Books about communication, learning communication skills

1. 1. Make a good first impression. Interpersonal relationships are created in the interaction of people.

At the beginning of a relationship, who doesn't want to leave a good impression on each other? Similarly, who wouldn't want to continue to associate with someone who has made a good impression as a basis for deep engagement? How should we behave in our first interactions with others in order to make a good first impression?

2. Second, take the initiative to communicate. In real life, there are many people who, despite their strong desire to socialize with others, still have to endure the torment of loneliness from time to time, with few or no friends, because they always adopt a passive and passive withdrawal method in social interactions, always waiting for others to accept them first. Therefore, although they are also in a bustling world, they still can't get rid of the loneliness of their hearts.

You know, people don't interest us for no reason. Therefore, if we want to win others, establish good interpersonal relationships with others, and establish a rich world of interpersonal relationships, we must be the initiators of communication and be in an active position. We should worry less and try more.

When you take the initiative to greet strangers and talk; When you want to invite a dance partner at a prom, you will find that your efforts are almost always successful.

3. Third, care about helping others. Adversity is known, and adversity is true. When a person encounters ups and downs, encounters difficulties, and encounters failures, he is often the most sensitive to the human situation and needs the most care and help.

Therefore, when you are in trouble, you can lend a helping hand, help those in need, comfort the disappointed, and you can quickly win others and build good relationships. If you are indifferent to others, insensitive, stingy, and afraid of causing trouble, you are likely to end your relationship.

Shen Kai's books on how to communicate with others, "The Power of Speaking", "How to Speak", "Humorous Communication", "The Art of Communication" and so on.

Let's take a look at how to communicate with others to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Communicate with others with a smile on your face. Everyone likes to talk to someone who is smiling and mild-mannered, because they can hear a sense of intimacy in this person's speech. Do you feel comfortable when the person you're chatting with is smiling all the time? When his tone of voice makes you comfortable, do you feel the urge to continue talking to him?

Pay attention to your words and deeds in the process of communication. If you want to talk effectively with others, you must learn to get along with others politely and make others have a good impression of you. This is very important.

Even if it's a topic that both people like, don't keep exchanging opinions on this topic, as it will bore the other person after a long time.

If you know that the other person has something bad recently, be sure not to mention it during the conversation, otherwise it will cause the other person to be disgusted and uncomfortable. In the process of communication, if you have a problem with filial piety, or if the opinion you put forward is unreasonable, you should take the initiative to apologize to the other party and bravely admit your mistakes, such as "I'm sorry, I didn't think it through." "Wait, it's all good.