My mother doesn t understand my work and I m in a good mood

At present, the market seems to be like this, our company is like this, newly recruited college students, regardless of whether you have work experience or not, once you enter the company, you will first go to the workshop for a month of internship, and work like ordinary operators in the workshop. I don't know what your career selection criteria are, my career selection criteria are first of all to match my major, I must like this job, so that I don't feel tired, and secondly, whether the salary is high or not. Of course, you will find out if there is a future here.

There are two of the three, and this can be done. As for your mother's disagreement, then your mother must have her own opinions, so you might as well talk to your mother calmly and thoroughly to see if you can reach an agreement. Good luck!

The idea is okay, but there is a premise, that is, you must find a new job before quitting.

In fact, it's not a bad thing to work hard, it's not to hone yourself, but to know that money is not easy to come by, and when you manage your money in the future, you will be relatively rational.

Moreover, sorting out the information is not miserable to get home, maybe this is a common problem of your college students, the times are different, master's students are very troubled to find a job, not to mention just a bachelor's degree, do you know my unit, what is the treatment of undergraduate students with the right major? 1500 to 2000 a month (bonuses, subsidies, overtime pay and so on), often deducted and arrears of wages, no rest days (due to professional problems, the Spring Festival and New Year's Day are not off), more than half of the working days need to be on night shift, one year the leader made a small calculation error, which led to dozens of young people like migrant workers out of three months of hard work, and a year of leadership through the basket, the result of the responsibility to the subordinates, so that three interns took the responsibility to squat in the class room ......In this kind of work, you have to spend about 50,000 yuan to find it, and there are many people who encounter bad companies after graduation, and they still pay for a few months in vain (clothing fees, training fees, etc.).

If you want to open some, it is of course best to find a better job, if you can't find it, you can do it first, if you save some capital, you can do a business on your own, and now it is not difficult to start a business, save a few months of income, you can invest in a small business.

The company has few people and few people. If you go to a light calculation, you will be in trouble. If you feel that you can't do it alone, you have to talk to the boss...

It's not like you're too busy. Mom doesn't ask you. You can take the initiative to say why you don't want to do it.

Much done. If you become proficient, it will also be good for you to find another job in the future. The most important thing is whether you feel that there is room for development in your current company, it is better to forget if there is none.

Eat hard, and the direction is superior. Come on. Isn't it just life?。。 The days are still long... Hehe.. Parents all over the world, don't blame your mother... If you find a better job than this, of course your mom will accept it...

In the lower kick wind... Please advise ...

Ideally, there is no better state than to never get angry. But everyone knows it's impossible. So how do you deal with it?

1 Inhale. When a person is angry, adrenaline secretion causes blood pressure to rise and the face to turn red. If you feel that the fire is always attacking, take a deep breath and exhale again. Doing so can at least first act as a vertical shield in the body's response, so that the above state can be relieved.

2 Relax. Close your eyes and try to relax your whole body. The muscles slowly relax, and the tension is gone. Although the method is simple, the actual effect is good. If you can practice yoga, the effect is even better.

3 Imagine. Similar to meditation. Think of some happy pictures, scenes, and things, and experience happy moments.

3. Irritability, dissatisfaction, and imbalance are states in which the degree of anger is relatively light, and these emotions accumulate to a certain extent and become anger. People who are easily irritable need to learn ways to control their emotions.

1 Know the situations in which you are easily irritable. Make a note every time you get upset. After persisting for 1 month, you can find common problems. And there will also be some grasp of the irritability cycle.

2 Avoid the various factors that cause irritability. Once you know the various factors that can cause irritability, you need to find ways to avoid them. It's better not to be irritable than to be irritable and then controlled.

3. Re-examine your irritability. There is often a psychological reason for irritability. Therefore, it is necessary to re-examine it from a different perspective to see if there is really a way to bury fiber every time you are irritable and angry. Maybe it's just my own prejudice and selfishness that are at work.

4 Do activities to relieve irritability. If you encounter something that is unavoidable and really annoying, you can consider finding a way to eliminate it. You can do some sensible, regular sports, such as swimming and playing ball.

It is also very helpful to talk to friends, lovers, relatives, etc., and pour out all the words in your heart. But don't always do it in a fit of rage, because it will inevitably bring with you prejudices and emotions.

Mom feels that she is not in a good mood today, and there must be something annoying about the sedan book, either psychologically or physiologically.

No matter what the aspect, in short, there are troubles, you can test it and ask your mother what Fanxian worries about.

Maybe my mother has encountered something unhappy today, so I can comfort her, or do something to make my mother happy, and say more caring and considerate words.

Mom should be relieved soon, because of your comfort. You can usually share some of the housework.

If your mother is not in a good mood, it may be that she has encountered something that makes you unhappy at work, as a Chunhuai child, then try not to provoke your mother at this time, of course, if you can know what he is worried about, it is okay to help him solve it.

People live in the real world of Tong rent, 365 days a year, it can't be all Tianchong's happy and everything goes well, if your mother is not in a good mood, she must have encountered some trouble, and she may also be unhappy.

But he asked his mother tentatively to see if he had encountered something unhappy to do, and told his mother that maybe you could help her and come up with ideas or something.

If Jingjing's mother doesn't feel very good, then you can communicate with your mother, ask what worries you, persuade your mother, and you will naturally be happy.

Mom may be because the floor is not mopped today, the table is not wiped, and I have not written about bothering about this kind of housework. It could also be that you're worried.

You can ask your mother, of course, you can pour her a cup of hot water first and ask her if she wants brown sugar. Give her a thump on the back again.

Yes, adults sometimes encounter some unhappy things, so they will be in a bad mood.

You can take the initiative to ask your mom if there is anything unhappy about, and maybe she will feel much better if you say it.

Mom Wu Zheng said that Mom Lu is not in a good mood today, is there anything worrying? I don't think I'm in a good mood in general, and I think there must be something bothering me.

Go ask, comfort yourself, and get a little more work.

You can buy something to eat and talk to her.

You can ask Mom.

It's me who is irritable, I can understand it, don't listen to those poisonous chicken soups! I can say beautiful things, but how many are there really to do? Eating and drinking, the way to vent is nothing more than this.

Life is full of troubles in the world, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't be stopped, and there is no need for the version to be sad and sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.

1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.

2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.

3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.

4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.

In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.

Find another job to live life to the fullest.

Think about how analysis doesn't go your way.

It's limited capacity or other reasons.

It's the right thing to do when you think about it.

It's important to look at it with what mindset you have.

It's useless to be just irritable.

Psychological research has shown that there are various biological clocks in the human body and have their own cycles. For example, the intellectual biological clock is a 33-day cycle, the emotional biological clock is a 28-day cycle, and the physical biological clock is a 23-day cycle. So it's normal for people to feel mood swings and irritability sometimes.

Although we can't change our biological rhythms, we can alleviate bad emotions through regulation, shorten the time of mood swings, and reduce the adverse effects of irritability. Here are a few commonly used methods for your reference:

1.Psychological suggestion: Suggestion is a psychological phenomenon that is divided into positive and negative suggestion.

When you are in a bad mood, if you take negative cues to yourself, it will only "make matters worse" and make you more irritable; At this time, you should take positive cues to yourself, tell yourself that this is normal, that the dark clouds will eventually dissipate, and at the same time think more about the beautiful situations and things you are proud of in the past, you can relieve the psychological pressure. The so-called "Ah Q Spiritual Victory Method" is actually a positive psychological suggestion from a psychological point of view, and it should be said that this method is very effective in specific periods and occasions.

2.Goal Shifting: If you're feeling irritated and unable to concentrate because of something or someone, don't force yourself to do things.

At this time, you might as well watch TV, listen to **, write a diary, or read a beautiful article or two. Don't think it's a waste of time, in fact, it's a "sharpening knife without cutting wood", your emotions will be quickly relieved and relaxed, so that you can better do what you should do and want to do.

3.Idea Communication: Psychological research shows that everyone has a desire and need to communicate with others.

Some people don't want others to know what is on their minds, and they are unwilling to express their distress, grievances and sorrows, which not only does not help solve the problem, but also aggravates their irritability, and may also produce psychological disorders over time. The correct way is to find a close friend to communicate and talk, or you can go online to find a netizen to chat, or talk to a certain item at home, pour out your heart and grind your head, so as to gradually eliminate irritability.

4.Exercise release method: If the first three methods are "spiritual", then this method is a "material".

The purpose of eliminating irritability is achieved by exerting physical energy. When you're feeling upset, you can go to the playground for a few laps, play a game, move your muscles, or yell a few times into the distance and sing a song to relax your whole body. These practices have proved to be very effective in practice, and they just confirm the famous saying "life is in motion".