a boyfriend.

It's so strong. You're not responsible for yourself.

Choose the one you love... Don't choose what you don't love.

1。Ask yourself which one you really love more.

2。Family is also important.

Don't just see if they love you, but also whether you love them or not.

It depends on which one you love, and you can choose which one you love.

You're handsome, both of them are your boyfriends.

They love you, do you love them? Choose the one you love.

This shows that there is no love in the world ...

Find someone who loves you.

The man you love is clearly out of the woods.

I clearly want to fish you.

Don't waste time.

Sometimes a guy likes you.

But it doesn't necessarily mean that he will marry you.

The premise is that both people are sincere, and you will feel very relaxed when you choose the person who loves you, because the person who loves you will continue to pay for you in order to love you, but it will be harder to choose the person you love because you are the one who pays more. Money is not the main condition for choosing a partner, unless you are a ready-made person who loves to wait.

Choose what you love.

The premise is to know that he loves himself.

If both of you are interesting, I think you should choose the husband you like and the lover you like.

Choose the person who loves you, you will live a very worry-free life, choose the person you love, you may be tired, no matter who you choose, there will be a pros and cons, that is, who to choose, and after the matter is over, you will think about what life will be like if I choose another one at that time, so you still have to think about what kind of feelings you can bear.

The person who chooses to love you has to choose the person who loves you today and in the future The teacher is not the one who "loves you" and he doesn't love you, if he loves you, he has to say and do it, not be vague, he only loves himself

It's not something that can be said right now.

Someone is chasing you, what is your attitude towards him, if you don't feel it, then it's no play, if you also have feelings for him, you can think about it, what about the relationship with the teacher, whether you think it's very ambiguous, or the real situation is very ambiguous, this has to be clear. And whether his attitude towards you is real.

These are things that take time to verify.

The proposal given to you, it is better to keep this relationship for a while now and then observe it first and don't regret it later.