There will be a lot of practical considerations in love, is that really the case?

When talking about marriage, you must find the right person and the other half who have the same three views.

Is it important to test whether the three views are compatible before marriage? The three views include family views, marriage views, consumption views, such as the issue of giving birth to boys and girls. The problem of the parents of both parties to provide for the elderly, and the question of whose house to return to during the New Year? The second child has a surname and whether he lives with both parents.

Things gather by like, people by groups, or you look at the friends around her to know his true level and three views.

If your boyfriend's income is average and hardworking, he is not afraid.

Whether the mind is mature or not, the maturity of the mind looks at the maturity of the foundation, not the final maturity, the final maturity, but the further maturity of the two parties in the long years. So whether it's a good woman or a good man, it's all cultivated.

Only daughters or families with only daughters in the family should think more about their parents, and if the parents are far away, they should still live with their parents if possible.

Don't talk about being in love for too long, unless you can afford to say that a girl's youth is limited and short-lived.

Don't get married for the sake of getting married, take marriage seriously, no matter how old you are, no matter how much the family is urging.

Don't think that your boyfriend is the person who loves you the most in the world and is the most important person to you, the person who will always love you the most unconditionally is your parents, and your parents are also the most important people to you.

Family situation, work situation, three views, personality.

Each of us wants to have a happy and fulfilling love, and we strive for it. But when you really fall in love, you will find a lot of things that you don't know or don't know deeply enough. ......Specifically, these things include love that focuses on love but requires more strength to be sure, the right pair is really key for love, and love at first sight, although romantic, but not necessarily reliable.

1. Love focuses on love, but it needs strong strength as a guarantee.

In the minds of the vast majority of people, love is the state of focusing on love. These people will think that there is only love and nothing else in love. Such a view is inaccurate.

In fact, it is necessary to have a solid material foundation for falling in love, and if you don't have strong strength or sufficient superior economic conditions, the difficulty of successfully falling in love is very low. This matter can only be understood after falling in love.

2, Door-to-door pairs are really important for a relationship, and it's very crucial.

Many people think that the right pair is an outdated notion that simply doesn't matter to the person who is in a relationship now. But in fact it is by no means so. ......There will be very big differences between two people who are not in the right household in terms of living habits, economic conditions, ways of thinking about problems, and recognition of each other, which will lead to many problems in love between them.

And two people who are the right person have similar living conditions and similar ideas and concepts, so it is easier to produce a common language, and it will be easier for two people to succeed in love. This matter can only be known after falling in love.

3. Love at first sight is romantic, but it is not necessarily reliable.

Love at first sight is very romantic, and many people are extremely envious of it. ......But in fact, this kind of love will have a lot of problems because of the lack of understanding of each other, so love at first sight is not necessarily reliable, and many such relationships do not end up with the desired results. This situation can only be known after falling in love and preparing for teasing, and after having personal experience.

Because in this society, material conditions are the main factor in falling in love.

What is love? When one person's fantasies and contributions to another person are answered, and both parties have such fantasies and are able to respond to each other and give to each other. At this time, love will no longer be a one-man show, but a relationship between spirit and reality constructed by two independent individuals.

We call it love.

It is conceivable that in terms of the meaning of love itself, it is difficult to get it, and it is too difficult to meet someone who has the same fantasy as you, and it is even more difficult to meet the possibility of reaching the same level of reality while also having such fantasies with you. Therefore, love is a luxury, and luxury is not something that can be obtained by thinking about it.

And most of the forms of love that we usually talk about now are intimate relationships, companionship relationships, responsibility relationships, etc., which have a special realistic imprint in themselves, and this cannot be called love. If the aspect of love is realistic, it is tantamount to misinterpreting the definition of love.

What is reality? Reality is knowing what you have, and at the same time you can reach out or work hard to reach what you can reach, this is called reality. The kind of unrealistic fantasy, waiting for the rabbit, sitting and waiting for death, is not called reality, that is called an idiot's dream, and that is called delusion.

On the one hand, talking about love, on the other hand, talking about reality, the two contradictory existences, put together to talk about it, can never be clear. But if we talk about falling in love, intimacy, and reality, we can talk about it well. I don't think there's anything wrong with considering reality when it comes to relationships and future marriages alone.

After all, there are not many people who enter marriage from love.

An authoritative psychological agency once conducted a data survey, a total of 3,000 groups of divorced family data samples came to the conclusions, including online surveys, street interviews and street passers-by surveys. The root cause of divorce in more than eighty percent of families comes from economic problems, which is what we call reality.

As the saying goes, "poor and lowly couples mourn everything" is not unreasonable, and the fuse of divorce in these eighty percent has nothing to do with reality, but it is because of the extension of real economic problems. Although I personally prefer to advocate a relationship that is not aimed at marriage, because marriage and love are not the same in nature.

Of course, if a person is very realistic, but the self is indeed a little lacking and needs to rely on the help of others, then it is no wonder that others are also realistic to you.

Because love also needs to have a certain material foundation, and the pressure of life is so great now, if the lives of two people cannot be guaranteed, there will only be more quarrels, and sooner or later they will be separated.

Because only when material needs are guaranteed, it is easier to be happy, if the two do not have enough financial ability, there will be more troubles in life, easy to quarrel, and such a relationship will not be very strong.

Now in this era, many people think differently, people are gradually maturing, now we can already realize the importance of money, we can't go without money, the same is true for love, no one will follow you without money.

Nowadays, it is very realistic for people to fall in love, which is a real problem, because now the society is developing too fast, and there is no certain material foundation, so it will be very insecure.

It's unrealistic, because the ultimate goal of falling in love is to get married, and marriage requires a lot of money and good conditions, so it should be more realistic.

Because everyone has grown up and has become very mature in many things, it is rare for adults to be as naïve as before.

Because of the high prices now, if it is unrealistic, we can't support ourselves at all, so we consider economic strength more when we fall in love.

Because this society is very realistic, it is unrealistic for women to fall in love, and it is easy to be manipulated by the man's family, so it is better to be realistic.

Forced by the pressure of life, you can't always fall in love with a penniless person, and now it costs money to drink saliva, so it's better to be realistic, and now it's beneficial to married life in the future.

This is a social phenomenon, the final outcome of falling in love is that two people get married, if there is no even the most basic material guarantee, how can the quality of life be guaranteed in the future.

The longer you are in love, the less novelty there is for both parties, and many people can't stand such an ordinary life, so it's difficult to get to the end.

Because love also has a sense of reality blessing, the longer the love period, the more the reality that two people are worried about.

Because it will be uncomfortable over time, and it will also lack a certain amount of freshness, it is difficult to have results.

This is what everyone will like, no one will like the so-called love on the Internet, or most people prefer love in reality.

To be in love, you have to feel it.