What hasn t the man given you to say you don t want to continue?

Most gentle and virtuous girls are suitable for wives.

That should not have given you a sense of security.

He didn't give you money or anything like that.

I don't think the money was given to you.

Actually, that's love.

Companionship, money, care, sincerity, security, when a man does not give you these things, it means that he does not like you, and has no feelings for you, such love is not okay, you must be brave to say goodbye to him.

His bank card, his money, his respect, his support, his sincerity, if a man has not given you these things, it means that he does not love you.

Never give you any promises, won't give you money to spend, unwilling to buy you very expensive gifts, unwilling to give you the keys to the house, if a guy has not done a single thing in these things, then you should break up with him, because he doesn't care about you, and is not willing to pay a little for you.

It is said that men are very careless and not as careful as women. In fact, when a man falls in love with someone, he will become more and more careful, always thinking about what the other party needs, and then thinking of himself, if you are bullied, whether the man is tall or short, he will be your "evil force", if he really likes you, he will solve your problems and protect you from the wind and rain.

On the other hand, if you are facing a difficult situation or being bullied, you don't see them, and your mobile phone can't be reached, it shows that he doesn't love you, and the man who really loves you, he will feel that it is a matter of course to care for the woman he loves.

When a man loves a woman, in addition to giving her love, he must also give her attention, everyone is fair, and he must pay attention to coexistence with others, not to mention the woman he loves.

If you can't even give you that kind of thing, then you are a money-paying woman in front of him, no matter how much you invest in him, no matter how good you invest in him, he will not consider the problem from your perspective, and even think that what you do for him is all taken for granted, in love, respect is the minimum rule.

If a man loves you, no matter how busy he is, he will spend time with you, at least when you need someone to accompany him, he will be idle, walk around with you, go to eat delicious food, and spend time with you.

On the other hand, a man who keeps saying "I'm busy" or "I don't have time", and he doesn't even want to take a little time out to spend with you, indicating that he doesn't love you enough, this kind of man has no need to persevere.

Although it is vulgar to mention money, money is a very important thing in this society, and there is a saying that says: "Although money is not everything, without money, it is absolutely impossible". Their food, clothing, housing and transportation are inseparable from money, so money is a very important thing, if a man, bluntly said very well, but at the level of money, but at the level of money, but is very stingy with you, and does not give you money, then it shows that you are worthless in his heart, let alone love.

Women have a strong desire to control money, a man is reluctant to give you money, so don't be stupid to pay for him, because such a man is not worthwhile, a man gives a woman money, which requires a woman to have a sense of belonging, even if a man is a small family, but when dealing with a beloved woman, he will still be very generous.

I didn't spend money on you, I didn't buy you flowers, I didn't take you on a trip, I didn't surprise you, I didn't buy you what you liked.

If you are not given support, understanding, tolerance, preference, trust, if you are not given these few things, don't continue to love anymore.

His respect, his understanding, his support, his concern, his preference, if the man has not given you these few things, leave him as soon as possible.

In the process of talking about feelings, to see if a man can give you a future, first of all, we must look at the man's ability, love alone is not enough, but also bread will have a future.

can't give you care, can't give you companionship, can't give you love, can't give you trust, can't give you respect, can't give you loyalty, such a man should not be with him and have no future.

If you can't give you enough security, can't give you enough time to accompany you, and don't have enough patience to give you, there is no future.

Even if you love a man again, if he can't give you these 3 things, you don't love it.

1. I can't give you his care.

When a man falls in love with you, his concern for you will become an instinct, so if a man says he loves you, but can't give you the care he wants, then, his love for you is just talking, not loving you from the bottom of his heart, so, at this time, you don't have to pay stupidly, like a man like this, he just wants to play with you, and he doesn't have feelings for you, when he gets tired of playing and gets tired of it, he will definitely turn around and leave you without hesitation, so, If you accidentally fall in love with such a man, after you notice it, you must see it clearly as soon as possible and wake up as soon as possible.

2. He can't give you his pampering and accommodation.

If a man really loves you and wants to live with you for the rest of his life, after he is with you, he will definitely give you his spoiling and accommodation, and will spoil you as a happy little princess. And if the man you love, he always loves to care about you, and many times he will get into trouble with you because of some trivial things, then, obviously, he doesn't really love you, so he will care about you so much. I don't know how to spoil you at all.

3. He can't give you the company you want.

It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, and what women crave most in love is the company of men. And if a man, if he really loves you, then, after being with you, he must be willing to spend time with you, many times, he would rather play less games by himself, but also accompany you, of course, even if he is really busy, so busy that he has no time to accompany you to do what you like to do, at this time, he will not snub you because of work, but will try to squeeze out time for you, for example:

After work, he'll accompany you to watch your favorite movie or go out with you for a meal you like.

And if a man, he will say "I love you" to you all day long, but, in front of work and you, he will always choose to work first and you second, then, he must not love you so much, in this case, you should stop wasting your feelings, and die as soon as possible.

Some people on Zhihu will ask: What are the prerequisites for falling in love? There is a high praise review below:

The prerequisite for falling in love is fairness. Indeed, in love, everyone is fair, and only by getting along fairly can we go the long way. However, there are a large number of men who do not learn to respect women, and only regard women as spiritual sustenance.

If you love a man very much, but he can't give you even the most basic respect, then he must not love you anymore. A man who loves you will definitely respect you. He can put you in the same position as himself, he will also consider your feelings, take care of your hobbies, and value your opinions.

A man who does not learn to respect you will often impose his own ideas on you, and any suggestions you give him are all vanity.

When I encounter difficulties, I will definitely not discuss with you, but I will tell you later, or even if there is, I will not tell you at all. When two people are together, it is to bear each other, support each other, and deal with things together in a negotiated manner, so that the emotions can last for a long time. If a man says he loves you, but never respects you in action, he probably just treats the relationship as a game.

This kind of man, let go as soon as possible when you encounter it, otherwise it will only be you who will be sad.

True love must be strictly implemented down to the details. As Sanmao said, if love is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will not go far. If a man is with you and wants to do this, if he only says a word or two and can't give you a specific promise, this kind of love is very perfunctory.

We want to live a real life, and it is difficult to solve real problems by just lip service. True love is the desire to give, to give you the effort to become better and better, to give you a better future. Although the heart-warming words are super good, they can't even give you a basic life, which is not love.

Many women are often hurt in their relationships, probably because they believe in men. Therefore, women must recognize the reality, and no matter how affectionate they are, they can't match the specific life. I can't give you people in the future, no matter how much I can't do it, and the one who will be wronged in the end will be myself.

Money is actually what everyone wants to have, if a man can't even give you the most basic house, or some of the most basic necessities of life, you ask him for it, he can't take it out, no material love, no matter how good it is to you, it is useless.

can't give you her sincerity, can't give you enough security, can't make you feel at ease.

You can't give money security, you can't pay for true love, you can't give girls enough security, and happiness is useless even if it's good for you.

Your own money and dignity, as long as it is your hard-earned money, don't leave a penny, the other party has hands and feet to spend money, Tan Poor State can earn it yourself, dignity must be taken away, otherwise the other party will trample on it infinitely.

will take away his money, his love, his patience, his tolerance, his good temper.

Your own money, your own sincerity, your own dignity, if one day a man doesn't love you anymore, then he will definitely take these things away.

Companionship, if in a relationship, the man always does not accompany you, then it must be that the man does not love you.

Money, if this man is not willing to spend money on you in a relationship, then this man definitely has no intention of going with you all the time.

Security. This man always has a lot of people of the opposite sex, and he didn't keep a distance from some before, didn't give you enough security, and definitely didn't like you, and you don't need to continue to love.

The first is money, and then it also includes time, and there is love, and this is also the lowest cost to pay, if the other party is not willing to give, it means that the other party does not love you at all.

Didn't give him his time, didn't give you his money, didn't give you his care, these three things are important to everyone.

No matter what age they are, affection is a spiritual experience in their quest for perfection. In other words, everyone has self-worth, but for some people, feelings seem to be for the sake of mystery. These people also show that they love you very much when they fall in love, but they never want to go on with you for a long time, they also think it is a normal social problem, and emphasize that falling in love is a process of trying hard, in fact, this concept will make them gradually lose their self-worth, and in the future, when they meet someone they really like, they will inadvertently reveal that they don't care.

When faced with feelings, women are usually more likely to lose the elderly. Many people say that once a woman falls in love, she will be stunned, no matter what the other party says, she will firmly believe it, and she can't tell whether the other party really likes herself. How the hell should the woman be distinguished?

I think no matter how much a man treats you, if you don't give these 3 things, don't be tempted anymore, it's not worth it.

The social circle is actually a more personal and private circle, and only the people who are most familiar with themselves can enter their own social circle. Whether you can enter the other party's social circle can tell whether the other party has feelings for you. That man will selflessly detail you to his family and friends, and if he is always alone with his friends or perfunctory in response to your doubts, it means that he doesn't particularly care about you, and may just feel comfortable with you.

A boy is generally prepared for the future of life, and after all, he will have to take on a family in the future. Overall planning is very important to him, and the man who loves you will definitely take you into account. The future development of her heart has your presence.

Extensive women themselves must not have a layout for the future. Women generally don't think about whether they can find out whether their boyfriend's love is true through overall planning, but that point is more able to show the amount of influence you have in his mind.

A man who loves you will definitely find time to contact you and will also find time to meet you. People will become dependent when they are in love, and the man who loves you will definitely take action to love you, which is the love that we are more likely to experience. True love usually does not need to be investigated, because true love is revealed from the eyes, and it will be put into action, if you want to have a good love, then you need to understand the other party's love on the premise of sincere giving, do not be in your own imaginary love.

Every relationship is something to be cherished. Many practical elements of this social consciousness cannot be avoided, but a good relationship requires continuous investment in order to be harvested, that is, after continuous investment, this relationship can be warmed up. You don't have to be depressed and face your feelings.