What is it like to live in a circle of friends?

One of my high school classmates, Xiao A, has only been in Beijing for less than a year, and Xiao A's circle of friends is full of elite gatherings and high-end parties, and people who don't know think that he has grown rapidly this year and is moving towards the camp of successful people.

However, in reality, Little A lives in a rental house and works as a salesperson for a small company. His so-called elite club was a colleague who was not available to go and temporarily gave him the ticket. And other so-called activities, training, are simply pictures stolen from other people's circle of friends, of course, he will just block the owner of the picture.

When I met Xiao A half a year ago, I knew that he had become obsessed with the envy of his peers and was carried away by all kinds of likes from the circle of friends. In order to be with some tall people, he had to dress up all day long, and the money could not make ends meet every month.

He began to borrow money from some friends, saying that he was doing something that would make a profit and not lose money, and over the course of a year, he owed a lot of foreign debts.

And his family really thought that his son was mixing very well outside, and once his father came to Beijing, and the sudden visit made him scramble. It was also during this sudden visit that the family found that he was in trouble and lost.

One of my female friends, Xiao C, is not as obsessed as Xiao A, with a solid job and a worry-free life. But she appeared in the circle of friends, giving me an indescribable sense of strangeness. With a mediocre appearance, her image in the circle of friends is definitely at the goddess level.

It is said that the eighteenth change of the female university, I once thought that I hadn't seen it for two years after graduation, and the ugly duckling had become a white swan. It wasn't until the last class reunion that I realized that the person living in the circle of friends was not her ......

Little C shows beautiful photos every day, and it is these urgent needs in his heart.

And Xiao A is alone, too eager to be recognized by his family and friends, and feels that he is doing well in Beijing. <>

1. If life is a journey, happiness and sorrow are the two long orange rails that follow closely behind me.

2. People don't wait for tomorrow, because no one knows if they have tomorrow.

3. If you have a concern in your heart, your life will be strong.

4. The vastness of the sea is in the gathering of large and small rivers, and the ocean of life lies in the fate of embracing deep and shallow.

5. The most important friend in life is where we are, but where we will go.

This morning, after waking up, I flipped through the circle of friends as usual.

I saw that one of them posted a lamenting content about life, which roughly means: I have come this way, learned to be silent, fell in love with loneliness, got used to self-healing, and was full of ups and downs, maybe this is the ...... of life

I don't know why, but when I saw the content of this person, I felt that he was naïve. Maybe it's because I've just read the life chapter of "Peace of Mind is Home". Mr. Ji Xianlin, who is in his old age, also said that he doesn't know what life is.

Every spine hides that the individual lives just to live, to live just to live, the lucky people live better, and the lucky ones are not worse, but this is not life. There is no value and meaning in the life of an individual, only in relation to the person who has a relationship with the individual. Just as the value and significance of the child's existence to the parents, the value and significance of the parents' existence to the child.

In the thousands of worlds, if we have to talk about the value and meaning of each person's life, it is also the significance of connecting the past and the next in the development of human civilization.

Maybe thinking about it this way, I will be more indifferent to my unfortunate life.

Summary. 1. Vent your mind. This kind of person has limited psychological endurance, can't find an effective solution to problems, and publishes anything in the circle of friends, which is actually a typical venting psychology, with nowhere to confide in, but only the circle of friends.

2. Get the attention of others. By posting a circle of friends to announce the world, try to attract the attention and attention of others, and then find the feeling of being needed and cared for in a few likes and comments. 3. Live freely and freely.

This kind of person has no desires and no desires, lives freely and freely, and whoever he loves, the emperor Lao Tzu can't affect my freedom and freedom.

Right away. Excuse me, but please go into more detail?

1. Vent your mind. This kind of person has limited psychological endurance, can't find an effective solution to problems, and publishes anything in the circle of friends, which is actually a typical venting psychology, with nowhere to confide in, but only the circle of friends. 2. Get the attention of others.

By posting a circle of friends to announce the world, try to attract the attention and attention of others, and then find the feeling of being needed and cared for in a few likes and comments. 3. Live freely and freely. This kind of person has no desires and no desires, grinding the freedom of life, who I love, and the emperor is blind like a posture can not affect my freedom and freedom.

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