I m so sad and upset that he s like this

You and the guy are not in a relationship, you are not a couple, why should he take your feelings into account? You can't impose your ideas on others!

Who he wants to be good with and who he cares about is his personal business. Although you like him, and in your heart you don't allow him to find someone else to have fun, but is it realistic for you to do so? Will he accept your "compulsion"?

Even if he doesn't associate with the current girl, he will go to find someone else! I think he made it clear that he didn't want to have anything to do with you, and you confessed to him, so it's possible that he drew a line with you in this way!

I said thank you. It's just a tactful refusal.,After that, I won't contact you much.,It's the best proof.,So it's normal for him to want to contact other girls.,I used to be the same as you.,A girl I like rejected me.,We have a good relationship.,She later asked someone else to help her introduce her boyfriend.,What can I do?,I can only think about it myself.,There's no way.。

I don't think you should blame the man, like you said everyone has freedom. The problem is that the woman's actions are really infuriating. Then don't treat her as a friend.

If the man is already with the woman. Then it's not worth your anger. There is a saying that to be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others.

If you really like that boy, you will always be good to him, don't give up, be by his side silently, and sooner or later he will know how good you are.

Love is free, so you don't have the right to blame, it's up to you to give up or not give up, right? If you can't stand it, you leave, and if you can bear it, you insist, it's very simple.

It's good to think of them as people you don't know, you won't get angry if you don't care, think it's not you, it's another person, I'm fine, I know it's not okay to withdraw.

Hey, you're just mentally unbalanced, ask yourself, how much do you like that guy? It's just that it's just a long-term love.,It's not like this when you really meet someone you like.,Love depends on fate Wait patiently, sister.。

There's nothing wrong with boys! Refuse in a very tactful way, you should withdraw quickly!

Love is a matter of two people, and it cannot be forced!

Let go of your heart! You will see that the sky would be more beautiful without him.

Then live your own life and don't get entangled with him.

Is he the most important person in your life? If not, don't worry about it.

The man you're talking about has a bit of a problem with his emotional intelligence.

There are many good people in the world, and there is no need to feel sorry for someone who doesn't care about you.

It seems that the man is not interesting to you, and if you force it, you will hurt yourself.

Let go of everything and become a Buddha on the ground.

What the hell, don't toss around.

1. The sunk cost is too high. **Friends know that the more you invest, the more you want to get back your capital, just like the more gamblers lose in the casino, the more they want to keep turning over the mentality. is like a woman who has been subjected to domestic violence (whether it is cold violence or hot violence), she is unwilling to face the failure of her feelings, and she always goes around to promote her happiness.

Because I talked too much, even I felt that it was true, gave myself some reasonable reasons, persevered, and got back the cost of feelings, the cost of face, and made others feel that they looked happy. And the final result can only be to fall deeper and deeper, and you can deceive others but not yourself.

2. The "Stockholm" effect. It refers to a complex in which the victim has feelings for the offender and even helps the offender in turn. They share the fate of the criminals, regard the future of the criminals as their own future, regard the safety of the criminals as their own safety, and develop a kind of psychological dependence on the criminals.

Many women who have been deeply hurt by their partners will rationalize their other person's behavior, "because I am bad, he will treat me like this". "He punished me, just to make me good, and he needed to work harder to stop being punished."

3. Compulsive repetition. Many women who lack love in the original family have strong endurance in unhappy marriages, and they have no resistance to their partners' rhetoric, and the biggest difference between people who lack love and ordinary people is: insufficient awareness of boundaries and insufficient self-awareness.

It's easy to sacrifice yourself for the betterment of others.

A normal love gradually turns into a flattery, allowing the other party to be indifferent to himself for a long time, as long as the other party is a little enthusiastic, or takes out the child for moral kidnapping, such a woman The Madonna complex will overflow, forgive the other party, and will be full of expectations for the other party.

Therefore, those scary companions, in many cases, are cultivated by ourselves. They unscrupulously despise our souls and hurt our self-esteem and body. If, by accident, you fall in love with such a terrifying partner and fall into self-sacrificing and extreme love.

This kind of love has no nourishment, no expectation, only pressure, pain, and even the cost of life, I ask you to stop the loss in time, leave bravely, and find a self-aware, conscious, and introspective person to spend the rest of your life with!

Find happiness, happiness and beauty.

Let's sing!

Shout hard! Let's chat with a friend!

Find a friend for a drink!

Let's find a friend to dance!

Let's sleep!

Find a tofu or something, and slap it hard to vent.

I just want to say: what's wrong with you ...

Hehe. If you feel uncomfortable, find someone you trust to talk to

Otherwise, just listen to ** Don't think so much about it and go straight to sleep.