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This is at least much better than a love triangle, you and your brother like each other, if you are a love attachment, don't give up easily, girls should have their own persistence. For my brother, I think I can only say I'm sorry, because it's better for one person to hurt than for everyone, and time will dilute the feeling. But another point is that the brother you said is starting to avoid you now, in fact, you still have to pay attention to him, I believe that he is a person who values feelings, so he will avoid you.
There is no good solution to this relationship, you can go with the flow, but you can also solve it in your own way, if it is me, I will explain the situation directly to my brother, if he really loves you, he will forgive you, after all, love is the only thing in the world that cannot be forced. Younger brother, he should be more like a man, he shouldn't let everyone worry, he should be straightforward, love is love, there is no reason. And he and his brother are real friends, and he is a man, there should be a good way to solve this matter, I don't want to say that my brother has no sense of responsibility, after all, friendship and love have different status in everyone's heart.
You should let your brother and brother have a face-to-face conversation with you, don't always be who is hiding from whom, and face the difficulties head-on if you want to solve them. (My brother is a good person, if you can have a lover and eventually become a family, remember not to make my brother too sad, leaving him for a while is the best choice).
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I believe that you are not big, if you can, don't choose, everyone is a friend, so that no one will be hurt, and at the same time there are two more care and love, after a long time, it will slowly fade, and the friendship will become deeper and deeper, so it is not better. Best wishes.
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It's useless for you to work hard alone, if your brother really likes you, you should be able to stand up and deal with things between brothers, if he can't take responsibility, in fact, his liking for you is also discounted and can be sacrificed.
In addition, you also need to self-examine, if you really don't like your brother, you should make it clear to him, you shouldn't maintain an ambiguous relationship to accept so many good. Don't say anything that you can't bear to hurt others, procrastination is the biggest harm, in fact, in the final analysis, you are only because you are reluctant to be good to others.
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If you're still young, just let it go, and whatever you do will hurt someone. Think about your ideals or something, don't always be immersed in love, even if it's a girl, you have to be self-reliant in the future. Let the mind calm down, and it will not be so uncomfortable.
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If you don't like brother, don't call him brother, don't accept his favor, and don't talk to him. Otherwise, what are you doing? I don't like people, and I give people hope, which is very bad.
Don't like that brother either. His brother is perhaps more important than you.
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Make it clear to the other person.
Whoever you like, you can be with whomever you like.
If you don't like it, be honest, you won't be happy with him.
If he really loves you, he will definitely agree to you and your brother in a relationship.
If he is a narrow-minded person, he can only endure it. You can also ignore him for a while.
It's going to be okay slowly, and maybe you'll be brother and sister.
Nothing can be forced.
Especially the emotional thing.
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What's the best choice in this...
Why can't you cross that hurdle, is it because he doesn't love you enough or something else?
Why do you think you should be like this ...
I recommend you to watch the winter love song of three people on Hunan Satellite TV...
Perhaps this will give you some answers ...
As far as I can see. Do you like to be together?。。。
Don't leave yourself with regrets ... I'm sure my brother will understand you and my brother...
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In friendship, one person plus one person equals two worlds! One person plus one person in love is only equal to one world! A touch of concern is friendship, deep longing is love The key to the difference lies in the frequency of meeting, as well as the content of the conversation and the distance between the conversation.
When there is a pure friendship between men and women, they usually only see each other once in at least three months, and most of the content of the conversation is about international livelihood matters that are not painful, and the distance between the conversation must be separated by a table. Oh, love doesn't need to be talked about, it's just sticking together anyway. Friendship can't fight for anything with love, friendship has a sense of proportion, the basis of friendship is mutual understanding and consideration, it is a kind of appreciation rather than possession, a person can have many friends at the same time; Love is the most intimate relationship between two people, tolerance and love are the guarantee of its existence, love is a certain degree of possession and uniqueness, a person cannot have many shares of love at the same time.
What is love? Love is the sun, one more is too hot, and everything on the earth is smoking; One less is too cold, and the world is cold and silent. What is friendship?
Friendship is the sea, one more drop it may not be wide, and one less drop it is equally vast. There is only one human heart, and there is only one person who loves. Every man has a pair of hands, and with your left hand hold my right hand, and the friendship thus extends indefinitely.
Love pays attention to one step, people without it don't think about it, and people with it are full of energy! Friendship advertises that the Japanese potato bridge has accumulated over time, and today the number of jujubes is lost here, and tomorrow it will be made up from there. Love exists for one day, and the loved one is happy for 24 hours.
The role of friendship is often sung in the long song of the memorial service and engraved into the small poem of the epitaph.
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Love accompanies you to old age to death, while friendship is not permanent.
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If you had to choose between love and friendship, you would have chosen love. I think that's when you have to confess your heart to her, and if she accepts you, you can continue to work love. The premise is that you can give her happiness, and if you can't give her happiness, I think it's better to be friends.
Because to love someone is to see that the other person gets happiness, and you will be happy, and the concept of happiness is not to get her happiness. Only when both of them get what they like, that is true happiness! Do you understand?
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Friend: Money can be said to be very important, but it is not the most important, people say that unity can have strength and harmony to make money! Love, affection, and friendship are connected.
Only with friendship can there be love, and with love there will be family affection.
I have also thought about the same problem, even family, friendship, love also confuses me,", because I have been knocked down by 3 emotions, so I can't be sad to despair. In these relatives, friends, love is actually one lack of which is not very good for your life, everything is good and bad, the same everything in the world has advantages and disadvantages, maybe you have been hurt by some kind of feelings or heard a friend say that it has become a doubt for you, so there will be such a problem! I can only give you the opinion of my experience:
Parents must be the dearest, after all, they brought you into this world, no matter how bad they are to their children, but they are still the closest people, sometimes you empathize with yourself, why are you angry when you are a parent in the future, you will let your children have the illusion of precedent in childhood, you will understand. Maybe there are incompetent parents in the world, but there are also unfilial children in the world, friends, this is proportional! There is also friendship, your parents bring you to the world, and friendship is part of building your future life"Don't tell me that you won't look for it, you can always get married"These may be shameful and ridiculous, everyone will have this day coming, that is because you have grown up and learned the truth of things to continue to pass on this love, you also have this day, the same will be their parents in the future life, love is also established from friendship, so everyone must control and maintain the 3 related family affections!
To anyone, things and feelings, we must be more sincere, more solid, take a step back, more friendly, more tolerant, because even if what I get is not right, but the feeling of sincerity in everything makes me feel at ease, at least I get a comfortable and comfortable life! The mentality of friends is the most important thing, when you see other people's problems or sore spots, you have to think about what you will do if you encounter them, maybe this problem will arise in front of you at any time. I unintentionally saw your problems, but I left my footprints because of a sincere heart.
But I just want to do something that makes me happy, and I do what I have experienced. Try to give you honest answers that I can personally or know—the right truth!
Friendship is precious, love is more expensive, if she is really your friend, she will not be angry because you pursue love and ignore her, if she is really angry, it can only prove that she is an unqualified friend, thank you I fainted, do you love your boyfriend, love him more, don't let him think that you don't value him, your friend is not good, why do you have to communicate.
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