About interpersonal skills, interpersonal skills

Hehe, first solve a misunderstanding, it's not good people with good grades.

The key is to look at the charisma.

A few pieces of advice to give you The first week of high school is important.

It is necessary to have more activities in the class, and win the love of both the class cadres and everyone.

Try to remember your classmates' names as quickly as possible.

It is also very important to have military training in the first year of high school.

Don't always focus on your own little things, think more about everyone, and everyone will think of you.

For example, bringing snacks for everyone to eat, grabbing a few fetchs of water or something, it doesn't take much time, it doesn't take much energy, but it works very well.

Also, don't stay in your seat when you get out of class, walk around more, communicate with others more between classes, go downstairs or take a look in the corridor at noon, and make more friends from other classes.

After all, if you have more friends, it's easy to walk

Either way, be confident and optimistic, and try to spread that to others, so that they feel comfortable with you. Don't be too polite with your classmates, otherwise it will look very raw.

Hehe, high school learning is not the most important thing, the key is to improve one's all-round quality. Socializing with others is the key to entering society later in life. If you only know how to read books, you won't have anything to eat.

It's all my own experience, typed out word by word Hehe, I hope it helps you

I'm also a freshman in high school, hehe

In fact, it's good to talk to people more.,Don't be bored yourself.,If you can't get along with each other every day in high school, college is even more difficult.。。。

If you want to be good at interpersonal communication, you must first take the initiative When you enter high school, you can take the initiative to greet your new classmates, introduce yourself, and talk more about topics that you like about each other.

Students take the initiative to greet each other and greet them with friendly greetings.

Sincerity Be sincere to others, and everyone will like you

First of all, I think that if you want to make friends, you have to change your mindset, you can't think that only people with good grades have good popularity, my grades are only average, but I also have a lot of sincere friends, so you have to change your mindset.

Then, try to find someone of the same sex that you think is good and try to open up to him. You may learn how to do things and become friends with more people. By the way, try to say good morning to the people in your class every day when you go to school.

Finally, I would like to say that when you call out a friend, you feel that he is not as good as you think. You shouldn't just stop being friends like that, because everyone has their own personality, and at this time, you should accept him, or don't touch his unpleasantness, just care about what attracts you.

I hope you can find a true friend

Push others with your own heart; How you want to live is how you want others to live. If you don't want others to treat you, don't treat others like that; Start from your own heart to understand whether others will feel the same way as you.

Interpersonal skills are:

1. Be good at using non-verbal means

Among the non-verbal means of communication, the most important are expressions, including facial expressions and body expressions. A smile illuminates all who see it, like the sun through the dark clouds, bringing warmth. So greet your friends with a smile, and your friends will be happy because of it, and you will become a popular person.

2. Remember the other person's name

Remembering the other person's name and calling it out is tantamount to giving the other person a very clever compliment, showing that you care about him. And if you forget or.

Calling the wrong person by name will be very embarrassing and not good for you. So while interacting with someone, it's best to repeat the name a few times in your mind, trying to associate it with that person's face, expression, and other features.

3. Sincere praise

For many people, being able to be noticed by others for their "small" strengths and strengths, and being praised, will be very grateful to the person who praises them.

The degree of favorability will also increase.

However, those who praise should also remember that praise should be moderate and sincere, and if it is a small fuss, it can only be counterproductive. Although the praise in person is necessary, the praise behind it cannot be ignored. The compliments behind them may not be known, but they will make people feel that you are sincere.

Fourth, be good at exposing yourself

In real life, people have learned to hide their true feelings, and if people can express their thoughts and emotions frankly in their interactions with each other, then suspicions, misunderstandings, conflicts and disputes will be greatly reduced.

Proper "self-exposure" not only helps others understand themselves, but also helps others to feel good about themselves. People like self-exposing people and don't like self-closing people. However, the degree of self-disclosure must be limited to not surprising the other person.

5. Master the art of criticism

When we have to criticize someone else's mistakes, we need to be skillful. First of all, pay attention to the occasion. It's better not to be in the court.

If you criticize others in public, you should let them save face, otherwise it will lead to anger and counterattacks.

Second, start with compliments. It usually feels better to listen to some unpleasant criticism after we have heard someone praise us for some of our strengths. In addition, criticism should be based on facts, not insulting.

Interpersonal skills are poor and cautious.

1. When talking to people, be sure to wait for someone to finish speaking. Interrupting others can easily cause unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions. The ancients:

The wise man thinks first and then speaks, and the fool thinks before he speaks. "Smart people don't grab words, but listen and think before they give their opinions.

2. Learn to put polite words such as "thank you", "sorry", "you're welcome" and "it's okay" on your lips. In the end, people get along with each other, not by appearance, but by character. Language civilization is a person's best "education business card".

3. When others laugh at themselves, you should praise them in turn, instead of stepping on them. Many people like to use "self-deprecation" to resolve the dilemma. The subtext behind it is "Come and refute me, praise me by the way", not for you to follow the ridicule.

4. Don't exchange a secret for a friend. When you tell a secret to another person, it means that you are stuck in a passive situation in interpersonal communication. Friendship in exchange for secrets can only be built on secrets, and once secrets are no longer secrets, friendships will inevitably break down.