Please learn my lesson

I don't want to pretend to be a psychologist, and I don't want to make myself look like I've been working for years.

What I want to say is that this world will not be rewarded if you don't pay, but more importantly, this world is not something that you will definitely be rewarded if you give.

Now you have the mentality that you have to have a good job after studying, and if you don't study, you will lose it, I find it hard to believe how long you can go on the road of self-study. With this mentality, you still don't want to learn, it's better to go to Foshan, but if you don't study and go to Foshan, you will feel unwilling, and you will wonder if if I had learned at the beginning, maybe life would be better than now.

In fact, it's not that you can't stand the days of entanglement, it's that you don't want to suffer days.

Of course, these thoughts you have now are forced by reality, but they still mean that you did not give yourself a death order at the very beginning of learning, some people can die and live, but some people cannot.

I think your question is to recognize yourself, to recognize yourself and to recognize that you are suitable for studying. It's not that it's a matter of IQ, it's that you have the courage to do a good job, if you don't, even if you continue to learn, sooner or later you will think about the problems you thought about today. And then your mind will be messed up again, and you will definitely not be able to learn.

The energy and time spent on learning are spent on the infighting of one's body and mind.

If it's not suitable, don't learn it before it's too late What's the use of learning is nothing more than time-consuming. In the end, I was left with the psychological comfort that I had worked hard.

If it's appropriate, make a plan carefully, and don't say that you have to stick to learning or anything. Is there a time limit, one year or half a year? Or how long?

Have a clear time, don't look at the actual learning, in fact, the actual effect of learning is not proportional to the consumption of time, force yourself, after making a plan, unless there is a particularly good opportunity in the middle, don't think about the mess, don't listen to the noise of others, hold on, then you will learn.

The most taboo thing about self-study is that in the process of self-study, looking at the existing achievements of others sighs here, it is better to learn this kung fu When considering the achievements of others, it is better to enrich yourself more.

The so-called being bound by reality, on the one hand, is given by the surrounding environment, which cannot be avoided. On the one hand, it's my own, and everyone's situation is different, and I don't want to generalize.

If you are willing to listen to me, then calm down, weigh what I say carefully, and think clearly before acting, so as to avoid the gains and losses after you choose one of them.

It's about learning lessons. "Absorbing" focuses on adoption, adoption, and is often used for experiences, lessons, outcomes, etc.

Example: Only by being good at learning from failures can we keep improving.

"Absorbing" focuses on taking, acquiring, and is generally used for power, knowledge, words, etc.

Example: We have taken a lot of knowledge from books.

Antonyms

一、舍解 [shě qì].

Interpretation: 1. Abandonment; Give up.

2. Throw it away. Source: Wang Shouren of the Ming Dynasty In the volume of "Biography": "However, if you want to be widowed, your heart is self-purifying, pure-hearted, and it is not said that you should abandon personnel and live alone for quiet." ”

二、摈止 [bìn qì].

Interpretation: 1. Rejection and abandonment.

2. Still wandering.

Source: Jun Qing's "Riverside at Dawn, Bloody Clothes": "Seeing all this, Old Man Li abandoned his superstitious thoughts, and no longer fantasized about any thunder. ”

One day in the fourth grade of elementary school, I went to the mailroom of my father's unit after school. I grabbed the day's newspaper, and a pile of letters popped into my eyes next to the newspaper, and I looked at the envelope casually. Yikes!

Isn't this a gibbon stamp? The stamp in front of me that the gibbon deftly climbed on the trunk of the tree made my eyes big and round with excitement, you must know that I have been fascinated by philately for more than a year, this stamp is what I have been looking for for a long time, with it, that set of precious tropical animal stamps is complete. But when I look at it again, I'm completely disappointed, alas, why is it Xi Wen's?

He's also collecting stamps, and I've seen that album, and it's beautiful. I'm going to trade with him, and he's definitely not going to agree, that stingy guy.

Although I was disappointed, I was reluctant to leave the gluttonous stamp. Take it quietly, there is just no one in the mailroom. A thought crossed my mind.

But this is a bad thing, is this not clear whether it is stealing? My hand, which fell in mid-air, stopped, hesitated, alas, in a hurry! Thinking about my missing stamps, and looking at the one I had been waiting for to fill in the gap, I finally tore off the stamp, even the little piece of envelope paper that was attached to it, put it in my pocket, and pressed the letter to the bottom of the pile.

After doing all this, I let out a deep breath.

I went home nervously and covered the stamps with a half-damp towel, and after a while, the stamps were cleaned. I gently opened the stamp album and put the gibbon stamps into it, what a beautiful set of stamps, I would have been so happy as usual, but now it seemed to have no brilliance, and the round monkey eyes seemed to mock me. I closed the stamp album sullenly, and a row of bold letters on the cover caught my eye:

Philately should also be ethical. I flipped it over and closed my eyes blankly. Alas, this stamp, which was supposed to arouse my great interest, instead caused me a lot of trouble.

I opened the window to blow the wind, and suddenly I saw Xi Wen and his mother walking over. I retracted my head as if I was electrocuted, and I heard Xi Wen crying and saying: Uncle said that he must have a gibbon stamp on the letter he sent this time, and it was easy to look forward to it, but it was stolen by others.

His mother gently comforted him. The stealing of words made me shiver, and I closed my eyes in agony.

Sending the stamps back will not only get rid of my distress, but also make Xi Wen happy. I thought, but how do I give it to him? Let him know that I took it, and he will definitely scold me, although this is only once, but others will hate me when they find out.

I was so anxious that I paced the sail keys and paced nonsense. By the way, write a letter to him and send it to him, apologizing to him and writing 'someone who doesn't want you to know'. Just do it, and in a few moments I was done with it and sent the letter.

Later, I learned from someone else that Xi Wen had received the letter.

I haven't done anything like that since. I will always remember this lesson, because I know that only honesty can bring happiness and pleasure to people.

'Lessons learned' and 'lessons learned' are both correct.

"Absorb" and "absorb" are a pair of synonyms for scum. The main difference between the two is first reflected in the style and use of the beam. "Absorbing" is more elegant and solemn, and usually appears in more formal written language.

"Assition" is more popular, and in addition to the written language, it is also widely used in the spoken language of the public.

In terms of collocation objects, "absorb" is often paired with words that indicate abstract things, such as "learn from experience", "learn from lessons", "draw wisdom", etc. The collocation of "absorbing" is very wide, including words that represent abstract things and words that represent concrete things.