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Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. Don't push yourself too hard and don't put too much pressure on yourself. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why should they be so persistent?
Let go of your baggage, relax your mind, and live happily in the present minute, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of life. People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present full and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily.
Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him. Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything! You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you.
It's really about fate between people. Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go?
To be a man, you should always be able to afford to put it down! No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, it is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth. Finally, I wish you health, happiness, happiness and luck, and I believe that you will be able to adjust your mentality and live well!
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The highest state of life is: letting go. Learn to be simple, learn to be tolerant, learn to be tolerant. You can have a new perspective on many things... The heavy dream in my heart may find the answer.
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Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!
Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.
Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.
When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.
When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.
The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.
Did he lie to you on purpose? If you love someone, you should learn to tolerate He should have something unspeakable, don't care too much, everything will be fine, didn't you ask to break up when he left and he insisted? So he is still more persistent in this love, if he breaks this love because of a little misunderstanding or forced not to be bitter, isn't it a pity? >>>More
Do more. It's a happy thing.
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Two people are together to run in with each other, to be considerate of each other for a long time, both parties need to change, no matter which party pays more for those changes! Getting along is an art, language is also an art, how to speak will make the other party happy or will make the other party unhappy, that can be grasped Let it go, respect the other party is necessary and primary, I believe that the other party is also sympathetic to the heart to communicate, no matter what!
Well, I want to think about how to write.
Since you want to dispatch troubles, then you must be in trouble, I think the first thing to start with is the source of your troubles, if it is a problem like being harassed by a boring person, it is very simple, just avoid it; If you have an awkward relationship with your family, a conflict with your lover, or too much pressure at work, try to choose empathy and divert attention. No matter what, I think everything has a good side and a bad side, we encounter everything, with a learning and grateful attitude to accept and face, then the result can be imagined, troubles will always leave you behind, and you must have gained happiness. Smile more every day, it's not terrible to encounter troubles, as long as you gain experience or happiness in it, you will mature when you experience more troubles.