About the character I m a woman .

Your friends' evaluation of you is: pure, no complicated thoughts, true, not hypocritical.

Your response is: I try to change, no longer be a "good girl", no longer be careful to smile and be polite everywhere.

Actually, I also had such a problem not so long ago. I'm also nineteen years old. It's a girl, too.

I am also said by some people to be simple, not hypocritical, and to live arbitrarily and chicly. However, only some people. There are also people who take me as a faith and live by my thoughts.

So, I've thought a lot about this as well. Strong and silent me, simple and lively me, which one is me?

I think that's a matter of opinion. To be honest, for today's people, it is very rare to be able to treat people sincerely and be able to do things simply. Enthusiasm always attracts a lot of good people. So, keep your simplicity and passionateness.

And life, what is needed is wantonness. This is my more subjective opinion, you can see that it is okay, how to do it depends on your own preferences. What my life should be, I just decide.

Even if willfulness brings suffering, responsibility is my own business. Only in this way can we grow.

I grew myself in the space of a year. Many friends say that I have changed a lot. From the childish willfulness and ignorance to the current gradual leading of the circle of friends, reliable and responsible.

Some people say that they are not suitable for such a change as me, but I think it is inevitable. Only the right change is the right change.

In general, I mean, it's not scary to want to change, it's scary to hesitate to become such a person.

ps."Some experience has taught me that if I force a change, it will make people who liked me dislike me. There will be a sense of artificiality", for this sentence, I would like to say "people come and go".

Liking doesn't change because of "what kind of person you are", liking because "you are who you are". Don't let those who turn away from you because of your change, because there will be people who will be attracted to you because of your change.

Thank you. I'm done. Can I get to know you? Messages.

You want to change because you're depressed. If you want to relieve your inner pressure, you won't have the desire to change.

Changing the external image may make you feel comfortable inside, but it will bring greater problems and make you more distressed inside.

If you want to try, just do it, be prepared, and don't take it to heart.

Live the life you love.

It's necessary to be free, let yourself relax, and smile There's no need to be a completely good girl, let alone a punk girl.

Make it easier to be arrogant, and you will be at ease.

It's best to like to do your own thing, but do you feel like you can control your future at your current age, what's wrong with being a good girl, if you're too tired, there's nothing wrong with relaxing, but you can't relax all the time.

First of all, you have to be assertive, and you can't deliberately do what others expect or what others expect in the opposite direction.

And you figured it out, do you think you're hypocritical (in fact, it's good to be able to recognize it, I'm afraid that some women still regard hypocrisy as a virtue) What about others? Girls are actually quite hypocritical, and they probably write you like this to flatter you and make you happy.

If you think it's good for you, stick to it, no one thinks about it, don't pay attention to him, it's not for others. If you feel bad about yourself, you will change it.

Where is it so difficult to change, if you are willing to change, there is nothing difficult, some things are not willing to change in the subconscious of your own decision, may just be affected by the eyes of others.

What can't change is to stick to your own ideals, and be sincere and friendly to everyone, it's useless to thank you every day, sorry, only if you're sincere, you can make people feel warm. Only by sticking to one's own ideals and having perseverance can others admire oneself, but the premise is not to let others admire oneself.

I'm a bit of a mistake, but be sensible.

And I'm very strange about some people now, what do friends do to become their own tools.

Look at the rest.

Be your most authentic self.

It doesn't matter what kind of life you want to live, just be happy.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

When it's time to be pretentious, you can't help it, even if you don't want to.

You don't have the courage not to be a "good girl", you still subconsciously want to be a pure, uncomplicated thought, true and non-hypocritical person in the eyes of others. If you want to be your true self, don't care what others say about you and do it the way you like.

It's good to do and treat everything every day with a normal heart.

According to your description, girls are called boys Xiao Zhang, Xiao Li and the like, which should have several possibilities that require specific analysis of specific problems:

The first possibility: This girl may be the kind of big grinning character, so she has been used to calling others like this since she was a child, and when she sees someone who is about the same age as herself, she is called Xiao Zhang, Xiao Wang, Xiao Li, Xiao Sun and other small characters plus surnames, let alone those who are younger than herself, and they are also called so. But if she sees her seniors or elders and calls them that, it is too lacking in social experience.

The second possibility: This girl only calls people younger than herself, which may reflect that she cares more about the difference in the identity of the elder and younger, that is, as long as she is younger than herself, she should be a junior, so she will tell the other party through this title, I am older than you, you should treat me as a senior, you should respect me, and you can't be casual with me.

The third possibility: If the girl is called by everyone else's name or Teacher Zhang, Brother Li or something, but only with a certain boy, then the girl may like the boy. So this kind of salutation may be an intimate salutation, expressing a meaning that you are different.

However, it is better to analyze the specific problem in combination with the girl's usual words and deeds. As for the difference between a girl called Xiao Zhang Xiaowang and a girl called her full name, generally speaking, there is not much difference, and it must be analyzed in combination with the context.

I think this girl is very cheerful, her personality should be very big, and she is very happy, she should be very expressive, she should be a very outgoing girl, and she should be this kind of character.

A woman's best state is financial independence, if a woman has never worked, as long as the man is alone in supporting the family, we can understand from the aspect of love, but as time goes by, a man will express his dissatisfaction with you, because in China the vast majority of families are women towards men, so whose life status is unbalanced, then this is an unimaginable consequence.

Second, see if she loves to play.

A woman with a bad personality usually doesn't pin her hopes on her boyfriend, and she can't bear loneliness and loneliness, and even she won't have high hopes, she likes to go to various bars and KTV, and play ambiguously with multiple boys.

Third, see if she worships vanity or loves beauty vanity.

A good woman is usually frugal and does housework. Such a woman will understand that her husband works hard outside, and every penny will be spent where it should be, a woman with a very poor personality, likes vanity, always spends money indiscriminately, and doesn't know how to control herself, so when a boy encounters such a woman, he must stay away, otherwise if she becomes your girlfriend or wife, then your loss will just begin.

Maybe this girl is very independent-minded. By their own ideas, like to follow their own character. likes to raise spiders and snakes, which may mean that it is not the same as ordinary girls. The personality is relatively unique. You can get along slowly, and after a long time, you should understand.

She is a cool girl, has her own ideas and opinions, walks her own style, and is a very unique girl.

Quick and sharp thinking. If you want to pursue such a girl, you may have to do what she likes, and if you can't accept her hobbies, it is not recommended to pursue her.

This woman has a personality, has her own opinions, has a high IQ, and has a careful and agile mind. Love to use your brain.

To evaluate a person's character, it is not just from a small thing can be evaluated, because many people do a lot of things, not out of their own complete character, just out of their own heart, it is also possible, so you must look at such things from many aspects, for example, the first and most important point is that you first look at this girl, is she doing things more bottom line? You have to see if she has a good personality.

This shows that she has a smart mind, but she is introverted and has a kind heart and love.

This girl is quick thinking and has her own independent way of thinking.

He may be more withdrawn and lonely, but he still wants someone to accompany him.

Likes to think independently.

I guess I'm a weird person.

It's a very weird person.

I guess it's the kind of person who is more peculiar.

I don't know, you have to look at his personality from all aspects of his behavior.

It's okay to accompany her to raise snakes and spiders, so it's easy to chase.

Don't think she'll be a unique one, like all women, and a little, pros and cons. Judging from the photos, the eyebrows are clear, elegant and pure, and they belong to the new type of Xiaoqing. It seems that this girl's personality should belong to a more quiet and gentle, kind character.

But people can never be disguised, and only after interacting can they have a deep understanding. If you like girls, you should take the first step bravely, and I wish you to find your own happiness! From the photo, the eyebrows are clear and elegant.

This girl is very cheerful, her personality should be very big, and she is very happy, she should be very expressive, she should be a very outgoing girl, and she should be this kind of character.

I guess it's a weird person.

Maybe he has a unique personality.

It's also a weird school bully.

It's a school bully with a weird personality.。