We quarreled again and I really don t know what to do anymore?

I've had the same thing as you this year. I love my boyfriend very much, and he and I always quarrel over trivial things. I was very upset about this, I went to the temple to worship, I printed the scriptures, and I donated money to build the temple, but it didn't work.

Later, I went to the temple and asked for the Bodhisattva Sutra, which I recited every day. Do you know? We can't see our past lives, we don't know what we have done wrong, and those unjust creditors will affect us and make our emotional life happy.

I don't know how old you are, I'm not superstitious, I'm really persuading you to believe in Buddhism. No one should take anyone too seriously, it's you who can't run away, it's not that you can't ask for it. Recite the scriptures well, do more good deeds, and good fortune will come naturally.

If you study the Buddha and believe in the Buddha, you can talk to him calmly, and he will listen to you. We're all going to be fine. I'm fine with my boyfriend now.

You'll be fine too.

It's about things, don't talk about other things, especially the mistakes that each other has made before or something, maybe you have different views on things, but as long as you don't involve others, you won't be too noisy, things happen to analyze the causes and consequences of things, and how to deal with them, don't argue, reach common in things, especially in terms of handling methods, and that's what you said You must be calm.

Calm down why the other party is angry, find the reason, it is not difficult to solve it, apologize with a sincere attitude, if it is the other party's fault, wait for the other party's emotions to calm down, and then talk to the other party well, think about the other party's thoughts from the other party's point of view, put yourself in the other party's shoes and analyze, I think the other party will gladly accept it, if the matter is not big, it's okay not to say it.

Calm down for a while, don't quarrel about a problem, that will hurt both yourself and the other party, you should say in advance that you don't quarrel when you encounter a problem, ignore each other first, and give each other a little room to consider.

A quarrel means that there is a problem with the communication between the two of you.

But no one will have problems in the process of mutual interaction.

You can think of this as another opportunity for you to run in.

Take a sip of water, try to calm yourself down, and think about what happened and what you were hoping for.

Think about it from the other side's point of view.

Maybe you'll have an answer.

I don't know if LZ is male or female, in fact, let's put it this way! Two people can not avoid quarrels together, always remember that two people will not tolerate a little time because they care too much about each other, if the landlord is a boy, you should tolerate her more, okay, if the landlord is a girl, I want to say that girls can give their boyfriends a temperament, tantrums, but there must be a degree, the right amount to understand him.

Communicate well, how can husband and wife have an overnight feud. People who love each other, it doesn't matter who apologizes first

Find the reason for the quarrel, and if you care about the other party very much, find some steps for her to go down.

Before arguing, calm yourself down for 5 seconds.

Children rest assured. It's going to be okay: you all need to calm down" Give each other a moment's time.

Don't be afraid of quarrels, the key is to know why you ...... quarrel

Quarrel over a few things??

I should think about the good side!

If I were you, I would go home, and then ask him, I have been away from home for so many days, why didn't you go to me, even if it was a **, I have been waiting for you to call ** to call me home.

I don't think it's wise for a couple to quarrel and run away from homeIf the husband has someone else, it doesn't just make room for others; If it is simply because of contradictions, evasion will not solve the problem at all.

When I quarrel with my husband, I ignore him firstThen when both sides were almost angry, they began to say their reasons for repentance, and whoever didn't take advantage of it apologized.

There is also a conflict between husband and wife, don't save itIf the contradiction is not resolved, the old accounts will be turned over more and more, which is what I feel every time I quarrel.

Finally, there isThis has been your home since the day you got married, and you have to keep it for your own happiness.

The woman said that because she was pregnant and hospitalized, the man did not pay the medical bills, and he would not care about the man when he was old, because of love and hatred.

1.Generally, this kind of expression (I won't care about the man when I'm old) is angry talk. Because unless there is a divorce, the man cannot be abandoned in old age, and the man can ask the woman to help.

2.It is very normal for love to hate in marriage. One of its manifestations is to deliberately anger the other party, and he won't care about the man when he gets old, which is one of them.

In a relationship, love and hate are actually always accompanied, and many couples will be separated in the two stages of conflict incubation and conflict sudden, precisely because they are not able to properly handle and deal with the conflict in the relationship. The reason why people have the illusion of love and hate is because hate is a constant guest in intimate relationships.

3.You must learn to deal with it wisely and without hurting your feelings, so that you can turn your opponent back into a lover at any time.

1) Learn to express your dissatisfaction with the other person. But at this time, only express your feelings, not accusations, so as not to hurt the other person. For example, you can say, "I'm going to take care of you, whether you're pretty or not."

Instead of accusing "you don't think about me at all".

2) Learn not to be contemptuous when arguing. Because when you are angry, your emotions and words are more directed at people than at things. The damage can sometimes be devastating.

3) Both partners should learn to throw an olive branch to each other to ease the atmosphere. For example, take the initiative to cook a table for the other person, or give a small gift. Everyone gave each other "steps", and once the other person caught it, they could try to calm down, instead of going over and over again.

4.Love and hate go hand in hand. In a relationship, love and hate are actually always together, but as long as both parties remain patient, learn to understand each other, respect each other, and slowly run in, two people can be hand in hand.

Quarrels don't count, and it is impossible to judge whether she is sincere or not. But it shows that she must be obsessed with this matter, and if she doesn't want to be really old and has no one to take care of her, it is recommended to treat your wife well now, apologize to her and be generous.

You have to remember one sentence, your wife is always right, so, if you quarrel, you must self-reflect and bow your head to apologize to your wife, the family and everything is prosperous, don't find trouble to make your wife angry.

It's normal for you to quarrel, no matter whose fault it is, you should be more understanding and tolerant, and you have to think about each other, even if you spend some money, waste some time and energy, it must be done!

You guys quarreled. You should enlighten your wife more when you quarrel, you should enlighten your wife more, and you should also coax her, after all, you are a couple of people, and you will have to go well in the future, well, live together, although you did not pay the hospitalization fee for the fetus, but um, after all, you are also together, and you can't divorce, so you have to coax her and please her.

Because my wife is pregnant and hospitalized to protect the baby, is this you? A major event in your life, and you didn't pay the hospitalization fee for it, so he will blame you, and your quarrel is caused by you, so you should apologize to him well, deal with all the problems, and she will forgive you.

This is also another angry word, but when she was hospitalized to protect the fetus, you didn't even pay the medical bills, which really made him feel cold! You have to be kind to him in the future, you have to care more about your wife, and you have to slowly cultivate your feelings, so that the two of you can live together for the rest of your life.

It's not a fight, it's your wife reminding you that you should take care of her very seriously now, because she's pregnant, and you should give her a sense of security.

Your wife is pregnant and hospitalized, why don't you pay the hospitalization fee? The hospitalization fee should be paid by you, it may be that your wife is angry, she is sad, so she will quarrel with you, saying that she will not care about you when you are old.

Quarrels can't solve the problem, you can wait for your daughter-in-law to calm down and slowly apologize to him and explain that the life between husband and wife needs to be managed by themselves, and if two people choose to be together, they must cherish this fate, and love is mutual.

Quarreling is a very normal thing, so don't hurt each other when you quarrel, you have to have a certain range of control, and it's a very normal thing not to quarrel, so don't hurt each other when you quarrel, you have to have a certain range of control, and don't hurt each other's hearts.

You are now married, I feel that you should not hold on to the past, you still have to manage your relationship well, manage your family well, and wait for your relationship to become deeper and deeper, your relationship has become family affection, and when you are old, he will definitely take care of you, the main thing is that you have to love her well and love her.

Poor couples mourn everything, and the back of their heads can't be touched, the key is to live a good life. The husband and wife are in love now, and they will slowly heal and forget the pain of the scars.

It's normal to quarrel. No matter what is wrong, you must be more understanding and tolerant, and you must do it for each other, afraid of spending and wasting time and energy.

So in the end, did the wife pay the money herself?

She must think that you don't care about her, and she is angry.

If you go back and coax her more, she'll be fine.

Maybe it's just a matter of anger.

But why didn't you pay the medical bills when your wife was hospitalized, your wife was also very cold, husband and wife, you can show that you have loved each other together, and you can solve problems sensibly and solve them well.

If I didn't care about my wife at this time, then I would have resolutely divorced such a marriage.

At this time, if your wife doesn't care about herself, then it's normal for others to say this.

You can wait for your daughter-in-law to calm down and slowly apologize to him and explain that the life between husband and wife needs to be managed by themselves, and if two people choose to be together, they must cherish this fate.