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Three words: bold, careful, thick-skinned! To be bold is to take the initiative, if you like a girl, you have to confess to her, don't be shy, otherwise you will regret losing the opportunity.
Careful is to know how to observe carefully, understand what your favorite girl likes and what she doesn't like, be a caring person in the process of dating, always care about her, ask for warmth, and let girls feel that you are very considerate. Thick-skinned means that if you are rejected by a girl, don't be discouraged, and immediately regroup and enter a new battle!
Do what you like"Give her what she likes, accompany her what she likes, and talk to her what she likes to hear
As for how to deal with it after chasing, of course, it depends on your emotional foundation: two kinds:
You like her and want to be with her for the rest of your life. It is necessary to have the courage to admit your own shortcomings and have the courage to point out the faults of the other person. Be good at using your talents to make the other person feel that you can be relied on. Feel the other person's feelings with your heart. Caring, considerate, loving.
You don't like her, you're just chasing and playing or whatever. It's best to cut through the mess quickly and break up with her before she has invested too much affection in you, so that you may be friends in the future
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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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Chasing girls. Divided into several steps.
It varies from person to person.
People are different. Chasing girls is divided into several steps.
It will also be different.
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There is no such thing as a few steps, it all depends on the feeling of two people, and they can be together when they feel natural.
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If you look at fate, you must have material wealth as the foundation.
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It is best to solve the problem in one step.
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Love is not exactly a pursuit, everything is fate.
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It's a proposition.
Select the prey, make a plan, implement the plan, adjust the plan in the middle, and finally complete the plan.
Taken together, these are the 5 steps.
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1. Men who love me don't lose their temper casually.
If a man loves me, he will definitely be reluctant to lose his temper with me, even if I am wrong, he will admit his mistake first, coax me, and talk to me well, because he is afraid that he will run away from me or make me sad, so he is generally willing to make trouble and will not murder me.
Second, he will be angry when I do something bad to myself.
When I treat myself badly, for example, when he can't cook and I eat, and I am too lazy to cook, eat takeout for a long time, and finally have a stomachache, when I can't help staying up late, and then when I am not in good health, he will get angry and even murder me for my good. And he was angry with me completely because he felt sorry for me and couldn't help it, or he had to deliberately murder me in order to change these bad habits.
3. Men love me like life, and they are cautious when they murder me.
Even if he murders me for my good, he will be cautious, and once he finds out that I am sad after murdering me, he can't help but feel distressed. When I was more sad, he would immediately come over and coax me with a soft heart, and began to regret that he should not have killed me. But then I'll continue to do this, and he'll be helpless.
The man who loves me like his life, when he murders me, he is not terrible at all, it is all pretended, often a second of failure, and this second is the second when I show an aggrieved expression. But when he murdered me, my heart was often aggrieved and sensitive, and even though I knew that he was for my good, I couldn't help but shed tears immediately.
I don't know if your boyfriend is like this, what words does he use to kill you.
It's too detailed, you can publish a book, Khan.
1. Look for opportunities to get close.
Second, win her favor. >>>More
The most classic trick is to win without a move.
Because you don't understand women, women and men are human beings, don't think too complicated, don't dare to talk to them because you think it's two worlds, you're wrong, we only live in one world, and you talk to them just like you talk to your brothers.
If I were you, you would choose the most recent one, why would you look so far ahead. I haven't gotten it, you wait like this to yourself, it's a kind of harm to your current girlfriend, if you say that your current girlfriend is not good for you or has a lot of shortcomings, you should consider high school, the problem is that you feel very good now, and, three years of getting along with each other and living habits have already reached a certain depth, and now you have such thoughts, saying that it sounds good is infatuation, and if it doesn't sound good, it is not responsible enough, etc.? Hehe, you have graduated, both parties have matured, how big it is to wait longer, if it is really mature, it will not use the word let you wait, cherish the present, you will not regret it.