How to avoid becoming an active waster in the circle of friends?

It is necessary to have regular goals and implement actions, and plans with regular time are easy to achieve obvious results.

Everyone has their own situation and lifestyle, and you can't say that what you say is "no nonsense", what others say is nonsense, things are gathered by like, and people are divided into groups. Take care of your own business, sweep the snow in front of your door, and don't care about the frost on others. ‍‍

The meaning of positive waste is: love to set a flag for yourself, but can never do it

Don't always say big things that are unrealistic, it's better to set a small goal and accomplish it step by step!

Don't write a bunch of plans, forget them after posting them on Moments, try to restrain yourself and change a little bit.

If you really want to avoid being an active waster, then you should do something more meaningful.

You can try to break down the goal and improve a little bit every day. When many people set a goal, they directly set a maximum goal for themselves and want to achieve it overnight, but it doesn't take long for them to be intimidated by all kinds of difficulties. In fact, Rome was not built in a day, and goals were not achieved in a day, but needed to be accumulated little by little.

It's so ambitious, although there are a lot of ideas, but there is no down-to-earth fighting.

Don't set too big a goal, and when you have a goal in mind, cut it in half. Then, split your goals, for example, if you originally wanted to finish a book today, in the morning you will naturally feel that there is still a long day, so you will procrastinate, so change the plan to read half in the morning, half in the afternoon, or even change to two hours to read a quarter, so that you are constantly achieving your goals, and you will naturally have the motivation and sense of accomplishment to continue to do it. ‍‍

The most important thing is to set goals that work for you. A big reason why many people become active wasters is that they do not have a clear positioning for themselves. Some people want to become excellent, but they are not steady, and directly give themselves a top goal, wanting to achieve it overnight, but they achieve nothing. ‍‍

Determine your goals and work towards them, and what you have will come in handy one day. In fact, this involves the topic that has been discussed in the past few years, what is useless knowledge and what is useful knowledge. Personally, I think it's always useful to learn more, and no matter what, it's right to add content to yourself. ‍‍

Seeing this, I suddenly thought of the Prima rule I saw a few weeks ago, I tried it myself, it works, and I recommend it to you. Start by taking a day or two to make a record of your behavior, and write down what you usually do every day, including recording all your life activities. Then weed out some of the things that had to be done, such as eating and dressing.

After that, you rank the remaining dozens of things according to your interests, putting your least favorite things to do first and your favorite things to do last. Eventually, you'll be able to do it within the next week. Wake up early in the morning, start with what you don't like the most, and stick to the first thing and then the second ......Do the last thing you love all the time. ‍‍

Actively abolishing people is mostly saying too much and doing too little. I saw a sentence on the Internet: "No matter how much you think, it's better to act once; No matter how much you say, it's better to do it right away. "Really good people, always low-key and calm, the result is their best manifesto. ‍‍

In some ways, it may also be that the goal is too far and too big, so that it is too difficult for you to start the action and slowly give up. You can try to set a small goal for yourself, step by step, maybe there will be a different harvest, I am not long after graduation, I am looking for my own way step by step, and I often feel confused and often question myself, but think about it carefully if I don't do anything. ‍‍