Please be patient and read it, I really don t know what to do, everyone help me

Secretly go through the marriage registration formalities, and the date is self-determined;

Give birth to a child and be raised by the landlord or the landlord's parents - if you want a child, take it on;

If you feel that the economy is stable enough for the woman's parents to accept, you can consider finding an appropriate time to tell the truth

The above operations are kept as strictly confidential as possible, and the less people know about it, the better.

Finally, it should be said that the ideological work of both parents is also indispensable during this period, and it is hoped that the parents of the landlord who will take over the child will not be too concerned about the other party's "unkind" things.

I wish you all the best.

Find a way to pretend to be obedient, coax her old man to be happy, and then slowly hint at it. Maybe after she approves of you, she will agree to your affairs and have this child.

I don't think you can get married right now. After all, you're still young, don't have a job, and don't have a steady income. Think about what you're going to get married

You should focus on work now!It's time to learn how to make money, and when you have money, get married!As for your parents, if you say, "You are still young, you don't have a job, you don't have any income, and you want to spend your own money to get married, and you don't spend a penny on them", I think your parents will agree, and they think that their son is a good director!

Elopement!You may say that you don't have any money, but as long as you have the ability, you can get to the **. I remember a rich man who said, "Today I have lost all my wealth, and tomorrow I will still be a billionaire." Don't be afraid, if you really like it, will you care about this resistance?

I sympathize with you very much, I think as a man, you should be responsible, you have children, what are you afraid of, go once and disagree, go twice, people's hearts are flesh and blood, I don't believe it, they don't agree, buddy remember that "sincerity is the golden stone is open".

Strongly agree with what was said upstairs.

If it were me, I would have gone to talk to the woman's parents, although now I don't have a job and can't earn money to support the family!But I will work hard to study and find a good job through my own strength. And you have to tell his parents about your girlfriend having a child, so that his parents understand that you are in such a hurry to prove that you really want to marry her and make a promise to her parents.

Say more good things!And you said that you "look at emotional things relatively lightly, although you will feel a little uncomfortable, but you will not love to die and live like some people." Then you deliberately don't wear a condom.

And for what?Do you want to make your girlfriend's belly bigger and then abandon her?A blow to her heart?

I don't think it's put!You'd love to give your girlfriend a future, right?Trust me to tell her parents how much you love her!

Now that your girlfriend has already knocked out a child!I think you should fight even more for the sake of your girlfriend's health (health)?

I still have to tell your mother-in-law about these things, don't think that your mother-in-law may not be able to accept it for the time being. Or it's better to make everything clear, you and your girlfriend have to communicate well and make it clear to her, covering up is not the best way. Because if a lie goes out, it will take 100 lies to round it up.

Some things still need to be solved face-to-face between the adults of your family and her beauty. In general, in a word. Put it in the open place.

It's really hard to say. Again.

Before I got married, I was the same example as your girlfriend, but my boyfriend is very good at working hard, coming to our house many times, contacting my mom and dad, showing them his good side, and I also do a good job of cooperating - that is, in front of my family, I show that I care about him and love him very much, usually mothers will feel sorry for their daughter, you should go to her house with your girlfriend and convince her parents together, of course, her performance is crucial, and your performance plays a decisive role.

Then you can find a better job as soon as possible, and it won't mean that you don't have a stable income.

You should tell her everything that is in your heart. And she doesn't want a baby now, maybe she won't be able to want it in the future, and there are many examples of this around me. Touch her with your sincerity. Hope to hear good news from you.

You can tell that you don't pay attention to feelings. I guess your girlfriend knows this too, because if a girl knows that this man is someone who can be together, she can jump into the fire pit.

Deliberately not wearing a condom Your thick black learning is very effective, but only black is not thick, scum.

As parents, you will be more or less worried about the happiness of your children, and wait until your girlfriend is about 7 months pregnant and then confess to her parents, then it is not suitable for abortion.

But as a man, you should take care of LP patiently and carefully during this period, if you are both old enough to reach the legal age of marriage, it is best to go through the marriage registration first, so that whether you are still together in the future, it will be better for you, for her, for the children, and for both families, because you will bear the responsibility of marriage more.

I think the opinion is that it is recommended that your parents divorce first and set an example, the old one is not like the old one, how can they ask their son to divorce at every turn.

Second, you are not currently dealing with the relationship with your wife, since you are married, don't say that it is a mistake, because there is no beginning in life, you must find a job as soon as possible, solve the urgent need, and then you can fulfill your husband's responsibilities.

Third, you are a bridge, you must do a good job of communication between your parents and your wife, and you must say good things on both sides, that is, say good things about your wife in front of your parents, so that your parents can feel that your son is at ease with your daughter-in-law, and you should say good things about your parents in front of your wife, so that your wife can feel that your parents care about and support this small family.

Whether it's your fault or not, for the sake of the family, you must apologize to your wife, family is a place to talk about love, not a place to be reasonable, and a big husband can bend and stretch. Invite your wife home well.

I say men. It's really like this at the age of 33.

Although there is something wrong with your wife. Think about it. People figure that you have a house, but if you don't have a house, don't you live with you and give birth to a daughter?

But let's be honest. She can go to see your father after work. But it's not appropriate to go to see it without going to work. Do you really not have to eat?Isn't it.?

Again. You don't have to take your wife's words to your parents. My wife is talking to you from the bottom of my heart.

But it's not appropriate for you to tell your parents exactly what you say. You have feelings, and you will forgive her more easily than your parents, but your parents will always carry the thorns.

In the end, my wife is yours, not your parents', do they say they will leave?

Thinking about it for so many years, my wife has never been lazy with you, she is all diligent and hardworking, not for this family?Gone, where is home?What about children?

Dude, please don't just talk about things, you are patient to read it, but you have to be clear about what is the foundation of your marriage?What is your relationship based on?What exactly do you want in your heart, you have to complete the answer to this question yourself, calm down and think about it and make a decisive decision, come on brother.

Divorce is not recommended, it will have a great impact on the children, and they will regret it if they leave.

If you're tired, just break it, a marriage without feelings is like a machine without lubricant...

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1.Everyone's meaning in life is different. Sometimes it's just when I meet some people and things in the process of groping day after day that I suddenly become firm. But you must first believe that there is meaning in life.

2.I don't know how to mechanic. But it's important to have a craft that can support yourself. Actually, I think... No matter what, you should believe that things will get better, and you should strive to become a better you.

Other. The past has already happened, and regret doesn't change anything.

But now you still have things you want to do, things you have to do, and things you have to do. You have to think about everything before you decide what you want to do in the future.

The present and the future are more important than they once were.