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Hehe, there are many, many situations like this, he loves you, you love him, but you can't be together... You should set yourself free, and you should set others free. Maybe you can find a better love for you, and he can also find a better rich house, and the relationship will be generated after a long time, since he has no money and no house, then you have to let him find a rich house, and you are too, you should also find a such, parents are not objected,,, don't tell me that money is nothing, love is the most important thing or something.
Are you sure you're only going to fall in love with him alone? Won't you have feelings for other people? Are you sure he won't find a better one?
Break up with him, for your future and for him. Don't feel sorry for him, don't feel sorry for him and don't want to break up with him because you sympathize with him. It is the two of you who suffer ...
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Money is a small problem, the key is that feelings are not easy to come by, money is easy to earn, and love is not easy to earn.
But parents are very thoughtful, and it is recommended to listen to your parents, and you really can't bear this relationship, make a plan with him, and let your parents believe that your boyfriend is a competitive child.
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Go ahead! Change yourself and change the world with your own efforts!
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Believe in the power of love, if he really loves you, he will do it!
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He needs you to give him confidence, and with your support, he will do it.
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If he really loves you, he will work hard for you to make money
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First of all, there must be reasons for the strong opposition of the man's parents, and I want to know what is the reason why they are so opposed to you. If it's because of family reasons, such as not being a household registration, such as being dissatisfied with your appearance or height, such as fortune telling that you are not suitable, etc., etc., if it is such a similar reason, I think you don't need to stick to it, because, marriage is not as simple as you think, thinking that as long as two people love each other, marriage is a combination of two families, not a combination of two people, so, even if you really insist on going to the end despite all difficulties now, the truth cannot be like in a fairy tale, The prince and princess lived a happy life in this way, but, in the face of life, you will have more troubles and contradictions, and when the time comes, the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you will become more and more serious, such a marriage is meaningless. Because no matter how much love you have, constant conflicts and quarrels will wear out love.
Secondly, if the opposition of the man's parents is not due to the objective conditions mentioned above, then if you really like your boyfriend, then you should try to change the place that displeased them. For example, if they are not satisfied with your current job or income, then, for this, you are fully capable of allowing yourself to find a better job or a higher income, and constantly strive to improve yourself, so that even if his parents are picky, they will be satisfied with you. Moreover, if you change yourself through your efforts, even if you and your boyfriend fail to be together in the end, you can also take this opportunity to improve yourself, and if you have the opportunity to meet again next time, I believe that they will definitely be impressed with you and regret that they didn't choose you in the first place!
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Whether the love that the parents disagree with needs to continue to be seen in different situations: if it is because of the constant quarrels between the two of them, it will be okay if the other party apologizes, if you encounter a major event, I hope you will discuss with each other, and your parents will bury the bend of filial piety for you to be bad.
Marriage is the freedom of two people who love each other, it is an important decision, and it is normal for parents to oppose it. But to continue, it is also necessary to find a rational and harmonious attitude to solve it.
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My boyfriend and I also objected to the late manuscript from our parents, thinking that the other party was too far away and too young.
But I didn't obey my parents' opposition, I felt that two people loved each other, and the opposition of my parents did not rush to filial piety.
Maybe others will say that you are not filial, disobedient, and do not hit the south wall and do not look back. But I think that love and happiness are your own, and you can choose how you want to talk about it.
Of course, our parents also love us, and if they oppose it, they must have their opposing thoughts, so you can try to communicate well with your parents.
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The love that the parents oppose does not have to break up, but the love that the parents firmly oppose, or even threaten with life or severance of the relationship, should not be desirable.
I have had the same experience before, I think it doesn't matter whether my boyfriend's parents approve or disagree, the key is to see what opinion my boyfriend maintains, my husband maintained a very firm attitude in that situation, unless I don't marry. Now that we are married, we are very happy, of course, the relationship with my in-laws is okay, we don't eat and live together, so naturally there is no contradiction.
To love someone, you must first love yourself, you see you, you have lost yourself, every day you miss him, you are nervous about him, think about it, every day there is such a person to you like this, how would you feel? Tired, non-stop explaining, lack of trust in each other. Many people have fallen out of love, you are not nothing, you have an experience of falling in love, you have parents, and friends, love should be single-minded, but not the only one, when you love each other, you must also share with friends, but also filial piety to your parents, but also take good care of yourself! >>>More
Choose to use the insinuation, don't try to pierce the veil between you, hypothetically ask her, "One of your boy friends has a problem like this, ask her what she would do if she was the girl, and then continue to ask her what she would do if that person happened to be you, if you choose to refuse, you tell her that it's okay that this is not the case between you, and if you choose to accept it, find another opportunity to confess to her." This should be the kind of true friendship between you. >>>More
Stick to your principles while being able to support yourself. For such a big person, the opinions of parents are very important, but the decision is still in our own hands.
Love does not distinguish between rich and poor, rich and low, as long as you really love her, really good to her, what does it matter if you are known by others, maybe others will envy her, as long as you are cheerful, find an appropriate time to show her your love, maybe you can harvest a happiness that belongs to you, I hope you can succeed.