Ladies who talk about marriage, please come in, what aspects should you talk about marriage?

Physiognomy is not important at all is fake, and economic basis is not important, but these are not the most important. Personality, appearance, economic foundation, family, age, education, etc. are all to be considered, but the importance is different.

I've just been married for less than a year, and from my own experience with my friends, the most important thing is my character. Two people with different interests, different education levels, and different growth backgrounds want to go together to form a family, live together, and face all kinds of difficulties in life together. There is a saying that the character feels fate.

Life is one thing, attitude is another. If the other half has a good personality, he will get along with you happily, and he will be more optimistic and positive in the face of difficulties in life. Home and everything is prosperous.

The second is the so-called "right door". Not only are you financially on par with your family, but you also have your parents' occupations and your family background, such as being intellectuals or both of you are in business. Similar family backgrounds and similar educational backgrounds will make your outlook on life and values more similar, so that there will be fewer conflicts and contradictions in your later life (for example, "The New Marriage Era" talks about the impact of urban and rural differences on marriage).

There is a sentence in it that I feel very deeply: when you marry a person, you marry not only him, but also the sum of all his social relations.

It's okay if everything else isn't bad, after all, nothing is perfect.

All in all, I personally think that the other half is quite the best with me in all aspects, so the seesaw of marriage is easier to balance.

Finally, I would like to send you two sentences:

When you marry a man, not only to him, but also to him as a sum of all his social relations.

Keep your glasses wide open before you get married and close your glasses after you get married. Be inclusive.

Good luck finding you!

When talking about marriage, we should talk about the following aspects:

1. Dowry.

The bride price is a hurdle in marriage, and if this step is not negotiated, the marriage discussion will end. Therefore, before the two talk about marriage, they should first look at their local bride price, and then communicate with their parents, so as not to make the two families feel embarrassed. When asking for a bride price, you can see the marriage customs and the man's family background, and when you give the dowry, you can return according to the amount of the bride price.

2. Wedding hotel.

After the bride price is negotiated, the two will make a marriage contract, either orally or in writing. Then the parents will talk about the wedding banquet, what about the banquet? Whether the man pays or the woman pays, how to collect the gift money of the guests, etc. Of course, this is only a preliminary exchange, which can be revised later.

3. An auspicious day for marriage.

The engagement period is the countdown to the couple's entry into married life, and it is also a place of special concern for parents. Parents will find a fortune teller to pick an auspicious date according to the birth date of their son or daughter, and the two families will decide on the marriage date after discussion. The wedding date is certain, and various preparations such as hotels, wedding photos, dresses and wedding scenes begin intensely.

Pay attention to the following points when getting married:

1. Wedding gifts should choose items with special meanings, such as dragon and phoenix pillows, bed dolls, happy cups, etc.

2. Wedding gifts for the newlyweds can not choose umbrellas, knives, mirrors, fans, clocks, etc., these gifts are nothing in normal times, but they are more taboo on the occasion of marriage.

3. The gift to the newlyweds should also be done to their liking, if you give something that others don't like, the meaning of giving a gift is missing.

4. The number of wedding cars should be even, after all, the number of marriages is more taboo than singular.

5. If the head car uses Mercedes-Benz as a wedding car, then the tail car cannot use Santana, because the combination of the two is homophonic "running funeral".

6. The wedding car route cannot go back, and the route of receiving relatives and the route of sending relatives should be different.

The explanation of talking about marriage is:Talking about marriage is the time when the man should marry his wife and the woman should marry her husband.

For example, the pain of falling in love lies in the fact that after all, you have to talk about marriage; The pain of talking about marriage is that you can no longer talk about love casually.

Synonym. Women should get married, and men should get married.

Interpretation: 1. Women should get married.

It means that a woman must marry in time when she reaches adulthood. Same as "the female chief must be married".

Lu Yao's "Ordinary World".

Volume 1, Chapter 12: "When the man is married, and the woman is married, she can't think of such a law that is difficult for people to escape, and it appears in front of her so quickly." ”

2. Men should get married.

When a boy grows up, he must take a wife.

For example, most of the signed deeds are lifelong, which is equivalent to selling oneself to the Chen family and Chen Yue.

Now he is eighteen years old, and he is at the age when he is married.

Economy: If you don't have the financial means, getting married requires a lot of expenses and many aspects to consider. Let's not talk about the wedding wine, but the bride price!

The most basic life needs to live, two people have no financial ability, how to do the expenses of this family, and the expenses will be greater after having a baby in the future, even if you have a hard time, it doesn't matter, you have a child to be responsible for the child, don't even can't afford to buy milk powder after being born, the child will go to the hospital after three or five days, these are all economic problems! Therefore, it is still very important to talk about marriage and the economic aspect.

Independence: If two people want to get married, they must have their own independent aspects, and they can face all problems, and all kinds of big and small things in the family are faced and solved by themselves. There is also the independence of going out to society, you have to rely on yourself for everything you do outside, relying on yourself is the last word, relying on yourself is permanent, if you want to rely on others, it is temporary, or you are deceived.

So you have to be strong on your own.

To sum up, if you want to talk about marriage, you must have the above three points, economy, independence, and feelings, and if there is the same thing, you can talk about marriage. If you have the same, you can slowly cultivate it later, and if you don't have any of them, don't talk about it. Of course, it would be best to have these three things.

Talking about marriage generally has to talk about some basic conditions of the other party, such as cars, houses, loans, etc., and the most important thing is the other party's work and career, because only when a person has the ability to assume the responsibilities and obligations of a family, can he be the head of the family, and he can be qualified to talk about marriage with others. Therefore, these are some of the basic conditions that a person needs to talk about when talking about marriage.

The main thing is to talk about the details of the wedding, the woman has a bride price, and the man has a short bride price. Let's talk about the banquet. In what restaurant, who to invite, and so on. In the past, the matchmaker passed on the relevant information about these things, but now the parents of both sides sit together and hit it off.

I think marriage is much more realistic than falling in love, first of all, to get married, you need to understand the local customs and habits, in our hometown, we usually meet our parents before we talk about marriage, and when both parents agree, when we talk about cars, houses, things used for weddings, conditions for happy events, and so on, this is generally it

Talk about the bride price and the house. People now. Let's talk about both. It feels like it. So.

Bride price, the parents of both parties meet, arrange the wedding.

When couples talk about marriage, they should pay attention to the following:

1.Communication and candor. Marriage talks require both partners to be open and honest with each other, so that the other party knows their thoughts and needs, so that they can discuss future plans together.

Both parties should listen to each other's perspectives, understand each other's needs, and communicate with peace of mind when talking about difficulties or disagreements.

2.Department of Economy and Rehabilitation and Rehabilitation (RHA) Economics is a very important factor in marriage, and both parties need to understand each other's financial situation and perceptions so that they can make a common economic plan and life plan, and conduct regular financial assessments and audits.

3.Family background and cultural differences. When talking about marriage, you should understand the other party's family background and cultural background, and understand the other party's family values and living habits, so as to better run in the relationship.

4.Future planning and common goals. When talking about marriage, you should have a common future plan and goals, including family, career development, and children's education.

Both parties should work together to develop a plan and arrangement to achieve the goal to ensure a successful and happy married life.