Should I wait for him? We have been in love for less than four months, but I love him a lot.

Updated on parenting 2024-04-17
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You'd better both of you don't do something to each other:"I will definitely wait for you to come back, I love you for the rest of my life"Such a very absolute commitment, I think you yourself also understand very well that love is actually a feeling, if the feeling is gone, you can't love it. So, you still make a pact. :

    You will do your best to wait for him, in case one of the two sides changes his mind, you must let the other party know in time that no one can hate anyone.

    Because after all, you can't be together for 2 years, and the relationship may be weak, so you should treat it normally, when he is a soldier, you write to him, call a ** or something, just keep in touch, and leave the rest to God. After all, you've done your best, and if you're still able to be together in the end, that's a very good thing, and if you really can't be together, at least, you're still good friends, right?

    You'd better wait, after all, you still love him now. But please don't say anything:"I will definitely wait for you to come back, I will love you for the rest of my life"and so on.

    Because you don't necessarily do it. In addition, you don't want him to make such an absolute promise, otherwise when the time comes, one party will change, and the other party will suffer.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't wait, I think it won't work out, because this promise doesn't make any sense. You will change in two years, even if he doesn't change to you, you may not be willing to wait for him, people are afraid of loneliness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't want to give up, keep in touch often and care for each other.

    Just let the feelings not fade down.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The decisions made now will be irreversible.

    Think about it. Blessing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you're young, you're talking about it, and you're not feeling it, you're saying, don't be hasty, regret it for the rest of your life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you think it's worth it, do it.

    That way there will be no reason to regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If he goes to school, you don't have to wait

    It's okay to go to the army, just wait

    There, he barely had access to girls

    Except for literary and artistic soldiers or signal soldiers).

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, don't think about whether he will love you or not after 2 years.

    Ask yourself, do you really love him when he comes back 2 years later?

    The feeling of being now does not mean a lifetime. You know what?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Time can be forgotten, look at your friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Wait, if you love someone, wait two years is not long. If I don't love you anymore in the future. You've got another one now! If you don't wait, you'll regret it later. He must be your lover. It's worth wasting two years on someone you love so much.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's up to you, it is said that if you love him, you will wait for him. But people have told you that in two years, both of you will definitely change! Tell you, look away!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're right to think so, people change

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