How do you get a girl s affection at a party?

Girls generally won't accept it as soon as you confess, and she will refuse it a few times before she is willing to accept it. Because she is a girl, she will be reserved and can't give herself out easily. Got it, right?

You are very emotional, but you don't know much about skills, so you can't express your feelings properly, so you can only love each other silently. Now I want to say, first of all, you have to be firm in your feelings! If you miss it, you won't have it again!

Second, there must be a certain amount of skill. The method of expression is a matter of success or failure. What is the method, that is, you have to understand the psychology of girls, don't say anything heavy, don't say it lightly, and be appropriate.

Specifically, it is to be natural, you are natural, she will relax, you always look at her in pain and infatuation, she will be under pressure, she will run away. If you are natural and not intense, you can say to her, I like you. If you can't be natural, then don't say it directly, care for her silently, the girls are smart and know that you like her.

So there are some words that don't need to be spoken, and they are also a subtle taste.

Men can have nothing, but they must be talented, and if you don't believe it, you can ask the girls around you, and talent is universal.

At the party, take the initiative to help your favorite girl get out of the siege, help her block the wine, and take the initiative to send the other party home, so that you can get the favor of the girl you like.

In your own circle, you may not be the most prominent man. Other friends are more social than you. At the party, they are more visible than you and become the center of attention of the audience.

They may be able to speak well, be eloquent, and have a more cheerful personality than you, but with them, you always feel that the limelight has been stolen.

In such a situation, what can you do to get the girls to notice you?

Deliberately is wrong.

Some people will secretly compete in their hearts because they are suppressed by this aura. When he finds an opportunity, he wants to embarrass the other party and frustrate his spirit. For example: Ouch, I'm cheating on the little girl again! Or: You know you're going to run a train with your mouth.

This might do a little trick, but it's not really clever. Not only will it affect your relationship, but it will also make the other person provoke you, and once you start using words against each other's diss, both of you will lose points at the same time. Whoever prevails in the end will be a dog-eat-dog.

Even if your friend is swept in the face by what you say, the girl will feel that the two of you are half a pound and eight taels. This style of fighting with 1,000 enemies and 800 self-damage will only hurt yourself in the end.

Don't pretend to be an extrovert.

Of course, if you are a little more extroverted, you can certainly attract the attention of more people of the opposite sex, which is indeed a goal worth working on. But you will always meet someone who is stronger than you, and you can use it another way.

You may not be as outgoing and energetic, but you have to have your own characteristics. If there are people on the scene who are more energetic, you can choose the gentleman's route, and if everyone is more active, your complete difference will be easier to be set off. Creating contrast is more effective than blindly fake high.

Choosing a gentleman's route is not to be a quiet and honest person, but to show composure and humility, less exaggerated jokes, more sincere communication, and even appropriate intimacy. In this way, many subtle gestures will be more noticeable.

Switch modes based on the environment.

But what if you're in today's environment, a bunch of low-key honest people? Then you will appear bland in doing so. Therefore, you should switch modes so that you become that high-powered person and make others bleak.

You also need to be careful not to become a clown because you are excited, and don't become a good person because you are too attentive. No matter what the model is, you are a confident and attitude person. What you do is make yourself an important person on the field.

For such a situation, I think many boys have encountered it, so how do we go about greeting the girl we like? I would like to recommend the following:

1. Make a good first impression

For many girls, the first impression is very important. I'm sure you've heard such a sentence, a person's eye, can determine whether he wants to be with this person or not. Therefore, when we get along with girls, we must have a good first impression, so that we will have the opportunity to have further contact with him later.

Whether it is your dress, words, or behavior, you must pay attention to yourself。Because there are many girls who will pay attention to the small details of the boy, as long as you do the small details well, it will arouse his curiosity about you.

First impressions.

2. Understand her preferences

Preferences

3. Observe his emotions

Because for some girls, when they are emotionally unstable, they are reluctant to contact anyone, so it must beIf you are sure, you will not feel inexplicably left out when you communicate with her.

The above points are my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to you. At the same time, when we go to communicate with the girl we like, we also have toPay attention to the issue of good salutationThis also means to othersA kind of respect

It's good to go over and say hello directly, the first time you meet, is to meet friends as ordinary people, briefly introduce your name information, say the impression she gives you, don't be too exaggerated, it will appear purposeful. After that, it's good to create opportunities and get familiar with it slowly, if it's a girl you like, it's good to be naturally generous. If you don't have much self-confidence, you can dress up a little bit, in front of the mirror, and say to yourself that you are good. Come on.

I think it's nice to tidy up your appearance and then greet politely.

It's good to go up and say hello directly, it's just a hello, and it's not for you to confess.

Look at her directly, go over to say hello, take the initiative, chat.

I went over and said to her, young lady, are you interested in getting to know each other. Between adults, you don't have to say it too clearly.

You can say a few words to her, tell her that you have feelings for her, and hope that she can get along with you.

Do you know each other? If you don't know, you can only wait for the opportunity. It can be self-cooked.