The boy who likes me is forced to go on a blind date due to family pressure again, where should I go

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
65 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you have the answer in your heart, why ask someone else?

    He can't say it's too much to do this, because you and he are not sure that they are boyfriend and girlfriend, and you also feel that he is not your marriageable partner, so it is normal for him to go on a blind date, besides, can you tell whether you really like him or a feeling of being liked?

    He is more rational than before, how can he be rational about the law, if he really wants to continue with you, will he refuse to go on a blind date, or does it mean that you are both one of each other's choices? Man is a very strange animal, sometimes I don't like it very much, but I don't want to put it down, I'd rather put it in the palm of my hand and get moldy than let it go with the wind.

    Love is not a realistic thing, but to last, it must be realistic, if he really loves you, let him show his attitude to the family!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The following can be judged from your description:

    1: Compared to his feelings for you, you give more, and you sink deeper.

    2: You are not particularly important in his mind, otherwise he will not go on a blind date, he has his own plans, don't listen to his reasons.

    4: Are You Really Inseparable From Him?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have to determine whether he loves you, whether you love him, sometimes a wrong step, maybe you will regret it for life, the reality of society is an unchangeable fact, what we have to do is; Be yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't let such a boy go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Trust your decision.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just because you can't forget doesn't mean you can have it.

    You need to distinguish between what you think in your heart and what you have in reality, there is a fundamental difference.

    Just staying in the emotional world and not daring to face the reality, in the end you will only suffer yourself and make people laugh.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Give yourself a little more time to wait and go to him! Ask him for the final answer.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How can you be happy when you marry someone who doesn't love you, if he loves you, you can try to love him maybe he will be happy, I wish you must be happy!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The main thing is that you see whether your husband is good to you or not, if he is good to you, even if you don't love him, you will slowly accept him, but at least you have to open your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I've seen it, there may be no result, this kind of is reluctant, sooner or later there is no emotion. But it's not absolute, unless you don't have any affection for him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're already on your way to hell.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, it's okay to be good for you, it's not good for you, and I'll regret dying.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Online dating these things, to be honest, are too outrageous and fake. This sentence is said by the host in Love Lianliankan and Non-Sincere Do Not Disturb. Now I'll pass it on to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Not necessarily, he may be forced to stay at home during this time, wait a minute, if he really likes you, he will consider you first and will leave you a place!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Give up, it's unreliable, you don't know anything about his family, all you know on the Internet is his good aspects, and when you get married, some bad things are exposed, and you can't stand it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There's nothing wrong with liking and being liked, but the other party seems to be too weak, and today's society is free love, so it's up to you to choose. People nowadays are very realistic and materialistic.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's better to be realistic, and it is not easy to marry far away.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Give it up, it's inconvenient to wait until your parents are old and want to take care of them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's see if your family asks them to go to him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To put it mildly, the first online dating is unreliable, after all, you don't know what the other party is, what he does, whether he can be responsible for your future life, and each other's parents will not agree to you being together, so find a partner in the truth!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, you should use your persistence to convince your boyfriend's family.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on where he is in your heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since this is already the case, no matter what he is forced to do, I think you still broke off, he didn't respect your feelings in the first place, and if he got married first and still came to beg you to continue, he decisively ignored him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not good, the guy who played you is gone, and the man who likes you may not tell you that he is going to get married??? Just want to have more fun, you should be happy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Are you sure he loves you? Have you ever been to his house and seen his family? Are you sure he didn't have contact with that woman before he got married? Are you sure that a woman would marry someone who doesn't have any feelings for herself? Are you sure you're not his plaything?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    At least I won't. Marriage is built on the basis of love, and a marriage without love is like a pool of stagnant water, dull and tasteless. Don't be too sad, God won't stop you, it's just a matter of time. He is married, bless him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, love is just a part of life! Even if he gets married, he can still go back and fall in love! Even if you go back and find your original girlfriend, it's possible.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is such a case in the world, it was really encountered by you, alas, accept your fate, wish him happiness, don't blame him, there must be a reason.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I can say that I am a woman! Baby, you should be glad that it is your misfortune for such a man to marry him! If he loves you, he won't marry someone else! Love is proved by actions, not by words, look at the point, there are a lot of good men, and he is not the only one!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You love him more than he loves you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's time for you to let go Love isn't life all you need to live a beautiful life The kind of man you don't want to know that you are going to marry someone else and don't make it clear to you What's the use of you continuing to be sad He is no longer your boyfriend but someone else's husband He will be the father of her children in the future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Some men are also involuntarily. A lover doesn't have to be at home. Heart.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Often defeated by reality, it's not that he doesn't love you, but he doesn't love you deep enough, in fact, think about him leaving you is a relief for you, bless them, I believe you will find a better one.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    People don't love you at all, wake up, all you have to do is live better than him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Silly girl, you should hate him if you are played.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If this is really the case, it is better not to marry him, I believe you can find a better one than him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    My family spoils me a lot, I won't z

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Why are you forced by family pressure, I want to know your situation,

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It doesn't matter if he's in the past, or you can find me.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    There are so many comrades now. What's so heart-wrenching, find another one!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    China pays attention to the right door, and if the conditions are too far away, he will work hard and wholeheartedly, then it doesn't matter.

    When I was in college, I also had a lot of ambitions with a few friends who wanted to open a store and do business. Have one's head in the clouds. To put it bluntly, I am lazy and want to climb to the sky in one step.

    Now that I have graduated, there are many things and the society is so realistic. I don't dare to think about it anymore, now I work part-time, review IELTS, and focus on PR.

    I understand your boyfriend better, when my parents asked me what I was doing after graduation, I said that I would do business or open a store with anyone, and if they dissuaded me a little, I would be angry, in fact, my self-esteem was too weak, and I could feel that I was weak but I didn't dare to admit it. After graduating, I had an epiphany about how simple I used to think. The future must be down-to-earth.

    My feeling is that if he has been in this state for a long time or has no intention of changing, you can consider breaking up, and the long pain is better than the short pain. Don't pay attention to saying that your material is that his self-esteem is too poor or his ability is too weak.

    You have to think clearly, your parents sent you abroad so that you can have a good future, and you should listen to what they say. The future is yours, don't waste your time on issues you're bound to struggle with.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's better to break up, you two are completely people from two worlds, and your life circle is completely different. He is a typical hatred of the rich + delusion of being killed, and he has unrealistic wishes, but he is just thinking about it. You are the pearl of the palm of the family, and you have a beautiful imagination of unrealistic love without going through the world.

    In the future, if you get married, how far can you go without having a common language at all?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    What does this kind of man want him to do? Let's find a better one! It's okay to have no money, at least for you to work hard and persevere!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Marriage must not only have a foundation of love, but also be a good match. Different family backgrounds, different education levels, think about different concepts, different life pursuits, how to live like this?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In fact, it's okay if this kind of boyfriend is divided, if he cares a lot about you, he will definitely work hard for you, and now he is still angry with you, he is not worthy of your love at all, even if he is not as educated as you, as long as he works hard for you, don't hurt your family for this kind of person, because I am a person from the past.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    This man should find a rural one, he will have a sense of achievement, will have more reasons to be content with the status quo, even if you marry him for a while, he will not feel that he has a treasure, on the contrary, no matter what you say in the future what he is not good about, he will feel that you dislike him for being poor, and then lose his temper with you, the man who loses his temper is the most useless, because he can only quibble with women, there is no love, there is no money, he doesn't even have the heart to struggle, and he doesn't let you say anything, and when he says it, he loses his temper and says that you dislike him for being poor, Do you feel aggrieved? Love him for what? The opposition of your parents is right, you marry him, and the hard days are behind.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I think you should give up this relationship, not because of material things or because of family opposition, but because your boyfriend can't see what kind of person you are, he doesn't believe in you enough and has a little inferiority. I think you should be kind to yourself and don't have to be wronged.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It can be seen that he is a selfish person who only thinks of himself, even if he is together, he is a sinful and unmotivated man, and that's it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Divide it. A man can have nothing, but he must have a motivated goal and a heart that loves you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You? It's nothing, it's normal!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    A man who has no ability is like this bear.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Thank you for letting me see through myself. Don't worry, I'm not your boyfriend, it's just that what you said is the same as me.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Such a man is not worth your struggle!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    What you have to do now, buy a bouquet of flowers, immediately confess to her, and put your Gu Dao

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Time will copy you to understand love, time can prove love, and can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by DAO time.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

    How nice would it be if all the sorrow, the pain, the failures were fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and your own pain, failure, and sorrow are always true.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Own business.

    Bai is your own master, don't expect others, because the consequences and impact of your choice are borne by yourself rather than by someone else for you, as long as you don't feel sorry and regretful for the present, do not be worthy of your heart, why care about other people's feelings, you are not with others, you should shoot when you should shoot, take your girlfriend to Kyushu, be true yourself, don't leave regrets.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Maybe it's a little tentative, or that your love for her is not too obvious, some things can't just be said, if it's my girlfriend, I'll go over immediately, even if I can't be together, at least I fought for it personally,

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Don't, the world is so big, why bother to spend unrequited love all the time!

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Whether a boy will be forced by family pressure or not depends on his personality, but boys generally bring it.

    What's the use of his parents being happy with you, it's you who marry and not them. Of course, parental consent is the best, but it is the relationship between you and him that matters.

    If you don't think it's appropriate, just say no, but you can also try to deal with it. I still think that marriage is built on an emotional foundation.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Love is a matter of two people, and the joy of the two is fundamental, and after getting along, they have a feeling of happiness, dependence, and happiness with each other, that is, there is fate. After a period of running-in, I have the desire to hold hands and grow old. Then it will be a matter of course, and the knot will be knotted.

    On the other hand, if you know each other for a while, you don't have the above feelings, or only a little liking and that's it, or only one of you has feelings, then it will be difficult to scream alone. Even if you are reluctantly combined, your future life will not be happy and happy. As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet!

    What do you say?

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    Yes, you can be friends even if you can't be lovers.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    First of all, he likes you, and secondly, if you don't like him, you don't promise him, and you don't want to be friends with him, go to his house.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    Yes. Sometimes under pressure. Men mostly compromise.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    Just do it. Everything we do lies in the feelings of others. Both sides are satisfied and are the greatest satisfaction.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    Yes, but after getting along for a long time, there will be feelings.

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