Reason for giving up 30, if you can t find a reason to give up, just stick to it

If I were you, I wouldn't give up, but I wouldn't confess to her either. I won't give up because I feel that you still like her very much, and the fact that you want to care about her and love her is proof. But if you confess at this time, the consequences may be serious, because one is that she has no clear attitude now, and she has not broken up with her boyfriend, if she is with you now, then where does she put you?

And where did she put her boyfriend? If you confess it now, it may be difficult for you to even be friends in the future. My suggestion is that as long as you feel that she is someone you are worth waiting for and protecting, you had better love her silently as a friend now, and when her attitude is clear and she breaks up with her boyfriend, you can go on your love offensive, I wish you success!

But if you don't think she's worth the wait, it's best to draw a line with her, and if she comes to you, you can politely say no, and if necessary, explain your thoughts to her.

It's not a big deal for men, just let go and do what you want to do and be yourself. The main thing is to know what you should do and when. Don't waste your youth, a man's career is the most important thing, don't have children's affection, when you succeed, you will feel that there are many excellent women.

No matter how much you love, remember, you can't be without dignity. If you feel that she doesn't have you at all in her heart, or looks down on you, you can't have this kind of love.

It's true that the love is deep, and it's incoherent, buddy, wake up, the world outside is beautiful.

A man of your character, you give up is a blessing to her.

Maybe giving up is what makes him happier.

Let go of your hand and let go to see how she reacts?

The Paragraph of the Judgment. Constant chaos is chaos.

I suddenly remembered the story I watched a long time ago: a young man fell in love with a beautiful princess. The princess said that if you can stand in front of my window for 100 days, I will marry you.

So the young man stood in front of the princess's window, and regardless of the wind and disadvantages, he dismantled the rain and the sun and sold it instead of rain, and so on for 99 days. On the hundredth day, the princess woke up and habitually looked out the window, but did not see the figure of the young man. Everyone was amazed at the young man's last-minute abandonment.

The young man said: I persevered for 99 days to prove my love for the princess. I gave up on the last day for the sake of my own dignity.

The princess did not waver after 99 days, which shows that I am not worth holding out for her to the end.

When I was a child, I felt poignant and shocked when I read this story, and I felt that for life and love, "if it is for freedom, both can be thrown away". Now that I think about it, I realize that this story is not just about love and dignity.

Many times, we love something, work hard for it, and persist for it, and over time it becomes a habit, even forgetting our original reasons, and ignoring whether the thing itself has long been unrecognizable. It is very difficult to keep a clear mind and heart at all times.

So, use 99 points of effort to stick to your choice, leaving a distraction to give up at the right time. Neither life nor passion should be wasted.

There will be a good reason for giving up and persevering. Not love, but anticipation. There is a saying: Many things are not insisted on because they see hope, but because they persist.

Recently, J can spell words and recognize phonetic transcription, which was something I couldn't expect before. After accumulating persistence, even if sometimes he felt that such persistence was meaningless, he finally persevered, and suddenly one day he found that he liked English subjects a little.

Dad often said to his son, "I don't see your dedication to learning, so I don't have hope for you to take the road of learning." "Whenever I hear this, I am anxious. We need to have a growth mindset, and the potential of people is endless, and such a label is really not advisable.

Whether it's life, reading, or writing, I always believe that first finished, then perfected! As long as you do it, you will always be closer to happiness than standing still!

Don't seek success, seek to be worthy of yourself, at least work hard. Cause on the hard work, fruit on the fruit on the fate.

Behind anything wonderful is there will be difficult twists and turns that you can't imagine. Smooth sailing is good, but the matching of Dousen's ability and desire is the inevitable result.

Xiao A wants financial freedom, has a good college life, is not motivated after graduation, and his boss gives him opportunities, but he really can't afford it. Fortunately, after missing the opportunity, he came to his senses and became humble and studious, hardworking and motivated. All opportunities exist for those who are prepared.

In the new semester, I started running, and last week I felt that running was something I could enjoy, and I was more than willing to get up a few minutes earlier than others to run a few laps around the playground. Last week, someone said that I couldn't last a month, and I swore to her that I would definitely be able to run for two months; Some people told me what you ran for, you are already so thin, what do you have to hold onto, I didn't expect mine to be, because I want to grow taller, because I want to adapt to the feeling of loneliness, some people actually say that I am "looking for abuse"; In other words, I was so confident at the beginning, why don't I want to stick to it now? But I couldn't find a reason to give up, and I didn't understand myself.

When I was running this morning, I thought about it seriously, probably because I wasn't so persistent, probably because I was too impetuous and not single-minded enough. In retrospect, yes, I used to like some emotional articles and management books, but now I don't want to do anything, am I the kind of person who likes the new and hates the old? Am I like this?

I don't like myself like Ben Boy.

There is such a person around me, she saw that the idol was very casual for the word horse, so she also wanted to practice the word horse, but the word horse is generally practiced at a very young age, and the day after tomorrow will be more difficult to practice, she chose to persevere, in half a year, for the word horse has been very proficient. I asked her how you did it, and she said that anyone I like can do it, and I want to do it, only in this way can I be called a loyal fan, yes, for such a person, she will practice if she has nothing to do, and even practice until her legs are lame, and she will not give up until her legs are swollen, just for a belief, to be able to have the same hobby as the person she likes. Well, I guess that's single-mindedness.

Yes, I see that people can persevere, but why don't I persevere? For me, who looks average, has an average figure, and is average in everything, why did I give up like this, and what reason do I have to choose to give up? Is it just a three-point heat for just one step?

It's only been a week, I've been practicing for half a year, and every time it's so painful, it's not the same to persevere.

If you can't find a reason to give up, then stick to it.

We must learn to be a determined person, not to follow the crowd, let alone achieve it overnight. If you want to be self-disciplined, you must first start with one thing, if you want to think about it, you can run a step, once or twice is really nothing, insist on one month, two months, this is called running, you have to take it as a habit, you will feel uncomfortable if you don't run.

Dear self, if you can't find a reason to give up, just stick to it. Maybe you still don't understand why you made this decision in the first place. However, since you have done it, just stick to it, not for anyone, for no reason, just so as not to become the self you hate.

One day you will defeat the villain inside you, and I hope you are a positive person who can influence the people around you. I'm sure you'll get better and better like that.

In fact, there are only two reasons: either the other person has found their own happiness, or you have found happiness yourself.

Not all likes will get the desired results in the end, and for those who are destined to have no results, letting go is the best result.

A colleague I once knew, there was someone she had liked for a long time, but recently, she didn't mention the other person anymore.

Later, I found out that the other party already had a partner, and recently I had begun to plan marriage with my other half.

Out of concern, she would still comfort her colleagues a few words, but unexpectedly, she said: "Actually, everything is not a big deal, I can learn to let go." ”

When the other party is around, the other party doesn't actually know his own mind, but he just dissociates himself from himself again and again.

He didn't want to lose this friend who grew up together, but at the same time, he also knew very well that he couldn't give the other party the results he wanted.

Then, since it is destined that there will be no result, then, not starting is the best result, which is responsible for both parties.

Of course, the process of letting go of a person is not as easy as you think, but you can't always stay where you are, waiting for the other person to turn back.

Life is not an idol drama. There is no moving background** and a tactful plot waiting to be entered, life, what is needed is to be down-to-earth.

2.Marriage is not the result of life.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: "Most of the love is unsuccessful, either because of the boredom of Qizheng and finally becoming a family, or because of the sadness of not being able to become a family in the end." ”

Will everyone who is together have an ending? Or, with the result, the person who has received the certificate will definitely be able to dismantle the sedan chair and live his life peacefully?

From the various cases around us, in fact, they have given us many of the most realistic answers. Hotels.

Indeed, at the beginning, they also fantasized about the future, and they also announced to the world that they would be with each other for the rest of their lives.