Why is love so selfish?

Because love is your own, you have to grasp it yourself. It's impossible to give it to someone else, so you won't get the happiness you want. Love is right to be selfish.

It can't be said to be generous, right? Should love be given up on its own initiative? That's not right at all.

Only selfish love will get the happiness you want. So love is selfish.

Love mainly depends on how you treat it, plain, calm love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, this everyone's way of love is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not do to protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, will think that it will not last long! To love someone is to trust each other To love someone to understand each other To love someone to be tolerant of each other To love someone to be broad-minded To love someone is to respect each other's thoughts and opinions To love someone, you need to support him (her) more behind your back, not to block When you love someone and you can't accompany you, don't complain, say to him (her) with a smile I'm very good and happy Love someone don't always hide your inner fragility and grievances, let him (her) know, You must know that what you want to share is not just happiness Love someone Too much love, maybe some people can't do it The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, it is the most important!

Everyone has their own way of liking people, love is inherently selfish and tolerant, everyone has a yardstick to measure what selfishness is, right? So, yes, that's right. Because that's what social reality is now!

There is no room for a grain of sand in the eyes of a lover, and no one wants to share their loved ones with others, so love can only be selfish.

Because love belongs to two people! No one else needs to meddle! So love is selfish.

Because love is two paths! There is a way to be selfless! One is selfish!

Is love selfish? Maybe you haven't really fallen in love with that person yet, and you won't say that when you do.

If you love someone very much, you will desire to marry him, want to live with each other, when two people get along, you will recognize and appreciate the other half, you can see each other's shining points in your eyes, you will also want to hug each other when your partner is lost, you will feel sorry for your partner's sacrifice, you treat him as your lover.

In a long marriage, love means "willingly." You will want to see each other and give your partner the feeling of being loved.

And once there is no love, we will weigh the pros and cons.

For example, if two people have a conflict, you feel that you have been wronged, complaining that your partner does not see your feelings, but you can't see what the other half feels, and you will not think from the other person's point of view;

To form a family with each other, as long as you pay some, you will stare at the other half's pay, put the two people's efforts on the scale, if you feel that you have sacrificed more for the family, you will start to care, and feel that Sun Yingyin is wronged;

Both of you have an account in your heart, remembering what you have paid and what the other party has not done well, and gradually what emerges in your heart is your own grievances and dissatisfaction with your partner, and the relationship will inevitably not be happy.

The essence of many problems in marriages is that two people do not have a "sense of love".

In my counseling, I often encounter a phenomenon.

If two people have been in love for many years, or have been in love since their school days, have entered marriage, have children, have a deep understanding of each other, and have an emotional foundation for each other for many years, they want to repair it when there is a problem in their marriage, because they love each other in their hearts, so they want the whole family to be better.

However, if they only have a short relationship with each other, do not build a deep emotional connection, are married for the sake of marriage when they are of marriage, and do not have a deep love for their partner, such people often account for gains and losses after marriage problems, weigh the pros and cons, and think about how to do better for themselves from their own perspective.

In my opinion, selfishness is human nature, and everyone thinks about their own interests.

However, if you love your partner deeply, love can pass through the selfish nature of people, allowing you to compromise, understand, give, give, and give, and you will consider the common interests of two people for the emotional connection with your partner and the love that exists in your heart.