Now that I find out that I didn t like him at all, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you really want to say that he is a person worthy of your love, you should love him well!!

    To love or not to love is a philosophy of human beings.

    Alone, you go to love. Very simple. It's not easy to love you alone.

    It's not the point, love you, don't love you. Not absolutely. Love you, you love, relatively.

    One who loves you and you love is so hard. Of course, there is true love in the world, and true love cannot be said in a single sentence. Although I have been writing ** for many years, I have never seen true love, let alone written true love.

    My protagonists are all modeled after me, so it's not that people who love me leave me, and I love people who ignore them. People who love each other end up never being together.

    If you meet someone you really love and she really loves you, what are you waiting for?

    Opportunities do not seize ......

    How will you be right when you meet her 20 years later?

    Dignity? Face? How many cents?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You are like this, you can't help but deceive the boys' feelings too much!

    Since you haven't liked him at all in all this time.

    And you have full self-confidence and believe for a long time.

    You won't like him, no matter what he does for you.

    Then I'll beg you for him, no, for the boy who happened like this:

    Leave him, stop torturing him like this!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello! If you determine that you don't want to develop a relationship with him, being honest is the most effective and sensible thing to do, and the least hurtful.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Gradually indifferent to him. **Don't answer the call, don't reply to the text message as soon as you send it, and don't be too cold all at once. Just go in half a tone.

    It's been a long time. He certainly couldn't stand it. Ask you.

    You just say no... Never lukewarm.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Create an incident and use it as an opportunity to say goodbye.

    If he does not agree, or asks, you must firmly refuse, so that he will not continue to pester you on the grounds that you are cheating on his feelings.

    Good luck.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you don't want to hurt him any further, tell him now that this is the most responsible way for yourself and for him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Just tell him that you'll get the least hurt that way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's really a bit difficult to say, but you still tell him (tell him that we are not suitable, but we can be friends), or if you continue, you will only hurt him more deeply, so decide early, it will be good for both parties.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ask him out, and you will talk to him and tell him. You like him, but you don't love him. There is a difference between loving and liking. Don't be embarrassed, because it's good for you and for him!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better to say it directly than if you put it off again and again.

    The damage was believed to have been greater then than it is now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The best thing to do is to find someone to take over your .........

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't like people, just say it sooner First of all, tell him in a tactful way, if he is pretending to be stupid, just say it in the most direct way, so that it will hurt him and you the least Believe me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Tell him bluntly, do you think it would be better to drag it out?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    At the beginning of the relationship, the man was enthusiastic, but as time went by, the man's attitude became more and more cold. It feels like men don't like women so much, what should women do?

    1. Make yourself excellent and have the strength to leave at any time. It is undeniable that many girls will pay a lot for each other when they find their other half. Especially after getting married, too many women will quit their jobs and devote all their energy to the family.

    For such a woman, if a man loves himself, then there is a down-to-earth dependence, but if the other person does not love him, then he puts himself at the greatest risk.

    Therefore, when a woman feels that a man does not love her, what she should do is not to blindly break up and divorce, but to rely on her family to continuously improve her ability and regain her survival skills. When you become good and have the ability to leave at any time, you will find that the initiative is in your own hands. If the other person loves, they will live well together.

    If the other party doesn't love it, it won't be particularly embarrassing even if you leave.

    2. Find something you like to do to distract yourself. When you find out that a man doesn't love you, no matter what the reason, don't be obsessed. Because when a person doesn't love you, persistence and entanglement are synonymous.

    Entangling with men is very exhausting and physically demanding. It's better to get together and leave with dignity and make good memories for each other.

    Adjust your mindset and find something you enjoy doing to distract yourself so that you don't get bogged down by love or dislove. For example, if you like flower arrangement, you will take the time to learn; If you like to dance, go to a teacher to teach you ......Have something you like, stick to it. As time passes, slowly forget the pain in your heart.

    Life is an individual, no one can be without anyone, and no one can leave without anyone.

    3. Maintain inner self-confidence. A woman who gives too much in love has some inferiority. Even after leaving, she still thinks:

    Is it my fault that he doesn't like me? I don't deserve to be liked." As human beings, we are all equal.

    Never feel unworthy because of your initiative or his rejection. Don't think you're not worthy of his love. Love has nothing to do with money, nothing to do with material things, but love does not love.

    Your low self-esteem, to put it bluntly, is because you are not confident. Self-confidence is the last thing a woman can afford to lose. How confident we are, the gas field will be big from the inside out.

    Unworthy, unworthy, don't put such words on yourself, even if you are a person, you should become stronger, a woman's self-confidence can never be lost.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Two people sit down and communicate well, you can ask him directly, if he really doesn't like you anymore, you should leave, live a good life alone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should communicate with him calmly, say anything, don't hide it, don't ask him directly if you don't know if he loves him, you can't bear not to say it, which will cause a lot of problems.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    At this time, you must adjust your mentality, improve your self-worth, focus on your work, and soon find someone who likes you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The two of them sit down and have a good time, you can maybe ask him directly if he really doesn't like it, you should get out of it, and have a good life alone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. I have a favorite person I don't know if I like it or not, but I know that I don't look good, he shouldn't like me, in fact, this situation, is because you like people too much, or care too much about people, or even love people too much, so it leads to your own special lack of confidence, in this case, you must find a way to get close to people, if you have the opportunity, boldly confess.

    I have someone I like, I don't know if I like it or not, but I know that I don't look good, and he probably won't like me, what should I do?

    I have a person I like, I don't know if I like it, but my brother shirt is that I know that I don't look good, he shouldn't like me, in fact, this kind of envy is because you like people too much, or care too much about people, or even love people too much, so it leads to your own special lack of confidence, in this case, you must find a way to get close to people, if you have the opportunity, boldly confess.

    What you like, as long as you work hard, whether you can be together is another matter.

    The ghost picks the weak on the body, the Buddha picks the good to suffer, there is no fairness in this world, and how can he teach people to be generous What is the point of living?

    This question is esoteric, don't discuss it.

    He said take his time, but now that he's ignoring me, he's not having the enthusiasm he had before, should I still persevere?

    You give yourself a month or two months, and if you can't, you know how to give up.

    Why are most marriages unhappy?

    Half of it. Only half at most.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The results are not the most important thing.

    The important thing is to appreciate that process.

    It's right not to leave yourself with regrets.

    If you want to like someone, if you want to be with him, then let's be together.

    Like a person and whether it is possible to be together are two completely different things, the more you grow up, the more you will understand whether you like it or not, whether it is suitable or not, whether you can be together, are three different things, if the other party does not like you, then you like it silently. If he also likes you, under the bottom line of moral principles, you might as well be bold together, we should forget ourselves once in our lives, do not ask for results, do not ask for peers, do not ask for what we once had, and don't even ask the other party to love you, just want to meet him in the most beautiful years.

    Is it wrong to like someone? Absolutely.

    Why can't you help but like it when you know it's impossible, and don't want to give up even if you know it's no result?

    This is human desire, what you can't get is the most precious thing you want to get, and when you get it, you don't think it's precious.

    You should try to forget about him slowly, distract you, don't pay attention to him, you can focus on what interests you. (When you're about to cry, take a deep breath...)A) to get back to the original life without him, treat everyone with a smile, every one of these trips. Wishing you happiness!

    Thanks, hope. Crush can also be very sweet, every day to see if the person you like is unhappy, is there anyone who can help, has a responsibility in my heart, is no longer empty, very fulfilling, life is motivated, I know that there is no result, I secretly like it, I feel that sweetness.

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