Trying to seek a turbulent life is a mental illness

Parents are like this, especially girls. They don't want you to go out and suffer, they want to give you a stable, happy life. Girls are not like boys, parents are always afraid that a girl will suffer outside, for fear of meeting bad people outside.

From our point of view, we all hope to take advantage of our youth to break through more and see more of the world. As long as you insist, and you can make your parents feel that you are very independent and thoughtful, and you can give them a deadline, such as 5 years or 10 years to come back and help them or something, I think you can convince them.

Young people should have more contact with society, parents are people of the last century, they all use the previous ideas to look at the current society, there is no doubt that parents love us, as long as you can convince them, let them feel that you have actually grown up, can protect yourself, they will slowly rest assured.

What you say about turbulence is normal, but it is "turbulence" when compared to your parents' views

Which young man is willing to be stable, even if he has a lot of money. It's not fun to fight!

In everyone's heart, young people have no momentum, and no ideas are abnormal.

Well, when I was younger, I thought so too.

It's stable at once, it's more boring, take advantage of your youth, see the world more, and it's good for yourself.

If you say that, there are few normal people.

This is very normal, it is normal to have fantasies in adolescence, as long as you study down-to-earth, the fantasy life will become a reality.

Of course, it's not mental illness, I'm in my twenties, and I'm still fantasizing.

It's normal for boys to have fantasies

Not to mention junior high school, dozens of years old people will also fantasize, normal.

Peace of mind, of course not. I would also think, there's no problem, this age is the time to fantasize.

It's a normal reaction, no need to worry.

If you have been living in a very depressive environment, you must learn to self-regulate, such as finding someone to talk about your daily life, listening to **, doing a moderate amount of exercise, etc., as long as you don't let yourself go down all the time, you won't get mental illness, you can still ask this to show that you are still very healthy!

Yes. Know how to regulate your mood. Mental illness is now common. You can go out and relax.

Everyone will have their own psychological problems, each of us has one or another problem, you can find someone to talk to, or if the conditions allow, go to the beach to see, blow the sea breeze. Or shout out loud. Or a good cry.

Hitting pillows, binge eating, listening, sleeping and so on.

Usually find someone to kk song, roar two voices, and the mood will be better.

Girls need someone to chase and love, it's normal. Just look at the peers around you, basically every girl is more or less dressing up in the hope of being favored by the opposite sex Just don't care too much about this, just face it with a normal heart.

It is better to arm the brain with knowledge than to dress with beautiful clothes. For the sake of a long and beautiful love in the future, cherish your existing tranquility and absorb more knowledge. has a poetry and book temperament in her belly, and becomes a talented woman with a temperament who reads poetry and books.

Why do you want to do so much? Brother is here to dedicate you a word, don't think about the past, don't stay in the past, otherwise it will ruin you, Brother Ding.

What does it mean to you to dress up and make yourself more attractive?

This is a big symbolic question, many boys think that when they grow up, they can smoke and learn to drink when they enter society, but what about you? Learning makeup to make yourself more attractive will make you associate with something.

It should be said that you are a dignified seven-foot man, and you can't get along with a fruit seller.

Dizzy, you don't want to go there and buy it again.

I feel that this is nothing, the next time you see him, if it is still him, ignore him, if it is a woman's stall, you will buy it.

Buy if you want.

If you don't want to buy it, don't buy it.

If he's going to twist you, he'll slap him in the face.

Lao Tzu is not a fuel-efficient lamp either.

ps: Your last sentence, I often buy fruit from you, which exposes your timidity.

Then you can also say that you usually buy fruit from him, ah......Sometimes you buy it when you negotiate the price, but you don't buy it if you don't negotiate it properly, there's nothing to be angry about, is it worth it to be angry for him?

It's not a matter of mind or life, it's just that you feel awkward after comparing the situation you usually encounter when buying fruit......

1. The whole society is so complicated, and now you just feel the pressure of society, and your life is still long. If you don't allow yourself to adapt to the current environment. Then your path won't be wonderful.

You don't like them to smoke, and drinking alcohol shows that you are still a person who knows how to cherish your life, as long as you learn to turn pressure into motivation, then you must be an excellent and good student. Also, you should prove that you are very good, and don't let others look down on youTalk to your classmates and make more good friends.

Let a friend help you out of your confusion.

Everyone's outlook on life and worldview is different, you should learn to tolerate others, and since everyone is like this, but you are different, then do you have to find out if you have any shortcomings. Observe the strengths of your classmates more, blame them less, and I believe that you will get along with your classmates in the near future.

Are you just exposed to such a new environment The environment you lived in before shaped your personality In fact, I don't think you have to deliberately change, because there are many ways to get along with them, such as on the issue of learning, in talking about the experience of girlfriends, and in extracurricular activities, you can enhance friendship Maintain your character, this is your right.

Don't pursue many things too much, maybe because of your unique personality, you will become a confidant.

Don't be limited by your personality, unleash him and show your unique charm.

You can adapt to them. Otherwise you won't have friends!

People must learn to adapt to the environment, and they cannot let the environment adapt to people. Everyone has their own good and every need. Stand tall and be an upright person, go your own way, don't care about anything, and pursue your goals.

Our world is a colorful world, and you are only one part of it, and you should treat the existence of others properly. It's like if you don't get used to seeing foreigners, you have to know that you are also a "foreigner" in the eyes of foreigners, and they will not get used to it.

Life is like a journey through time and space.

In the moment before our death, we traveled through time and space to the 21st century, 20 billion light years!

In the moment after death, we travel through time and space to the unknown future!

At that moment before death, time and space reached eternity, and it was infinitely close to the singularity of the origin of the universe!

The moment after death, time and space reach eternity, and it is infinitely close to the singularity of the end of the universe!

Do you feel this way?

Look away, forget yesterday, cherish today, and look forward to tomorrow.

How can you be as good as you want, but you want to be worthy of this life.

Perhaps, living better is the meaning of life, isn't it?

I think you're a more serious person! Many things may not be a big deal in some people's minds, but you do.

I care a lot, you say your classmates pat you, others.

I fought back and he said that you don't dare to because you have established that honest image in his heart, so he will say this, but there is a saying called tolerance is great, you can tell your classmates that you don't like this, you must seriously say that they will realize that this is wrong, but be tactful, otherwise it will affect the relationship between you and your classmates. Also, instead of closing yourself off and letting the wind and rain in, it's better to open the window in your heart and let the sun shine in after the rain.

First of all, it is necessary to determine whether it is a joke or bullying. Second, learn to smile. You can't live without a smile.

Then, try to laugh at the joke, everyone haha is also a kind of relaxation.

If that's bullying, then consciously fight back. Only in this way can you move forward easily.

Hello, from what you said, I feel that you are very sad because of these things, and even think about it repeatedly. Because of this, you close yourself off and don't want to communicate with them.

It may seem like you feel inferior in your heart, or have you ever fought back in your life experience and then been beaten back? You can find a counselor to help you find the root cause of the problem and then dredge it. National second-level psychological counselor Xinyu Xinyuan Consulting Company.