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Introversion doesn't happen overnight, everyone has their own different personality, and that's actually it.
A way of expressing his character, he generally does not share his thoughts with others, and always bears life to him silently.
Introverts have a poor ability to adapt to strangers and unfamiliar environments, and have been quiet in their own world, if you hate something and scold it, and shout if you don't like it, then it is not an introvert's way of expression. Don't envy others, but it's not good to suppress your mood often, so find friends around you who can speak a common language with you.
There are many kinds of friends, and cheerful people often seem to have a lot of friends around them, and they talk to everyone very well.
In fact, there are not many real good friends, 2 or 3.
Introverts don't have to deliberately force themselves to follow their example, force themselves to open up their personalities, for introverts to observe the people around you from life, find friends who are suitable for you in terms of personality and preferences.
You can take the initiative at the beginning, and after getting to know each other, you can go with the flow and develop slowly, if you are really suitable for being friends, you will slowly come together, and when you find out the importance of him by your side, it means that your relationship is quite deep.
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Seven traits of introversion.
A lot of people think that introversion is about being ashamed to express, which is not true. In fact, introverts will find that they are the kind of people who can get more energy from themselves or the small group they belong to. Extroverts, on the other hand, are well aware that a large group of people can give them energy.
Maybe you didn't consider yourself an introvert before. Here are seven characteristics of introverts, let's take a look at them!
1. When there are a lot of people, you will feel very stressed.
As we all know, crowded occasions are not liked by introverts. Meetings, rallies, conferences, sporting events, etc., these are occasions that can make introverts feel uncomfortable.
2. I don't really like making new friends.
It's not that it's hard to make new friends, but sometimes it's really exhausting to meet new people. Even simple communication with new people can be difficult, and you will feel exhausted after leaving.
Third, friends are more extroverted.
Or opposites attract, right? Many of the more introverted people are friends with extroverts because it maintains a balance between the two types. Sometimes, introverts need to release themselves, and sometimes extroverts need a quiet night.
Fourth, I don't like interviews.
Applicants are obviously introverts and don't like things. But introverts can do well, and they may be a little nervous at first, but once they know that the interviewer is still good, they can hit it off.
5. Be loyal to your friends.
Introverts are loyal and sincere to their friends, because the energy of an introvert is to himself, not others.
6. Don't trust others easily.
It can be difficult for introverts to find a friend who truly respects the introverted personality, so it takes longer for an introvert to develop a friendly relationship with someone than an extrovert. In general, regular spending time with extroverts is not easily hurt, and friends are also those you can trust.
7. Very humble and courteous.
Generally speaking, introverts are sensitive to their surroundings and the small details of life. This will also make you always humble and courteous to your host or guests, and people will like to be with you.
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Introverts in interpersonal communication have some things in common, either they are too inferior or too proud, they are very sensitive to many things in life, we must avoid these sensitive points in the process of communicating with introverts, do not touch the bottom line of the other party.
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As the environment changes, people will change, so you don't have to rush to change your introverted habits, as long as you can say everything that should be said, you can have the courage to tell you a story, often the more people talk about it at the job fair, the more they don't, because introverts form this character, there is a reason to be too focused on what they are doing, so this kind of person is more liked, of course, the premise is to be fluent in the end of the talk.
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When I was a child, I didn't like to talk, and many neighbors called me my eldest daughter (I was a boy). I was forcing myself to speak.
In fact, to put it bluntly, it's not that you don't want to speak, it's not that you don't know how to speak, it's just that your surroundings have created an embarrassing situation that you don't know who to talk to now, so you don't need to know any specific methods to reduce the pressure and constraints in your heart.
Speaking and chatting is a kind of communication, not only in language, but also emotionally.
For example, affirm the other person's expression, say your opinion when negative, and use more: I think, I think, you are right, etc., your eyes, your gestures can make the communication seem relaxed and pleasant.
That's it, your personality is very suitable for watching some good movies, and from the movies you can explore some speaking skills, the meaning and usage of classic lines.
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Personally, I think you should change yourself from your friends, you can count what topics they are talking about, first the mind should be active, and then the inside and out should be active, and slowly change yourself, in short, the mind is very important.
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Be bold, be courageous, since you can type so many words, it means that you still have something to say, but you haven't found someone to talk to, if you don't have any nervousness about him, this will not be the case, or have a drink at the bar...
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Sympathy. I know that if it goes on like this, it will become more and more.
I feel that nothing matters, but in fact, I don't pursue it, and I know where the problem is but I refuse to solve it.
Later, I found out that after contacting new friends, it was always okay for a while, and then it was like being seen through, thinking that you were pretending to be a person (unconsciously being thought of as such, this is not being able to adapt to society), and if you felt that you could socialize after a long time, but you always felt like something was wrong.
Adapt to society.
Take a look at Freud's book
Men, just have a little depth, maybe he is more introverted, not good at expressing himself, if he cares a lot about other people's eyes, but wants to get close to you intentionally, that is introverted, if he has fun with boys, and girls don't like to talk is nervous about the opposite sex, if he is hot with anyone, he is cold to you, then there are two possibilities, a he cares about you but cares about other people's eyes, b he doesn't care about you, but it takes time,
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