Are you happy? My boyfriend and I are living together, but I don t feel happiness

It's okay to be good to you and really love you, how can there be so many touches in life?

You are easily touched by the person, he really can't move you. It means that he is not a romantic person, you like romantic feelings very much, he is really solid and down-to-earth, and the two of you are indeed a little bit different.

Real life is bland, the romance you want, he may not be good for you!

So, if you feel that you are very unhappy, just divide it, and there is no result!

Are you married? Didn't get married and lived together or anything. If you feel that you can definitely be together in the future, of course you can live together; However, most of them cohabited first, and there were few of them.

Girls, don't be so easily moved, a boy, if he really wants to be with you, he won't tell you that we live together, but want you to marry him, understand?

In fact, love is very simple......Every day with him is happy and every day is romantic! Maybe all girls are like that! I love it very much, but I say that I can't feel happiness and romance!

To discover the beauty in life!! Cherish your fate! After all, it is not easy to meet in the vast sea of people!!

You don't love him very much, and he doesn't love you very much.

Why do you want to live with him if you can't feel happiness?

How can we live together without feeling happiness? If there is no happiness when you are in love, then there will be no more after marriage, because after marriage is more of a responsibility, it is still too late to quickly recognize the direction, and you must also find more reasons in yourself.

1. They don't know your age, and they don't know why your birth parents abandoned you!

From your description, I believe in a few points:

1 Your own parents are honest people.

2 You don't have a career yet.

3 The phenomenon of this society is not very clear.

Anyone, in life, will encounter difficulties, because your biological parents foster you out when they encounter difficulties!

So you now feel distrustful of your parents, alienated and hostile to them!

These are karma!!

If a person does something wrong, it often takes 10 times as long to make up for it, and it is difficult to make up for the reason why it comes back, and here it is!

But there are a few things we should know!!

What do you call a parent?

Your own parents brought you into this world, and without them, there would definitely be no you now!

They are the benefactors who brought you into this world!!

But the blood relationship cannot be severed!!

Now that your parents love you, you feel very hypocritical, yes, they have a weak heart, and they have been sorry for you before!

Now want to make it up to you!

Do things that they don't usually do for you!!

So, you feel like they're being hypocritical!

Everyone looks at the problem from a different angle!

I feel like you're so happy!!

You now have the love and support of two moms and dads!

Because your current results are also caused by your own parents!

So, from another point of view, you should thank them!!

We are children, in addition to accepting the love of our parents!

You also need to build your own world!

I said above that you don't have your own career yet, because you're still thinking about the past!

Each of us, live more in the present and face the future!

If each of us lived in the past.

There is no planning and arrangement for the days to come!

There is only one result, and it will be dull forever! Can't help yourself!

So, I'll give you some advice:

1 Give yourself more opportunities to learn, learning can make you see through the world!

2 Learn the way to look at problems, anything is good for you!

It's just that you need to find the benefits.

3 Adjust your mentality and move forward, transform the love of your two parents into motivation, and work hard for your career!

4 Learn to accept the love of Mom and Dad and learn to love them at the same time!

Love is mutual, and only when you love others do you know that love is precious!

I hope my advice helps!

I also hope that your family will always be full of joy!!

Because there were shadows when I was a child, and now I still have a gap in my heart, and try to accept them, and I will have a different perception of things in a different way.

I didn't read that many words you typed, I just knew that I couldn't die now, but I wasn't happy at all. You have to work every day, but you can't work if you don't work.

Maybe in your parents' time, they had unspeakable or some difficulties, have you ever thought about it? Imagine the parents of the world who do not love their children, home is our warm harbor, of course, who encounters this kind of thing and says that it is impossible to have no idea in their hearts, try to communicate more with your family More care and more care, when you have your own family and children, you will know how to be a parent!! Don't think about it so much, work hard, and live happily every day is true

I think it's not just your views and attitudes that need to be changed, but more importantly, you need to communicate with your parents right away, which is the key, otherwise, no matter how much you change personally, it will be difficult to change the fact that you feel unhappy.

Moreover, you have lost the childhood that you could get to know your parents well, and now why don't you talk to them about your thoughts?

Many people say that they are unhappy, I have begun to disbelieve this statement, I don't believe it, is it that after living in the world for so many years, there is not a small thing, when you recall it, you can't help but raise the corners of your mouth?

When you greet each other cordially, the other party often answers you with a simple smile, which means that you make him feel happy. So, happiness doesn't not exist, and people who think they are unhappy, don't you realize that you are actually rejecting happiness?

It is often difficult for me to communicate with my parents, I always feel that there is a generation gap between us, and even feel that they really don't care about me at all, they only care about making money all day long, using money to meet all my superficial requirements, never listening to my inner words seriously, and I have gradually developed a bad habit of facing them with only a superficial face every day. Gradually, as I grew up, I learned more about this outward shell, after a serious car accident, everything changed. Even though my parents' attitude towards me is the same now, I will never look at them the way I used to, because I know that loving someone is not about constantly greeting and caring for him every day, but never ignoring the existence of the other person.

I don't know if my answer is useful to you, because this is the conclusion that I have come to about happiness in myself or in the world for 17 years, and sometimes, it is necessary to experience some things in order to truly feel that happiness has never left us.

Why care so much about the past?

Please forgive me for standing and talking without a pain in my back...

However, after reading your article, I think this is your most important question (personal humble opinion), perhaps, some experiences when you were a child make you have a certain psychological shadow.

However, you might as well think about it objectively, your parents are also human beings, and you can't ask them to do it all for you.

Now it's good for you, is it good in the material, or in some small details of life?

Regardless of the difference between the former and the latter.

Cherish it. Family is everyone's haven.

If your parents are old, maybe you will feel it more deeply.

In order not to regret yourself in the future, let's get along better.

Your acquaintance with your boyfriend is quite romantic, and in my heart, I hope you can finally walk into the marriage hall hand in hand.

The educational gap, he is trying to change himself for you, which is very touching. It's okay to have love, it's okay to have academic qualifications.

Regional gap, and when you have a successful career in the future, you can choose a place to buy a house, and you can have love, and the region is no problem.

The gap between urban and rural areas, I have always felt that as long as the two love each other, there is no difference between urban and rural areas, and I want to go to the countryside to replace the air after staying in the city for a long time. It's okay to have love, no gap.

You can't just see the gap with him, I believe that the distance can be shortened, the key is to find the right person.

I have to say that the personalities of the two of you, one anxious and one slow, really complement each other, as well as your common hobbies, ** and travel... Don't you think the days to come will be even better? Hehe, I really hope you can pass the test of time, the only question is that you are not reading a book...

A girl is always a girl, and she knows her father's temper well! When it's time to talk about marriage, after a period of time when your parents test your boyfriend, they will see the tacit understanding and happiness between you, and then your father will find out how you met? Don't worry.

Because you're still a student at school, it doesn't feel appropriate to mention this to your parents now. I think it would be more appropriate to wait until you finish your studies and have your dream job.

My mom, this kind of encounter, acquaintance, and getting along with each other is really amazing. Hehe.

But none of that matters.

The key points are as follows, and I will sort them out for you:

1. The degree of education of a man is very important in reality. As a person who has come before, this is the core of the family's economic foundation.

But then again, if he had been dating each other because of your online dating before, they would have accepted each other. Then these considerations are already a matter of later story. At least he's already fighting, working hard and doing it with his heart at the moment. You should let go of this generational gap between the perception of the gateway and the knowledge.

2. Another important point is how much is your relationship foundation? This is an important decision that is determined by the first point.

If you believe in Him and trust Him, you can create your happiness through your own efforts. Then you have to let go of these opinions, go and help him, and work together hand in hand to face all difficulties.

3. Judging from your situation, this boy's intentions are still good. There is potential for development. But since you are separated from each other, communication and mutual assistance will be a big obstacle. In particular, the aspects of thinking and ability to reflect judgment and so on.

The saddest hurdle is that you still have to face your parents.

If he is not knowledgeable and has few words, he is not very good at speaking. That's the end, relying on your efforts alone, it's basically in vain.

If you are not more than 70% sure, do not introduce it to your parents. At the same time, let him think about the way forward and the way out.

After all, there are many major things that require men to stand alone. A woman's ability will always be very limited.

You have common hobbies, which is a very important foundation for being together.

He can improve and change for you, which means that he has the determination to pay for you.

You still feel persistent in being away from home for a whole year, which shows that you still really love each other.

The fact that you can improve after an argument shows that you have the ability to stabilize the relationship.

Based on the above four points, at least without external interference, you can be happy.

But! Whether you can be happy together or not, the most important thing is the attitude of your parents! This is very important, the reality is very cruel, sometimes the decision of the parents is crucial, and many couples are separated because of the opposition of their parents.

After all, you can't cut ties with your parents, you can't abandon the parents who raised you, right? So how to convince your parents of this is very important.

You said your parents were good at the door.

First of all, let your boyfriend finish the college as soon as possible, which can also reduce the gap.

Secondly, there is the problem of life in the future, you are in a different place, and in the end you will settle in **, if you live in the city where your parents are, then the success rate is also high.

Again, since you're afraid because of the bad start of knowing this online, let's embellish it a little, so to speak, I met in the tour, the man picked up my wallet and returned it to me, and then I met and so on, a little bit more beautified.

In the end, it's secretly probing the words of the parents and the like.

In the end, you need to think a lot about the consequences that you need to face together, whether you can bear it, and if you can, then I think you will be happy if you solve these problems.

I think that he is able to work hard to change himself for you, which shows that he is self-motivated. Being able to communicate with each other after you have a conflict is also one of the factors that many couples and couples lack when they have conflicts or quarrels, which leads to the rigidity of the relationship and the breakdown of the relationship.

Love requires mutual tolerance, understanding, tolerance and consideration, and being honest with each other.

How to know, the educational gap is not very important, the important thing is that two people can get along, and they can be heart-to-heart, rely on each other, and love each other, this is true love!

Whether it is suitable for yourself only you know, believe in what you encounter in your factory, you have the right to choose happiness, and no one can stop it.

My definition is: being able to be with someone who truly loves each other, and being able to make each other happy, is the greatest happiness!