Did you hate your parents after they divorced?

<> my parents divorced, I would definitely hate them a little.

Hate that they gave me an incomplete home. Hate them for splitting my warmest family into two halves, one half for my father and the other half for my mother. They have a deep river ditch, just like the two borders of Chu and Han, and both sides are not allowed to set foot on each other's territory.

But I didn't know that this hurt me deeply. Let me always think that the cradle full of love and warmth is split in half.

I also hated why the relationship between them was gone so quickly. What about the love when they were once in love? Do feelings really fade away over time?

Have they all forgotten the promise they made to each other when they stepped into the wedding hall? Have they ever thought about what I should do as their child, but they don't know that my heart is like a knife? I don't want to be with my father or my mother, I want a complete home.

I want to grow in the arms of both of you. I can't believe there's no affection between you. I miss the time we spent together as a family, but time is so ruthless, so ruthless that it can ruin a long time.

When you're divorced, you're free, and you don't have to be noisy and hurt each other every day.

My parents divorced, and I didn't hate them。But I don't understand why my mom didn't come to see me much when I was a child, and only remembered to come to see me when I was older. I don't hate them thoughBut I still complained in my heart about why I didn't have a complete family

I also envy those children who have mom and dad,But I think my parents also have a hard time, maybe they are barely together, our family is still unhappy, maybe it's better to be separated.

Divorce hurts the most is the childrenAlthough when I was a child, people asked me if I wanted my mother, and I said I didn't want to, but when I was sad, I still wanted to have a mother to confide in and comfort me. But that's how it endedIt didn't help me to blame them, so I had to open my heart and live my life. Coming to this world is a fact that cannot be changedNo matter what, you have to live happily in order to make the trip worthwhile.

Although I grew up in a single-parent family, I still got a lot of love since I was a child, I grew up with my grandfather, my grandfather is the closest and most beloved person in my life, I feel that without him, I don't know what it will become, single-parent family However, my father has been working outside for many years, and he only returned home once during the Chinese New Year. I don't hate my parents' divorce for a large part because of my grandfather.

Because he gave me enough loveI don't feel like I'm a child that no one wants, even if I don't have a complete family, I'm also very happy. There is a grandfather's love that fills in the missing part of the parents。Now that I've grown up, I understand them, and they may have gotten married on the spur of the moment, and their personality discord led to divorce.

I can't force them to be together, there is no affection between them anymore, so divorce is the best solution.

Don't look at Master Ben so optimistic, but in fact, Master Ben was also very miserable when he was a child, my parents divorced because of discord, but I don't hate them, because they made me know that I can't be too selfish, and I must respect the ideas of the other half!

It can be said that my dad is the kind of person who has a very bad temper, but he is also very reasonable, but once his temper comes up, he can't control himself, and sometimes he will beat people, but it is not to the extent of domestic violence, so this is also the reason why I am just angry with my dad and don't hate him!

But my mother is the kind of woman with a very strange temper, but my mother is very hardworking, the house is always cleaned by her spotless, every time I clean the house I will think of my mother, think of her serious appearance when cleaning, I find that I really love my mother!

Such two people can only walk together because of love, but unfortunately the personalities of both parties are too inappropriate, so my dad is such a stubborn person still chose to break up with my mother peacefully, but I am very grateful to my dad for waiting for me to grow up before I began to find the other half, otherwise I was so young at that time to find another woman to be my mother, what if it was a vicious stepmother!

After my mother divorced, I went to a far away place, sometimes my mother would call me and send me some money, I know that my mother still loves me, but she can't be by my side all the time, and then my mother also has a new family, I will be a guest when I have time, and my stepfather is also an honest man, and he is really good to my mother, at least he can tolerate my mother's temper, so I think their separation is also to make each other happier!

If the child has a grudge against his parents, he needs to channel this psychology in time, otherwise it will have a significant negative impact on his entire life. These influences are reflected in one's own life and work, the personality will become dark and melancholy, and the heart will also be tired of marriage, affecting one's whole life.

Resentment towards our parents will only happen when our parents do something that hurts us. If you find that you are resentful of your parents in your heart, you need to do the following two things to get rid of this resentment.

Channeling inner emotions and slowing down resentment towards our parentsResentment towards our parents will begin to affect our lives. At the stage of going to school, I began to hate learning; During the work phase, I was distracted at the beginning of my work, so that I was always scolded for making mistakes at work. Such a psychology will trigger a chain reaction, making people feel that this period is particularly unlucky.

In fact, the root cause is the influence of inner resentment, which is behind the scenes.

At this time, we need to find our most trusted friends and relatives and confide in them about the gloom in our hearts. After expressing the dissatisfaction in the heart, it will give people a sense of release, and the mood will be much more comfortable. If you can be comforted by a friend, you can do even more good.

In addition to self-resolution, the guidance of relatives and friends around you is also very important. If there are sunny and positive people around us, we might as well get along with them more, so that their sunshine and warmth can also shine into our hearts and infect our sad emotions, so as to get out of the haze and learn to be sunny and look at problems positively.

It is said that "those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black", and sunny and positive friends make us more dependent. The heart is full of resentment, and the other party can resolve this resentment, and at this stage, following them will make our resentment gradually dissipate.

As the parents of our children, we can't control it, but we can't let our lives fall because of the divorce of our parents. At this time, you should eliminate resentment and make yourself sunny and strong.

If you want to persuade your parents to divorce, there must be their last resort. They also don't want to make a mess of their lives, they want to, but for some reason, getting to where they are today is not what they want. So you have to understand them more and slowly resolve the resentment in your heart with your kind heart.

It's normal for you to be resentful, after all, you have no home from now on, and you are still young so you can't understand the helplessness of not having love in marriage and forcing to be together. Although they are divorced, Mom and Dad still love you, and you will understand one day, and the psychological resentment will be relieved.

When the parents are divorced, of course, it is a big blow to the children, and it is understandable that they are dissatisfied with anyone. But this is your own fate, your parents are feelings, you have to look away from discord, accept this reality, live well, make yourself independent, don't be influenced by them, and love yourself well.

Maybe you haven't grown up to a certain age, so you don't understand your parents' choices and feel that they have hurt you. In fact, as children, we can't change the parents' decisions, so we can only adjust our own mentality, and don't blame the parents, if we can go on, they will definitely not choose like this, we as children, what we can do is to take care of ourselves, not to cause trouble to parents.

Try to let your emotions go down slowly, because divorce is also a labor pain for them, and you shouldn't resent them because of these things.

In this case, the divorce of your parents has a great impact on you, and their behavior is a big blow to you. You can talk to your parents and tell them not to get divorced. Tell them that you want to have a complete family.

Parents divorce that they have to do, two people have no feelings anymore is no need to live together, for you may be hurt, but as long as they are really good to you, you should understand them, not resentful of them.

If your parents have divorced, and you have a grudge against them in your heart, this is mainly because your parents divorced, so that you lost a complete family. That's why you have this resentment in your heart. In this case, tell your parents what you really think.

This is your fault, adults divorce has the hardships of adults, as children we should understand them, sadness is unavoidable, but don't have resentment.

Originally, the divorce of parents is very harmful to the children, and it is normal for you to have resentment towards them, but sometimes you have to see why they are divorced, and then you will slowly understand.

Divorce is due to the discord between your parents, although this is helpless, but you have no way to change you, don't hate at this time, because even if they divorce, they will love you the same.

You have to keep a good attitude, the divorce of your parents will definitely have a great impact on the next generation, which is why you must firmly believe that you can get better happiness and you can give them better in the future.

The reason why parents divorce may be because they have been in a relationship for a long time, and they have no love, so they should have wanted to divorce a long time ago, and at this time you should also do your own thing, because you want to mix in the affairs of adults, and you don't know how to mix from **.

You should let yourself get rid of this resentful thought, there are many unknown reasons for the divorce of both parents, and as a child you should respect their choice.

At this time, you should adjust your mentality, your parents divorced because of their emotional discord, so you should look away a little.

The environment we live in is undergoing a variety of changes all the time, with the continuous development of social economy and the continuous progress of science and technology, the environment we live in has undergone many changes. But I have to say that the environment we live in is changing all the time, so there are many uncertain factors, so it is very likely that many families will divorce due to various reasons, and for divorce, the impact on children is very great. So if the parents have a grudge against them after the divorce, this phenomenon is normal.

First of all, it is more understandable for this situation to happen, because every child, he will hope that his family is very complete, so when his parents choose to divorce, he feels very angry, or he hates his parents very much, so this situation is more likely to appear in the minds of many people, or emotion, it can be said that this phenomenon is relatively normal.

We will find that many parents, after the divorce, the child's personality and all aspects will undergo a lot of changes, including communication, communication, hobbies and so on will change. We all know that a complete family is a very important thing for a child, including the cultivation of his values and communication, so a complete family is very important for children.

So for children, we should not hate our parents excessively, because Chunyu's words do not change any facts. And when we grow up, we find that the truth is not as simple as we imagined, although they have done something wrong to a certain extent, causing us a certain amount of harm, but we choose to forgive them, to a certain extent, but also liberate themselves, which is not a good thing.

This phenomenon is normal. Because the divorce of parents has a great impact on children, and it will also hurt the children's psychology, leaving a very serious psychological shadow.

This phenomenon is of course abnormal, because your psychology has been distorted, indicating that you are very unhappy in your family of origin.

It is normal, the divorce of parents is very harmful to children, and many children's situations are different.