How much money do you think your classmates should pay for getting married?

Updated on society 2024-04-24
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If it's particularly good, go with 500 yuan, or it depends on your ability, but no matter how you mix, you can't be less than 200 yuan, otherwise you will feel a little stingy, after all, this year will have more or less money in it, so you should weigh it yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Like those of us born in the 70s, if we got married before, it was basically more than 100 yuan, and if we changed it to now, it would be as low as 200-300 yuan.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Classmates generally start at 200 when they get married, it depends on whether the previous relationship is iron, and the general relationship is 200, and the relationship is 288, 388, 488, 588, 688, 888, 1000, etc., local tyrants are at will.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Family members are very familiar with each other, or they are kind to you, so you should give gifts to your classmates at the same time. This price code is basically 2000 bottom, or I feel embarrassed, especially now, the wind of comparison is so serious.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is an unwritten rule in my family, but all the money, basically is to return the gift to the back, if your family does a happy event or a favor, people with 200, then wait until someone else has something at home, then you have to follow 500, or it is better not to take care of it, people will pick it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on your local **, but also depends on your relationship, each place is different! 200-300 for ordinary students on our side.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    How big a pot to cook and how much to cook, if you want to save face, there is no upper limit for this kind of thing, but there is a lower limit, and now it is normal for the third-tier cities to be more than 200 and the first-tier cities to be 51,000.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My classmates are all in their fifties! The marriage of a classmate's child is basically 1,000 yuan! More is better! The more money you wish you to be happy, the better!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It doesn't matter how much you look at your actual situation, if your classmates are unhappy after the money, then it's not worth keeping this classmate, and it's okay to lose it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it's a classmate with an average relationship, then it's a different matter, it's embarrassing not to go, and to go is to discuss with your classmates how much to follow. As the saying goes, follow the general stream.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't get tangled! Personally, I think it's good to be there to congratulate! Don't add to my debt!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to go, you will follow the money, and if you are notified, it will generally follow, depending on your financial ability and your situation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First, look at the relationship between relatives and distances

    If it is a classmate who has little contact after graduation to get married, there is no need to give too much gifts, you only need to choose an auspicious number between 200 and 500 to wrap a red envelope!

    If the classmate who is going to get married is very close to you, it is recommended that you choose an auspicious number between 600 and 1000, which can be given 688, 800 or 888, which not only represents your own mind, but also represents a very good meaning.

    Second, look at the level of urban development

    1. First- and second-tier cities.

    If you are in a first- or second-tier city, you can't get it for 200, so at least you need to wrap a red envelope of 500 yuan, and it is recommended to choose a red envelope with numbers like 500 or 688.

    2. Small cities in the third and fourth tiers.

    If you are in a small city in the third or fourth tier and want to give a gift to your classmates, the relationship is generally given 200, but remember that you must not give 300, because it represents a bad meaning. If the relationship is okay, you can wrap a red envelope of 600 or 800.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1.If you give a red envelope, within your own tolerance, if you say that the red envelope wants to cover your income for this month, your classmates should not feel at ease when they receive this red envelope. Etiquette is light and affectionate, just express your heart.

    2.Look at the wedding pomp of classmates, high-end hotels are definitely different from those at home, and there is also the fact that the customs of each place will be different, such as first-tier cities and small counties. The amount of red envelopes will also vary depending on geographical differences.

    3.Whether the relationship with this classmate is close, if it is an ordinary classmate, it will be meaningful. If you are really a good friend, then you must send your most heartfelt blessings, and this red envelope should naturally include more.

    4. It's okay for classmates to get married to 200-800 yuan. If you don't plan to leave the favor in the future, just go with the lowest grade of 200, and don't go to the wedding site, just give a red envelope on your mobile phone. You know, many people are done with a direct blessing for this relationship.

    5. If you go to the scene to attend the wedding, give a mid-range 500, which is considered your own meal money. There will be intersections in the future, and it is also the kind of 800 that is a roommate relationship, it is a good choice, and you can get it. Of course, if you want to attend the wedding remotely, the newlyweds can also add two or three hundred yuan for accommodation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    According to the individual's economic conditions and the affection between classmates, the decision depends on how much money to give to each person. It seems that 520 can be given auspicious meaning.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it's not clear, you can go to the wedding and see how much others are following, and then you can follow as much as you want. If you have a good relationship, you can give a little more. Money is a mind, as long as people go, the other party will be happy as much as they want.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When classmates get married, the money should be decided according to their own expenses, because after all, there are dealings. How much money you have, when you do things, the other party will pay it back, so don't be too shabby, but don't be reckless, the general part of the money is between 200-500 yuan is more appropriate.

    Note: It's best not to pack 300 or 400 yuan, because 300 yuan is an odd number, although 400 yuan is an even number, but the number is not very good, I used to pack a wallet of 300 people, my friend said that I did, he said either 200 yuan or 500 yuan.

    300 and 400 yuan are generally not covered by this amount.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personally, I think that the money for the classmate's marriage can be based on how much money the classmate once gave you when you got married, and you can give him as much as you want, and you don't need to add 100 more to show your sincerity. Because if you have more to invite him for a happy event, he will also give you 100 more, which will make everyone unbearable. If you are not married, your classmate is married first, and you have to give him money as you like, or measure your financial ability.

    I think it's a good classmate, 300 copies of money is fine. 200 for the average student. This kind of human relationship, many people say that they can't bear it, and they spend a lot of money on part money all year round.

    I can't bear it, so I can follow the depth of economic ability and friendship as I like.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When we go with the money, the first thing is to vary from person to person, and the second is to do what we can. If you don't go to the wedding banquet, you can just go to the minimum standard. Of course, this minimum standard is set according to the standards in your common circle of friends, not according to the local minimum standards.

    At the very least, you have to make sure that you stay in this circle.

    Colleagues or ordinary friends, generally refer to people who can chat a few words when they usually meet, but will not make deep friends: 200-500 yuan; Good friends, generally refer to people who can help out and think of them when they go out to play: 500-800 yuan; The number of sworn friends who have nothing to say:

    1000 yuan +, if you are a dead friend who has nothing to say, then money is not a problem at all, get married, you must vigorously support it, as for the specific money and money, it depends on our economic situation at the time, after all, the relationship is really iron, and the buddy girlfriends will not only look at the money at this time to judge the relationship, and we must also be worthy of the trust of this relationship!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is no uniform rule for this.

    Score local living conditions.

    Affluence and one's own ability, etc.

    Consider how much money you have.

    Although it is said that this is all a human favor, courtesy, and exchange.

    But for a person with a low income, it is indeed very difficult.

    If classmates are too particular about money relationships.

    will gradually lose the innocent friendship of classmates.

    The current class reunion is not just to get back to the past.

    Are you innocent and innocent?

    Therefore, it depends on the above several situations.

    As long as it's not too big, I think it's okay.

    Try not to compare with each other.

    As long as each of them enters into their own abilities, it will be fine.

    I think what students care about the most is that you come to participate.

    The wedding of the newlyweds, not for the sake of the pursuit of money.

    If it is for the exclusive pursuit of money.

    This classmate just doesn't go.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, when students get married, the main thing is to cheer, and the money is slightly higher than the standard of the hotel.

    Some people have a lot of money and feel that they have deep feelings, which also gives students a problem, and it is very difficult to return how much more, and if it is high, it must be a financial burden.

    Some people still adopt a forgetful attitude, for example, if you give me 1000, I will give you 500, which hurts the feelings of classmates and tears their faces.

    Therefore, even if the classmates get married, the money should be moderate, not the more the better.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, you can pay only 200 yuan. If it's a little more, it's 500 yuan. If it is more than 500 yuan, this part of the money is not interesting, it is a bit much.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    More or less money can be paid, mainly depending on how well I have a relationship with this person, like my better friend, I may have to take more, indicating that our relationship is indeed extraordinary, and he will give me so much money at that time. So it doesn't matter if you have a little more or a little less, because the gifts are still exchanged, and what you take out today is likely to be taken back tomorrow.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Actually, I don't think it's a big problem with how much money you have. Because the Chinese have always advocated courtesy and exchanges, the more money you give, the more people will give you in the future. If you give less, he will give you less.

    Favors are like debts. As for the appropriate amount of money, this should be comprehensively judged by the local economic level, your personal economic conditions, and your relationship. A little less is given three or five hundred, and a little more is thousands, tens of thousands.

    Anyway, the other party also has to pay it back, and the money is just a capital turnover.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It would have been a joy for a classmate to get married. The current social climate is very bad. The money is getting high.

    Some of them have to pay a few shares. I don't have enough money for anyone. In the previous paragraph, the state stipulated that civil servants were not allowed to accept excessive gift money at red and white ceremonies.

    There are specialized agencies picketing. There is also a whistleblowing mechanism. I feel that the followers just reflect the congratulations between classmates.

    You don't have to stretch yourself out. A heart is good. Between 200 and 500 is fine.

    The state should guide the people well. Spend wisely.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Classmates get married, generally with the money is between 200 and 500, depending on the depth of your personal feelings, and then have your own salary status, family situation to measure, if the conditions are good, the feelings are good, then a little more, if average, then a little less, this part of the money is a gift exchange, who do you give to how much? When the time comes, people will also follow you, so according to your personal ability, don't be too far-fetched, in fact, classmates getting married with a member is a way to communicate feelings, don't think too much about mutual support.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think it's possible for classmates to get married only.

    Call you alone, there must be other classmates, then you can discuss how much money to give when you get married, so that everyone has completed the blessing, but also decent, like our classmates at the time were all said to be good not to receive gifts and no money, everyone can come together is very happy, in fact, this is also quite good. Don't get married for this money, look at your income, and another, look at how much of your personal contacts, if you evaluate, the average friend is two hundred to five hundred yuan, if friends, close to each other, in, come and go, past, big, then you can be more casual, this thing is endless, data, you have to look at the next can be discussed with classmates, unify the money. It won't be too embarrassing, generally speaking, this is also about your own income, although face is important, but married people, family members, wives and children are still more important, there is no need to waste money for the sake of face.

    This entourage depends on the consumption of your city, most of them are with how much money you have, and it also depends on all the classmates you go to can also discuss, sad and inappropriate, if you want to spend money, in fact, there is no need to talk much in this regard, there is no incivility, you give him 1000 today, he will pay you back 1000 tomorrow, and he will not find you too much, in fact, this is not too much, depending on the situation, it depends on your local **. Hello, the money is different in different places, there are hundreds of less, thousands of more, and the relationship between classmates is not the same. It is recommended that you classmates discuss with each other, and everyone will unify how much to give, so that you will not lose face.

    It's best to get to know the local customs of the marriage, and then pack a little more auspicious numbers). This question, the benevolent and the wise see the wise, according to their own economic strength and the relationship between the other party, must not be reluctant, true friends do not count.

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