When you grow up, you get married and have children, do you still want to keep the objects you loved

Will stay. Memories are memories, beautiful or sad, they are all memories, only you know whether they are beautiful or not, and keeping some memories will not make you so cold-blooded. Of course, if you can't let go, it's better to lose it all, after all, starting a new relationship will have new memories, and people who keep old things and can't completely let go of them suggest that you throw away everything and let your relationship start again.

Keep it, after all, it's a part of yourself. People like me who miss the old always like to collect old things. However, I don't dare to keep my ex's clothes in a mess, for fear of being beaten.

Those letters, gifts, and the like can be kept, and the first love is very beautiful, no matter what the result is, I don't think a man will be careful enough to allow this to be had. You can tell him generously, "Well, this is my old days."

Personally, I think it may not be kept, since it has passed, let it go completely, in order to live more comfortably in the future, no matter how beautiful the past is, it is best to let go. We should learn to be satisfied with the status quo, instead of always looking back and immersing ourselves in the beauty of the past, after all, we are just a passerby in life. It's better to learn to look backwards, of course, it's my own personal opinion.

Will stay. This is the best memory of the beginning of love, although you are no longer with me, but the memory is still there. As sung in "Heartbeat":

If we can't walk together forever, then at least give us the courage to miss and the right to embrace. Keeping them behind is probably the courage to remember.

I may, once I am a person who picks the door, I feel that it is a pity that some things are lost, whether it is a memorial or useless, I may be reluctant. So I'll keep it. Second, I want to say that I occasionally go back and see, how stupid or scummy I was back then, I may also warn myself, and third, I think that since it is in the past, it means that it is only in the memory, what can't be kept.

Not necessarily, it still depends on what it is. For me, some of the little notes that were passed around at the time, the little love letters that I had written, will be thrown away, after all, it looks full of embarrassment now. But some small gifts given to each other will be kept, even if they don't like it anymore, but when they see it, they recall it as their own youth.

When he graduated from college, he confessed that a boy was rejected and gave him a scarf at that time. 10 years later, he hit my mother** and found me and made an appointment to meet. He was still wearing that scarf when we met, and my nose was sour.

I was married at the time, and he was divorced at the time. Later, I called him on his mobile phone and didn't answer, in fact, my page has been turned over, I wonder if he regrets his original decision? Now another 10 years have passed, and I don't know if he is ...... well now