Proposed to break up with my girlfriend and begged me not to give up

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be open and honest with her about the shortcomings you mind. That's fair to that. If she likes you, she will change it for you, and I don't think I like drinking either, she will change it for you if she loves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The situations you mentioned are intolerable in terms of long-term relationships. I think you can quit drinking, but who you make friends with reflects the essence of a person's heart. And these questions really can't be asked.

    You'd better be determined.

    What should be said, you can hint at her problem, of course, to be tactful. For example, to say it in the tone of my parents, this is a killer feature for breaking up, and I can't get it back from my parents' meaning.

    Text messages are rarely returned, ** not answered. It's going to cool down slowly, so don't worry.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's settled. People's habits are difficult to change, especially if you don't like the friends around her, which gives you the most headaches. So it's divided!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The key is character, see if it is suitable for you, and don't be emotional.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give him a chance and ask her to correct it, and if he can't change it, then break up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. Hello dear. Here will be a sample to explain that I still love you, but will choose the way because you can't give her what she wants.

    My girlfriend is breaking up with me, I'm staying, my attitude is very resolute, she said she didn't want to, but she promised to sleep one last night, if she really wants to give up on me, will she care about me and promise to sleep for the last night?

    Hello dear. Here will be a sample to explain that I still love you, but will choose the way because you can't give her what she wants.

    For example, substance. She said that material and preference must be the same, and I gave her preference.

    Because love and life are not the same thing, but they are closely linked. A lot of them are quarrels over money, and it's better to separate.

    Kiss. But she has experienced it with you, and she has learned that love cannot be eaten, and love belongs to people who are not bad for money. If ordinary people can't live with only love, then how can they love.

    So now it shows that there are a lot of women, we have to face the reality, of course, there are good, as long as you are not hungry, he will not care if he has no money, as long as you are willing to work hard, he believes in the hope of the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's normal for women to propose to break up, they generally have a lot of fantasies, unrealistic, you can't convince her at all, I advise you to change your mind as soon as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe the girl didn't get the feeling she wanted when she was with you, it's not that I poured cold water on you, and if it is not suitable, you can't get happiness by being forced together after all, and you have to have a long-term vision. Just look at what is in front of you, and maybe you will miss a more suitable girl.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Did it happen yesterday?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dude, you're a real man, and you use your knowledge to save your relationship You say what many guys don't dare to say. If this girl is lucky enough to see this article, then I advise you not to give up this relationship easily, there are not many such boys nowadays, you can see from his language that he is anxious and worried, and he can see his love for you. Life is inherently dull, and silent care and support are inseparable.

    If you just go to college, your girlfriend may already like or admire other boys, just like a few netizens upstairs said, gradually transfer your dependence to others, for freshmen this is nothing, after a long time, she will slowly understand who is worthy of dependence, at the beginning will be hot will be sweet and girls always love to compare, if there is still a relationship between you I believe she will turn back.

    Bless you all the same! Landlord, you are a man.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The landlord needs to be calm, if you still want to love her, support her silently, care about her, don't deliberately bother her, whether she has someone she likes or not, whether someone else pursues her. Believe that your emotional foundation is better than anyone's.

    She's tired, she's figured it out, she'll be back.

    Being away from home is not an excuse or a reason. Blessing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It should be a change of mind, the boys in college, especially the older girls, have to poach, after all, a school can meet at any time and you are in a different place. I was also very touched when I read what the landlord wrote. If your girlfriend gets hurt or she figured it out on her own, she'll come back.

    Or let some people who have had similar experiences persuade that if she has feelings for other boys now, she shouldn't be able to listen to what she says, after a long time As long as the landlord insists, I believe she will come back After experiencing the third year of high school, the relationship of repeating this period is extremely strong. Bless you all.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have to think about what the hell is going on You have to find a proper opportunity to talk to her to see what is wrong It will come to this point, man, what you have to bear is a little more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go with the flow, give both parties some space, try to understand, go to the dull, life itself is still dull, it will not always be as hot as when you are in love, communicate slowly, or hope that you will get better slowly!!

    No matter what, the brothers will always support you!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Give the other person a little space.

    Let's talk to each other in person and see what the problem is

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I look at the landlord's question, and I feel very kind and familiar. As if it happened yesterday. My boyfriend and I were also separated in this way, I went to college, there were new things around me, and slowly I became dependent on him, and my feelings faded, and I added some pressure from life and study, so I broke up with him, and I said that I was so desperate.

    Later, after going through a lot of things, I found that people who continue to love in college are often to solve loneliness and emptiness, you know what it means... After about a month of separation, I discovered the various strengths of my boyfriend, and found that I was actually not that strong, and we were also in a different place, but our family was in Baoding. If this girl will see this article, I want to say to you It's easy to fall in love with someone It's hard to cherish someone, it's better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you, the landlord loves you so much I hope you won't repeat the mistakes of the past.

    Come over here and bless you from the bottom of my heart. Now that we're in our senior year, our relationship is still going strong.

    Landlord, you can see your sincerity, you have to be strong now, think about each other, and then contact her after a while, we are all Hebei people, bless you! I hope you are happy

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Dear girl, I used to be like you, giving up the person who was best for me I was hurt, only to find that what I wanted was still the arms that spoiled me, the voice that annoyed me If one day, you see it, come back quickly, we will wait for you together.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I hope you can come out of the shadows soon!! Falling out of love, no one has to go through it, you are still young, and you can't live with her for the rest of your life. If you end up like this, it means that she is not your miss right, sadness is for sure, you love her so much, how easy it is to let go, we will grow in these experiences, you have all loved so hard, haven't you, there are no regrets, you just need to recover slowly, you don't live so heartless without her, these will always pass, and they will become your good memories in the future, she will regret it, because you are so good.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Top the longest words

    If the author of the building is a man, I beg to bow down

    If the author of the building is a woman, I beg... Forget it, simple, in short, the author of the building is an absolutely good person!! Saying what I wanted to say but didn't dare to say made me very ashamed as a student of journalism...

    And then say my own thoughts.

    Brother, I know.

    You take this affection very seriously and give it your all.

    But love, isn't that? Giving is willing, and there will be no return.

    I know you never thought about anything in return.

    You will silently wait for her to come back in the days that are fading away.

    You will give everything and give everything you have for her happiness.

    You'll know that you want invincible netizens to persuade her to turn back

    Everything you do, lives up to who you are – remember:

    You're a man

    A true man who values love and righteousness!!

    This turmoil, no matter what the result is, you have to change something after experiencing it, whether it is an understanding of life, or whatever you do in the future with a little sadness

    In short, you will definitely be happy, and those who value feelings will be happy in the end!

    Maybe she will come back, in the wind and snow and cold, into your arms, tears and warmth.

    Maybe she... Not coming back, but looking back decades later, she will find out.

    There is a man.

    A man who has always been in love with her.

    Passed him quietly.

    And themselves ... chose to let go

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Xunyang Jiangtou night send-off, maple leaves and flowers in autumn. The master dismounts and the guest is in the boat, and there is no orchestra to drink wine. If you are drunk, you will say goodbye, and you will be immersed in the moon in the vast river when you are drunk.

    Suddenly heard the sound of pipa on the water, and the host forgot to return to the guest. Who is the bomber? The sound of the pipa stopped and he was late.

    Move the boat to close to each other, invite each other, add wine and return to the lamp to reopen the banquet. After a long time, he came out, still holding the pipa and half covering his face. The hinge plucks the strings three or two times, and there is love before the tune.

    The strings cover up the sound and thoughts, as if they are complaining about their lack of ambition. The low-brow letter continued, saying that there are infinite things in my heart. Gently twist and slowly wipe and pick up, at first for "Ni Dress" and then "Liu" ("green waist" in the ninth grade textbook of junior high school).

    The big strings are noisy like a torrential rain, and the small strings are like whispers. Noisy and staggered, big beads and small beads fall on the jade plate. The bottom of the flower is slippery, and it is difficult to go under the drift ice of the secluded spring.

    The ice fountain is cold and astringent, and the condensation will not be silent for a while. Don't have gloom and hatred, silence is better than sound at this time. The silver bottle burst through the water slurry, and the iron rider stood out with the sound of knives and guns.

    At the end of the song, beware of drawing, the four strings sound like cracks. The east ship and the west boat were silent, and only the autumn moon in the heart of the river was seen. Groaning and plucking the strings, straightening up the clothes and showing up the face.

    said that she was a woman in the capital, and her home lived under the shrimp toad tomb. [Shrimp toad (há má) mausoleum] thirteen learned to become a pipa, the name belongs to the first part of the workshop. Qu Ba once taught good people to wear, and made up every time he was jealous of Qiu Niang.

    Wuling is young and entangled, and I don't know how many red silk songs are played. The silver grate of the head is shattered, and the blood-colored skirt is stained with wine. This year's laughter will be next year, and the autumn moon and spring breeze will be leisurely.

    The younger brother went to join the army and the aunt died, and the twilight went to the past. Kurama was snubbed in front of the door, and the eldest married a businesswoman. The businessman valued profit over parting, and Fuliang bought tea in the previous month.

    Go to the mouth of the river to guard the empty boat, around the boat moon and the river is cold. In the middle of the night, I dreamed of juvenile things, and my dreams were dry and my tears were dry. I sighed when I heard the lute, and I heard it chirp again.

    is the same as the end of the world, why should we have met before! I resigned from the imperial capital last year and lived in Xunyang City. Xunyang is remote, and I don't hear the sound of silk and bamboo all year round.

    Living near the river is low and humid, and the yellow reed and bitter bamboo surround the house. What did you hear in the meantime? The cuckoo cries and the blood ape wails.

    Spring river flowers towards the autumn moonlit night, often take wine and pour alone. There are no mountain songs and village flutes, and it is difficult to listen to the dumb ridicule. Hearing Jun's pipa language tonight, it is like listening to the fairy music ear for the time being.

    Mo Ci even sat down and played a song, and translated "Pipa Xing" for you. I feel that I have been saying this for a long time, but I am in a hurry. It was sad and not like a forward voice, and the whole audience wept when they heard it.

    Who cries the most in the seat? Jiangzhou Sima Qing shirt wet.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In this case, it seems that your ex-girlfriend basically has no attachment to you. Rejecting you in disguise, or not wanting to go out for you once, in fact, sometimes girls have very simple ideas, and they don't want to go out when they are free at home, and if they are very homely, then it is even more so. Maybe she just wanted to find a time by the way, so she didn't tell you the time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, I don't want to meet you, and I'm afraid that my old feelings will rekindle. So, you're dangerous.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello, actually, what you shouldn't be dwelling on now is when she is.

    Meet you, when she has time. If she agrees to delay the time, then it is obvious that she is not ready, and you keep asking, then she will feel a lot of pressure, and maybe she can't stand it and will block you later.

    If you want to redeem it, you should find out the problems between you, correct and improve yourself, and reduce the girl's anxiety about you now, instead of constantly asking her what you can do even if she meets you tomorrow

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    She proposed to break up with you, indicating that people don't love you anymore, maybe they are good with others again, and they have someone else in their hearts, so you don't have to be sad, the twisted melon is not sweet, the big man should give up Dong, and then choose her again, the family has a clear tung tree and does not worry about the phoenix, I wish you to find a better girlfriend as soon as possible.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, she just wants to let time dilute the feelings between you and goodbye, one is also to keep her promises, and the other is to express her determination to separate, since it has come to this point, then simply divide, in fact, when the girl is so decisive, she hates stalking the most, and feels that there is no manhood, what you have to do now is to seek progress, development, and live your own life, maybe one day she will regret coming back to you, maybe you will meet better, the big husband has something to do and something not to do, chic.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If she wants to break up with you, it means that she doesn't love you anymore, her heart is no longer with you, if you love her, the best way is to stop bothering him, let it be, the twisted melon is not sweet, and the mature man should break up decently.

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