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In the entertainment industry, there are many loving couples who are worth learning from, and in them, we can learn the way of marriage management, and we will also make our marriage happy. In the marriage between Deng Chao and Sun Li, we know what it means to be in love with each other, so a good marriage is not to ask the other party to change, but to learn to change by yourself.

One: Pay together in the 9th anniversary of Sun Li's marriage, they have always been very affectionate, Sun Li has changed from the original unmarried to today's good wife and mother, of which Deng Chao has paid a lot, if there is no Deng Chao's dedication, Sun Li will not marry him,Therefore, if you want a good marriage, both parties can pay together, so that the relationship will become long-lasting。After marriage, Sun Li is very happy, and has a son and a daughter by her side, and a successful career, which makes her life very complete.

Two: Change yourself Deng Chao and Sun Li are both actors, but in Deng Chao's dream, there is also a director's dream, in order to help Deng Chao complete his dream together, Sun Li will star in the movie directed by Deng Chao, when Deng Chao fails, Sun Li will always encourage him and cheer him up, with Sun Li's encouragement, Deng Chao insists on completing his dream, and will not cause his dream to break because of Sun Li's lack of support. So,A good partner should not ask the other person to change for you, but think about changing for the other person, so that the other person will love you more

Three: Mutual understanding There will always be all kinds of gossip in the entertainment industry, which requires both parties to be able to understand together, so that there will be no contradictionsIf one party does not understand, it will lead to the deterioration of the marriage and make the marriage have a sense of crisis。In the marriage between Deng Chao and Sun Li, Deng Chao also had scandals, but Sun Li's choice of understanding and belief would make each other go so far.

If Sun Li doesn't change herself, then there will be cracks in their marriage, and they won't be as happy as they are now.

A good marriage requires both parties to change, not one party asking the other party to change, only if you change, then the other party will change for you, so that the marriage will become more durable.

A good partner does not ask the other person to change, then the main reason is that he loves the other person very much and can tolerate everything about the other person, so he does not need the other person to change.

The reason why a good partner does not ask the other person to change is mainly because he can tolerate some of the other person's shortcomings, and he can also find the good in the other person.

A good partner is to make each other adapt, not to make each other change, and letting each other change will make the other person unhappy.

Marriage is not the same as love, after getting married, no one will have no bottom line and no principles to tolerate you, two people want to live together, they must get along with each other in their most comfortable state for a lifetime, and there must be a process of continuous run-in and communication between each other, and everyone has their own shortcomings and problems, only by knowing how to tolerate and treat each other with a tolerant heart, can the relationship between husband and wife be better.

In the life of husband and wife, if they do not love each other very much, such a relationship is imperfect, and one party can only tolerate the other and live reluctantly.

Married life is all about mutual tolerance. Husband and wife living together will find each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, but for the sake of the family, some things must be tolerated and forgiven.

Because everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings, and husbands and wives will also have conflicts and disputes, and only when both parties tolerate each other can they be stable.

Because only two people can tolerate each other in the life of husband and wife, they can slowly run in and be more suitable for being together, after all, two people from different environments must tolerate each other when they come together.

It's not difficult, I think Deng Chao and Sun Li are true love, and having two babies is very good.

It's difficult, celebrity couples each have their own careers, they tend to run around, get together less and leave more, I think Deng Chao and Sun Li's relationship is still very good.

It's a little difficult, in fact, celebrity couples are also people, and they also have their own troubles, I think it's really enviable that Deng Chao and Sun Li can maintain a good relationship.

Deng Chao and Sun Li have been married for many years, and their relationship has been very good over the years, I think that to make the relationship between husband and wife more durable, they should respect each other when they get along, be considerate of each other, and pay for each other's family.

1. A respectful mode of getting along can make the relationship more durable. Deng Chao said in a program interview that when he and Sun Li get along, the two will respect each other, for example, when Sun Li wants to film, he will support Sun Li's choice, when two people have different ideas, they will respect each other's different opinions, they know how to think from each other's position when they get along, and know how to respect each other, which is why they can be in a relationship for so long. Therefore, it is important for husband and wife to make the relationship more durable.

Second, the considerate mode of getting along with each other can make the relationship more durable. To make the relationship between husband and wife more long-lasting, they must be considerate and care for each other when they get along, the other party's thoughtfulness can make the other party feel warm, and with warmth, they are willing to give their sincerity, such as Du Jiang and Huo Siyan, they have been married for many years, their relationship is still very good, they take care of each other in the process of getting along, Du Jiang is very fond of Huo Siyan, Huo Siyan is also very considerate of her husband, and mutual consideration is also the reason why the relationship between husband and wife can last for a long time.

3. The way we get along with each other for the family can make the relationship more durable. To make the relationship last longer, both parties must pay together for the family after the union, if one party always blindly asks and does not pay, the other party will feel tired after paying more, he will look down on the party who always asks for the party, which will affect the feelings of the two people.

The reason why Deng Chao and Sun Li have been in a relationship for so long is because after they got married, they both worked together for the family, for example, Sun Li went to filming, and Deng Chao also worked hard to run his own business, so that both of them could contribute to the family.

It is that when husband and wife get along, they can trust each other and know how to tolerate each other. This will make the relationship last longer.

If you want to make the relationship more durable, then the two people in the marriage must know how to give, understand each other, and tolerate each other, and only in this way will the marriage be happier.

Respecting each other and protecting each other can make the relationship more durable, and both people regard each other as their most precious person.

A husband and wife who respect each other can make the relationship last longer, and mutual respect can keep the relationship between two people alive.

Two people have their own careers, but they will understand each other and support each other, and there will be many romantic things in the lives of two people.

Appropriate compliments, occasional dependence. Both of these in life will be conducive to the durability and sweetness of the relationship, making life better.

When husband and wife get along, they must consider each other's feelings, and do the same with things, and never always impose their own ideas on each other.

I think it should be to be able to see the good in my partner, and be willing to change some of my lifestyle for my partner, which can make the relationship last longer.

If you want to maintain the heat of marriage, then you have to change some living habits and ways for the other party, and run in with each other.

People with opposite personalities can maintain the heat of marriage, as long as the relationship between two people is particularly deep, and the opposite personalities can actually complement each other, which can play a better role in the lives of two people.

Two people will give up their habits for each other and grow together.

June 7 is the 9th anniversary of Sun Li and his wife's marriage, Deng Chao said to his wife: "Miss Sun, happy 9th wedding anniversary!" "There is also a silhouette of a family of four in the sunset, which looks warm and happy; It also made many netizens send blessings for the first time and cast envious eyes; From this painting, Sun Li is holding flowers face to face, Deng Chao is holding flowers face to face, etc., to a large extent, it is the echo of Deng Chao and Sun Li; I have to say that this painting really has a sense of meaning and a taste of happiness!

As we all know, Deng Chao and Sun Li got married in 2011, and the two have experienced many ups and downs together. While many ** have questioned their feelings, love always speaks for itself. Although Deng Chao often complains about his misfortune on social **, it seems that it is just a glimmer of happiness in their love.

And in the last month, Deng Chao also joked about the news of the ninth anniversary of the early arrival: Ask Teacher Sun Li what gift to give on her wedding anniversary, she said that you won't tell me about **, let me be quiet for a day ......Among them, Sun Li is "let me be quiet for a day", which also reflects Deng Chao's usual chatter.

Compared with Deng Chao, the "queen" Sun Li seems natural, just writing a small long article; Among them, Sun Li recalled the bits and pieces of her husband's past, including that both of them have many different personality traits; But they are so different, they have known each other for 14 years and have been married for 9 years. In such a world of fame and wealth, it seems difficult to find a person who is compatible in every way, especially with so many different personality conditions. They still lived together for nine years.

Sun Li didn't forget to sigh with emotion: "It's actually not easy for the two of us to live together......."”

Perhaps it is precisely because of these differences that the two love each other more and slowly change each other; In the end, Sun Li also ended the essay on the ninth anniversary of her marriage with the sentence "Time flies, only love is eternal", and accompanied by a love from Deng Chao. Compared with Deng Chao's**, Sun Li is equipped with four ** according to the content, including a wedding photo and a family photo, everything is so happy and natural!

Faced with his wife's long wishes and memories, Deng Chaonaturally couldn't help but joke about some of them, and replied in the comment area: "You have changed my heart, I have changed your appearance." "I have to say that in recent years, it seems that Sun Li really likes Deng Chao more and more; "It's too long to write, and everyone is busy," Wendi Deng added, adding a dog-headed emoji.

This second reaction, the child really can't resist the person who wants to hit him!

No wonder Sun Li said that the wedding anniversary was a quiet day for him, which seemed really reasonable; But now it seems that Deng Chao didn't want to be quiet, but was a lot more excited; Anyway, let's bless Deng Chao and his wife, I am sure they will have many more ninth anniversaries in the future, and wish them a long life!

I think Deng Chao just owes his mouth, he must be very happy in his heart, his wife feels so much that it shows that he has a deep affection for him and this family, to be honest, their relationship between husband and wife is really good, and they are a model couple in the entertainment industry.

Deng Chao has always had such a funny style, it is normal to say this from his mouth, although he said so, but he must feel very warm in his heart.

I don't think it's because my husband doesn't approve of his wife's approach, but because Deng Chao's nature likes to talk the opposite, and this sentence proves that he and Sun Li have a happy life.

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