After the divorce, what did you never expect?

After the divorce, she has a very big impact on her children, she may have a certain negative impact on her personality, she may be afraid of seeing people or things, and her unsound personality is always angry with others, these are things that I never expected.

After my ex-husband divorced, what I didn't expect was that he already had an ambiguous object when the two of us were still husband and wife, and the progress of the two of them was quite fast, and I felt that I was green, and I was very angry and remorseful.

Just like some financial disputes before marriage, the other party doesn't know, because we will come to me when we are divorced, although we are husband and wife, and we both bear the debt, but we don't want to come to me alone.

I never thought that after the divorce, my ex-husband would come to give me flowers and gifts, and ask myself out to watch a movie, and I felt very surprised at the time.

The main thing should be that I have a normal relationship with him as boyfriend and girlfriend, because before I knew that the concept of love was that I would not contact him after divorcing, but we are best friends now.

The thing that made me want to be the most unimaginable was that I didn't expect that my ex-husband before me would actually change the password of my house for me.

After the divorce, I thought that maybe my life would be gloomy, but in the following year, I still met the right person in my life.

When I was sleepy, I felt that I had misunderstood him in many things, but later, I found out that I had misunderstood him, and I thought I was very self-remorseful.

The moment I wanted to divorce in my marriage was basically because of the childrenIn many other aspects, they can tolerate and understand each other very well, but when it comes to the child, it will make a lot of troubleI still remember a more impressive time when the mother-in-law taught the child, the mother-in-law taught the child to rebel against the parent's education at will, and did not obey the parent's educationIn my opinion, this is not to spoil the child, but to harm the child, but he thinks that the mother-in-law's educational philosophy is right, the child is so young, should not receive too much disciplined education, for this reason really thought about divorce,Another time was when the child had a fever in the middle of the night, and what he wanted was not to take the child to the hospital immediately, but to choose to be at home by himselfEven if you have relevant experience, the cause of each fever is different, because many symptoms caused by fever may bring harm to the child for a lifetime.

First, there are many disagreements on the issue of children's education

I really have a lot of differences with him on the education of my children, his educational philosophy is completely different from mine, and in many cases he will have no reason to support his parents' education of children, and the education of his parents is completely different from ours, and some bad ideas will indeed make children develop in a not very good direction, I hope that children can have good three views, but he always does not stand on the united front with me, and wants to divorce countless times because of the problems of children's education.

2. Don't pay too much attention to your child's safety

He also doesn't pay much attention to the safety of the child, if I can choose again, I will definitely not choose to marry him again, I am really disappointed too many times, every time the child is sick, he always does not care, thinks that the child should digest by himself, thinks that the child is not too big a problem, but after all, he is not a doctor, and it is impossible to understand the real problems of the child every time, and he always does not care too much about the safety of the child.

The moment I want to divorce is because of the problems of the children, always against me, and always do not care about the problems of the children.

For example, after the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, my husband did not consider the problem from my point of view, but kept speaking for my mother-in-law; Then there was the urge to hit someone; Also, there are often quarrels over small things.

There are many moments in marriage when you want to divorce, for example, when you find that you are tired for a day, but the other party does not know your hard work, and has been complaining about you, and when the other party can't understand you and always quarrels or has a cold war with you.

There are a lot of them. The housework that can't be cleaned up, the messy kitchen after cooking, the urine stains on the toilet, the husband's incomprehension, and the financial pressure will make me want to divorce.

Quarrels between two people, during the Cold War, when they were wronged, when they met time and there was no room for negotiation, when two people took care of each other, when they were more lonely and helpless, and so on.

The other party is inconsiderate of himself, does not do housework, only complains, is not self-motivated, gets by, does not care about the children, etc.

I have thought about the children's tuition fees, education issues, and the pressure of life, and divorce is a big deal, but when it comes to marriage problems, it is not a big deal.