What does it mean to be strong on the outside and struggling on the inside?

Beneath the strong, cheerful exterior is a heart that is a little hesitant and a little psychologically dark. Have fun.

It is possible to pretend to be strong when you are strong on the outside. You see me laughing, and who knows my heart is crying that's what it means.

I once heard a friend say that how powerful a person is on the outside, how fragile he is on the inside, and when I think about this topic, I feel like I have been pricked by a needle.

As you grow older, you will experience more things, some are satisfactory and some are unsatisfactory, and your friends will also encounter things that are difficult and difficult to understand, and it turns out that it is not easy for people to live in this life! There are always a few things that go well, and things that don't go well happen every day. The pressure of life has forced me to think about the mindset of successful people, why do some people succeed while others live day after day?

From the so-called successful partners around them, it turns out that successful people have some common qualities, such as persistence, self-discipline, self-confidence, strength, optimism and other excellent qualities, these people seem to be omnipotent super soldiers, and any problems will be solved in front of them, whenever you see them, you will always see a sunny and confident face, as if you think this kind of person is born different? This question puzzled me for a long time, until I met a middle-aged stupid big brother who didn't know that behind the seemingly powerful appearance is actually a fragile heart, just to see who can enter the world deep in his heart.

I remember that Ma Yun talked about the hardships and difficulties experienced when starting a business at the beginning, the impact of countless rejections, deception and other things on his heart, although he is grateful for everything that happened in his life, but when we go back to the scene at that time, we can also feel the original hardship and feel the pain of being pierced in my heart. Today's topic is the strength of the outside and the fragility of the heart. In fact, it is not difficult to find that there are many unknown life stories behind many successful people around us or in life, when we peel off the cocoon and carefully understand how strong the strong man is under the bright appearance, we will feel that there is a very fragile part of his heart, but there are very few people who can see this part, or only a very small number of people who can enter their hearts have the opportunity to see this part of the fate.

There is always yin and yang in things, just like the sun during the day and the moon at night, if everyone understands that the truth and the truth may not be the same thing, will we see the more essential and purer inner world of human nature from the halo of appearance? A little insight, with partners**, welcome different points of view to participate in the discussion...