How can I have a mother in law who loves to nag and stir up trouble?

Updated on society 2024-04-26
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There's nothing to say, just ignore it.

    It's absolutely impossible to quarrel like that, either you can avoid her, it's also impossible, and you can't turn her away when she comes to your house.

    The best can only ignore it, she said her, you do yours, just be a gust of wind in your ears.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How to say this, there is no exact way, only to transfer a train of thought and attitude, for example, you can introduce an old man to your mother-in-law (if it is the case of your father-in-law) and then there is to find someone, of course, it is someone she trusts to talk to, open the knot to try, after all, people are old and have a lot to do with the level of education, and the character is very "Diao" The kind of old lady is difficult to reason, in fact, the first method I said is very good, the second spring of the old man will make her change a lot, And you will find your own problems now, and you will be able to solve them in the future!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, I guess your couple's house belongs to your mother-in-law, and then, your mother-in-law is definitely not very happy with you, you are not a strong person. And your wife is as strong as your mother-in-law! Your task now is to make a good relationship between your husband and wife, so that your wife trusts you 100%!

    Don't pretend to be an uncle, live with your head down, talk as little as possible, if you want to say it, you must think about it before you say it, and if you say it, you must deter your mother-in-law! If your mother-in-law's opinion of you is good, you will not live like this, because she believes in your ability and will be relieved. In short, change yourself and learn to practice!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Try not to talk in front of your mother-in-law, you must do a good job on the surface, do a good job in the relationship between husband and wife, make your own decisions, just ask your wife's opinion, it's always a very troublesome thing to worry about women, although I'm also a woman, haha!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ignore, menopause needs to be understood.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are 3 answers to this question:

    1. Just endure it, it is estimated that you will endure it until you are depressed all day long and die young.

    2. The attitude towards your mother-in-law is almost, go back, she is really good to her daughter, if your husband and wife have a good relationship, your mother-in-law is hurt, and naturally you will realize and change, when your attitude is a little better, he is content, people are so cheap, you take a step back she takes ten steps, you go further, she takes two steps back.

    3. If your wife is sincere to you, and you have a bad relationship with your mother-in-law, your wife is the most difficult. Therefore, if your wife does not come forward to coordinate when you are in prison and all three parties are uncomfortable, then simply fall down, which means that you are not suitable to form a family.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You go in your left ear and go out in your right ear. Love me, love my dog.

    The old people are like this, nosy... Ignore her. We don't bother with her.

    Try to avoid the opportunity to meet. In short, don't worry. Love to say she said, whatever she wanted.

    You just don't care. and thou shalt be for thy son's sake. For your wife. Hey.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As a big man, don't care too much about these, bear with it, and when the time comes, the wife will give birth to a child, and send it back after serving the confinement, now your wife is pregnant, or don't make everyone uncomfortable, since he is so strong, you avoid its edge, I really can't stand it, don't clash head-on as much as possible, people come to serve other people's daughters, but also to share the worries of the two of you.

    If you think you have any ideas, you can have time to talk to your daughter-in-law, tell her about your awkwardness, and see if she can persuade her mother to leave, if she can't mobilize, there will be no way.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be silent. The generation gap has not been solved for decades, so don't think about it. Only silence can be dealt with, and silence is golden, which is the truth.

    If you ignore her, she can't be interested alone, and if you annoy you a few times, she will feel bored. Remember, don't be interested in what she says, don't argue with her, don't bother with her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    For people of your mother-in-law's age, don't expect her to change, you can say it from the side of your wife, don't let your mother-in-law always criticize people, it will make people feel bad, everyone wants to be encouraged, not to mention that men are children at heart, and they want their relatives to praise them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Can't change others, just try to change yourself, to accept, to tolerate, the old man has her own living habits for decades, come to your home, she has to re-adapt, to accept, the age difference will definitely have a variety of views, a variety of cognitive conflicts, we are now grandma or grandma take turns to take care of our children, only one party can be harmonious, can not let everyone in a family is a bad mood, right?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Bear with your mother-in-law, because she is here to take care of your daughter-in-law. You can be tactful and say to your daughter-in-law, tactfully!

    Besides, you will live with your daughter-in-law and children in the future, not with her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do your best not to live with the elderly; Tell your lover about your troubles; Try to be tolerant during this time, it's really not okay, stay away.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1 pretended not to hear 2 to stay as far away from her as possible 3 pretended to be stupid.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your mother were to annoy your wife like this, what would you think and do?

    Put yourself in their shoes, will you shut up your mom? will still tell your wife that the old family loves to nag you and don't care about her, you should not hear it, listen to this ear and that ear, don't be like her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's better for your wife to deal with this kind of thing, so that your wife can drink and talk to her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What should the old people respect, the young people!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Break the bank and hire a babysitter

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have the conditions, discuss with your daughter-in-law, hire a professional nanny to take care of them, change the old man to go home, and wait until the child is born, the old man will visit the new mother and the baby, the longer they get along, the more the state may be;

    There may be trivial things around your own mother, not to mention your mother-in-law, who has only known each other for a short time, and needs to be more tolerant;

    It is very hard for a daughter-in-law to give birth to a child, and the husband also has to bear the surprise and pressure of the arrival of a new member, and even the emotions that the expectant mother does not control very well.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There are four major sections:

    1. Beginning: I have a nagging mother.

    2. Write about the daily life of your mother's nagging and your own attitude towards your mother's nagging.

    3. Why mothers love nagging and the benefits of mother's nagging.

    Fourth, the end.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My mother is a veritable king of nagging, nagging every day, and my ears are calloused, don't you believe it? Let me tell you about it!

    In the morning, when I was still in my sweet dreams, my mother began to nag. "Cheng Xianrui, get up! Come with me to work, hurry!

    Hurry up and brush your toothbrush, otherwise it won't be white in the future. Brush your teeth up and down, inside and out, make a little effort, wash your face and wash clean! There is still eye droppings in the corners of the eyes, wash ...... again”

    At noon, my mother began to recite the mantra again: "Eat less meat, just eat this bowl of rice and eat more vegetables!" Don't drink water when you eat, don't eat ...... when you're okay”

    In the afternoon, my mother came over to me while I was doing my homework and began to chant again: "The writing head is too close to the book, and my mouth is in the homework book!" Write slowly!

    It's so messy.,If I were your teacher.,I'd already tore up your notebook.,Is there a high accuracy rate? Don't change it out when the time comes...... it's all wrong”

    Mom, although I nagged and nagged every day, it was these nagging that used to make people upset, urging me thousands of times, that I got rid of many bad problems, and I grew up healthily!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In the beginning I had a nagging mom.

    The daily life of the mother's nagging, and his attitude towards his mother's nagging.

    Why do middle mothers love to nag moms to catch the benefits.

    At the end, this is my nagging mother.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What do you mean! Want to write an essay?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think mother's love is the greatest love in the world, but my mother's annoying and nasty nagging has never been understood by me. In fact, it is the most beautiful, beautiful and gentle sound in the world.

    My mom is a very nagging mom, and she has to nag endlessly about everything she doesn't like, doesn't like, or thinks she's not doing right, until she's exhausted. Let's take an example!

    One Tuesday night, I finished my homework early and wanted to take a break, so I picked up a book and read it with relish, intending to wait until I had read enough of the book before I went to practice. I had just opened the book for a while when I heard my mother's gentle and annoying voice, telling me to practice the piano. I had no choice but to put down my beloved extracurricular books and start practicing piano listlessly.

    I had just finished playing all the sixth-grade tunes when my mother's nasty nagging voice came again: "Did you practice according to the teacher's instructions?" Did you sing the first and last sections of the "Etudes" several times according to the rhythm and then play it skillfully?

    And the teacher's Protestant "Little Sonata", have you practiced it a few times? Did you put your hands together in that part of what you just taught? And "Shepherd Boy Piccolo" and "Two Creative Songs" have you played?

    Have you practiced well? "Mom nagged for more than twenty minutes in a row, and the more I listened, the more I lost my energy, and all my good mood was ruined by this nasty nagging.

    It was under my mother's nagging that I spent ten years of my life. Looking back, every progress made is inseparable from my mother's nagging!

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