How can you manage a relationship well?

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Mutual trust and understanding.

Give each other some personal space.

Know how to think about each other.

Caring for each other. Tolerance.

Understand. Most important.

That needs to pay, give all your love, so that you can manage this relationship well, of course, only need the joint efforts of both parties.

1. Share your childhood.

In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.

When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other party has formed such a personality and temper.

It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.

2. Make rules for love.

Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

3. Share hobbies.

Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

Because the boy's interest is to play games, and the girl's interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.

4. Talk about each other's view of love.

The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and the physical way of dealing with rocks when problems arise.

But here are some suggestions you can consider:

1.Establish good communication - understand the other person's needs and expectations, and also share your feelings and thoughts with the other person.

2.Respect each other - Respect each other's feelings and opinions, but also respect each other's freedoms and choices.

3.Honesty - Be honest and truthful at all times and don't hide your true thoughts and feelings.

4.Find common ground - find common interests, engage in common activities, and build closer connections.

6.Dealing with Conflict - Conflict is normal, but you can't let it ruin feelings. Learn to deal with conflicts and seek compromises and solutions with the other party.

7.Stay Loyal - Loyalty is the foundation of a relationship. Be committed and accountable to the other person.

These are all important aspects of building a stable and healthy relationship, but at the same time, every couple has its own unique challenges and needs, and the key is to understand each other and work hard to manage the relationship.

The most real feelings are plain and warm, and I feel the fragmented love in my daily life. In fact, we just want to find someone who can talk, have a good temperament, be comfortable together, miss a little after being separated for a long time, want to make a fuss after being quiet for a long time, and will immediately regret admitting defeat after quarreling, love is like this, friendship is the same. The best relationship is not to be on call and talk every day, but I send a message, you will naturally reply when you see it, I will not be suspicious because you did not reply, and you will not feel sorry for not responding in time, it is enough to trust each other and care about each other.

People live in the world, they will go through a lot of things, and you want to be able to get to the bottom of it, but it is a mistake, and it is a kind of relaxation to not see clearly. There are too many things that I can't get used to in life, and it is a confusion, an entanglement, and an annoyance to see clearly. Seeing clearly is a kind of art of life, a kind of wisdom of life, and a kind of harvest of life.

Life is originally a blur, it is better to be confused, and it is easy to end up.

Many relationships can't be recovered when they reach the end, and we don't always hope to be able to turn back, because the emotions of turning back are often not perfect. Don't blame yourself, he is not the only one who treats you well in this life, you are so good that you deserve to be owned by better people. But first of all, don't lose yourself, only those who love themselves are worthy of being loved by others, if you only care about looking back at the scenery in front of you all day long, then you will definitely miss the good one around you.

The world is very big, the scenery is beautiful, instead of looking at the world with a resentful heart, it is better to experience life with a happy heart; Instead of looking at the world with a cursed heart, it is better to live with an appreciative heart.

If you really fall in love with someone, he will be your weakness, your priceless treasure, and you will treat him sincerely and give him everything. With him, sometimes it is also full of hopelessness and grievances. But psychologically I am very dependent on this feeling, and all the retreats are closed by this feeling.

The only thing you can do is to love him without expecting anything in return, as if you were drinking water and eating, you know that he is not good enough, but you just love him, hopelessly.