Why are the post 90s generation more selfish???

People are inherently selfish, it's not that the post-90s generation is more selfish, but the pre-90s are more urban, and those who turn the corner to express their selfishness to you, others are not so easy to notice. Now in our society, public morality is being established, private morality is more embarrassing in the conflict, covering up and answering shyly, very twisted, personally, I prefer to express myself directly, selfishness can be understood, can also be forgiven, don't always expect others how to be, others how to buckle a selfish hat, not good. The moral standards of our society need to be re-established, and this is a gradual process, just as Marx said that communism cannot make a direct transition from a backward system, it needs to transition from capitalism, from high capitalism, from state capitalism.

Therefore, to rebuild the moral system, we need to forget public morality and establish private morality, when the level of cultural civilization reaches a certain standard, people will naturally rebuild morality, and dare not say that the world is for the public, at least I am for everyone, and everyone for me can show one end.

I think this question is a bit biased, how to target the post-90s, I want to say that any creature comes to this society, there are selfishness, even the puppy understands that its bones are not allowed to be touched by anyone, what about people? How can there be no selfishness? A person who is not selfish is a liar.

People are different, don't overturn a boatload of people with a pole like this, it's okay, 80, 90, or 00 are the same, there are good people and bad people! Why is this so?

It's that people are selfish, just to see if that person can grasp it well, after the 90s, everyone should be selfless unless God Unfortunately, there is no God.

It's all their parents who are used to it, because every family is a child, and from childhood to adulthood, they are all about food to open their mouths and clothes to stretch their hands, so it will cause the current post-90s generation to be selfish, arrogant, and arrogant.

The post-90s generation is generally selfish, arrogant, and arrogant, which is a bit of a generalization.

If there is no investigation, there is no right to speak, whether the post-90s generation is generally selfish, arrogant, and arrogant, this is really not easy to say, and people who say this may not really understand the post-90s, the so-called generation gap is like this;

However, the post-90s must have these problems, after all, they are the treasures in the hands of their parents from childhood to adulthood, and their parents are too doting, and it is easy to develop such a character, but whether it is the post-80s, post-90s, or post-00s, there are people with such a character;

In short, conclusions should not be drawn too arbitrarily.

I think the post-90s generation is an only child, which is directly related to their parents, and the family is just such a child, very doting, with him as the core, so it has caused the post-90s generation to be generally selfish, arrogant, and arrogant.

Most of the post-90s are only children, and they are influenced by the times and have more personality, which causes such a situation, but there are exceptions, not all post-90s are like this.

First of all, your definition is wrong, and you can only say that some of the post-90s generations you have met are like this. There are such people in every era, what kind of environment there is, what kind of people there are, if there are more people like this after the 90s, maybe it is possible, generally so, this belongs to your prejudice.

It may be caused by the family environment when you were young, or it may be formed after entering the society.

They are all only children, and they are basically spoiled by their parents.

Because the post-90s generation is basically a family with one child, how many adults will pamper it.

It can't be so generalized, people of every age have their own characteristics! The post-90s generation is the happier generation, and it is also the generation with the most only children, and many people have the situation you said. But it also depends on homeschooling.

The post-90s generation is generally selfish, arrogant, and arrogant, because most of the post-90s generation are pampered and raised, and they will not think about others.

Hehe, no, not all post-90s.

Did you see the volunteers of the post-90s generation at the time of the World Expo?

When I saw Yushu**, did the post-90s look desperate, and when I saw Sichuan**, did the post-90s donate their pocket money?

I saw that there was a school where students donated more than 20,000 pocket money, and there are some of the post-90s you said, because they think they have mastered the trend of the times, so they just mess around, or blindly follow others, after all, they have not yet formed a mature view of right and wrong and values, how can you force a baby to run 100 meters in 1 minute, although these are very simple for us, in the same way, how can you force a post-90s to have a great chance immediately, driving a Ferrari with LV

Maybe you say that they are selfish because you feel that your views of right and wrong and values are not the same as his, after all, they are still very young, they were born in 90 and are only 21 years old, and life is just the beginning, so you don't feel angry about these things.

Is 01 good? has a good personality and can't fight back, and if he doesn't change his mouth when he scolds, he will spoil his wife.

Blow it. So many people born in the 90s, what you have seen are all bad and selfish?

The reason for the child's selfishness is related to his parents. Parents cultivate the selfish character of their children, and when this selfishness involves the vital interests of their parents, they feel bad again, not so much that the children are selfish, but that the children's parents are more selfish! In our lives, we often see children beating and scolding their parents at every turn, and rolling on the ground if they don't buy something.

Everyone will be ashamed of this behavior. They have said that this kind of behavior must be disciplined. But if it really happened to my own child, I felt reluctant to fight.

This is the weakness of human nature, or the double standard of treatment. It is precisely because of this latent consciousness of the heart that selfishness arises. If you put it on others, you must discipline it strictly, and you can put it on yourself.

Human nature is good at the beginning, and children are not bad when they are born, but different families create different personalities. Some parents are particularly frugal with themselves and generous with their children. For example, buy a Häagen-Dazs for your child and watch them finish eating.

Even if he is thirsty on the sidelines, he will not buy two ordinary popsicles to share with his children. After a long time, the child naturally thinks that the good ones are his, and there is no need to share them with others. This is the act of selfishness.

There are also children who ask for thousands of yuan of living expenses every month for the housekeeper, and it doesn't matter if the family can afford it or not, as long as they don't give it, they will say that their parents are selfish! It's all caused by parents! I can't blame others.

As a parent, a child's growth plays a very important role. It's not about being well fed and warm. It is necessary to pay attention to the cultivation of moral character.

If a child does not know even the most basic respect, then his growth is a failure, and the parents are even more failures.

Selfishness is actually the commonality of human beings, there is no such thing as saying which era of people are not selfish, as for the selfishness of the post-90s, my opinion is this, there are three post-90s in my dormitory, and they will buy some snacks every time, basically not to say that they are actively distributed, according to the views of the previous generation, you buy delicious food and don't share it with others, how can you be so selfish, but in fact, what we think is, you want to eat it yourself, and you don't have long hands. Of course, this is only one aspect, our generation is an only child generation, basically has not experienced some things in society, is protected by the family, and there are indeed some things that seem more selfish. But in fact, if you go through a few more things and hit a wall a few more times, you will know what to do.

In the final analysis, the society, the family environment, does have a great impact.

Some people say that the post-90s will leave their jobs at every turn, some people say that the post-90s have no rules and regulations of the company, and some people say that the post-90s are easy to be impulsive and self-willed. These views are biased views produced by some "elders" based on the generation gap. It can be said that the post-70s and post-80s growth era is still a more difficult era, so what they have in their bones is still a bit of a stereotypical and step-by-step thinking.

In such a comparison, the various phenomena that appear in the post-90s are interpreted as "willfulness", which is obviously inappropriate, in view, this "willfulness" is a way of life for the post-90s to follow the pace of the development of the times, and there is no right or wrong in itself. I heard a story: a post-90s employee went to the company to report on the first day after passing the job interview, and when he took the elevator in the office building, he found that he had squeezed several times and did not get on the elevator, and then the post-90s employee sent a text message to HR on the spot saying that he did not plan to come to work because the elevator was not crowded.

In response to this story, some people think that the post-90s generation is willful and can't afford any setbacks, but they think that this just shows that the post-90s generation has their own opinions when considering their careers and dares to resist the reality in behavior. If you are a post-70s or post-80s, you may continue to squeeze the elevator to report for duty, but it is foreseeable that this post-70s or post-80s will have to squeeze the elevator in the next few years, which is quite painful. This post-90s practice is likely to prompt companies to improve the office environment and property to optimize the conditions of the building.

The practice of countless post-90s generations is likely to greatly promote the whole society to pay attention to the office environment, so as to benefit everyone.

The post-90s generation I know is not selfish, mainly depending on the growth environment. Some children, from childhood to adulthood, have been well cared for and protected by their parents, do not contact the society at all, have the final say at home, and their parents' emotional intelligence is also low, they have no training in how to interact with outsiders, and when they come into contact with outsiders, they let their own temperament come, so they feel selfish after 90. used to say that the post-80s generation was selfish, but after a long time, they have been tempered by society.

In fact, I can only reserve my opinion about selfishness and selflessness. If you treat a friend regardless of whether you are born in the 90s or not, you are selfless and dedicated to him, but when you need him, you have reservations, or you think that you are the main thing in everything. There are also several possibilities for this, one is that maybe he has a hard time, after all, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

The second is that there is little social experience, many people are not very knowledgeable about the world, and some have just come out of the family, and they have no social experience at home.

I think it's okay, score people, talk about things. If it is one's own relatives or love, sacrifice oneself or sacrifice one's own interests. It's normal, but if you sacrifice others indirectly or directly, or steal the benefits of others, for the sake of your own people, this is also a kind of distorted selfishness.

As a post-90s old-timer and big sister, seeing the above, I can't help but cry out for my younger brothers and sisters born in the 90s. Some problems are obviously social problems, but they have to be labeled and pushed to the post-90s generation, which is too unfair. Not only that, on the contrary, I also think that the post-90s generation is not only not selfish and ambitious, but also a generation that sees it quite thoroughly and lives quite clearly.

I also think that most people are selfish, no matter how selfless you are, you can't resist the selfishness of most people, then your spirit and body will collapse, and people's ability to bear is limited, so there is a limit to people's selflessness, and this is the case in trivial life.

The post-80s generation is a victim of reform.

When we were in elementary school, we didn't need money to go to college;

When we were in college, we didn't need money to go to elementary school;

0 2 When we are not yet able to work, the work is also assigned;

When we were able to work, we barely managed to find a job that didn't starve to death.

When we can't earn money, the house is allocated;

When we can earn money, we find that we can't afford to buy a house;

When we don't get in, fools are making money;

When we rush in, we find ourselves fools;

When we are not old enough to get married, we can ride a bicycle and marry a daughter-in-law;

When we reach the age of marriage, we can't marry a daughter-in-law without a bungalow or a car;

When we didn't find a partner, the girls were heartfelt;

When we were looking for a partner, the girls were talking about gold;

80 years later, a controversial generation. We are burdened with the hopes of those post-50s, post-60s, post-70s, and people who want us to accomplish things that are close to the impossible. Yes, so more and more people are starting to **** and talk about the term "post-80s" for this.

But when those talkative people talk about us, their eyes are always full of melancholy, and their words are full of complaints. This kind of kindness is shown to us, and even more so when it comes to our words.

Full of disdain, the eyes that look at us when we meet have no brilliance except for disdainful eyes. Titles such as "Internet Family", "Otaku House", "Strawberry Family", and "Beat Generation" were shackled on our heads like shackles. With these, gradually "rebellious", alternative".

Is it really called the "Beat Generation" by people 80 years ago? The post-80s generation is only a sacrificial experiment in the reform of the social system! Such a passage is for those who think that the post-80s.

It was the "Beat Generation" who fought back most wordlessly. Who did the post-80s recruit to provoke whom? Encounter such a drastic change! In this way, we can't help but feel that the post-80s generation is just a complex of contradictions in the reform of the social system.

The post-80s have ideals, the post-80s know how to pursue, the post-80s play with personality, and the post-80s have gradually become the backbone of promoting social development. Our efforts and our efforts have gradually been recognized by some people, and we have also created a sky belonging to the post-80s generation in different fields.