My boyfriend always wants to win my sympathy, will he be a scumbag like this?

If you think he's a scumbag, then he's a scumbag, if you think he's not a scumbag, then he's not a scumbag, the important thing is to pay attention to your inner thoughts, and you can change a lot of things in one thought. Therefore, you must have the right view, and only with the right choice can you grasp the feelings and go further.

The reason why your boyfriend wants to win your sympathy may be because he has a sense of loss in his heart and needs comfort. And this comfort, of course, is the expectation that you can care more about him, and he may not be confident in himself or like you too much and care about you, that's why he will win your sympathy. You know people are always used to not cherishing what they already have, and I want you to think about his goodness.

Also, whether he is a scumbag or not is only you know best in your own heart, if he is the right person, he should still cherish it, and if he is a scumbag, of course he should be abandoned.

This will not be the case with real scumbags. To win your sympathy is to be unconfident, confident people will not wait for the sympathy of others, confident people will change the status quo through their own efforts. I suggest that you should calm down and have a conversation, say what you are thinking, you can ask him directly why you always want to win my sympathy, remember to be patient and slow to talk, then he will ask you questions.

It's important to pay attention to himYou can find out the problem from him, whether he is a scumbag or not confident in himself will be obvious. That's where you need to put a lot of effort into exploring. Also, is your boyfriend a confident person?

If a person is like a rainbow, he knows it when he meets it. It's really fate to meet the right person at the right time.

The road of love is full of ups and downs, and only by tolerating and understanding each other can we be happy. You must not forget your original intention and strive to make the flower of happiness bloom. Life is full of too many unpredictable things, we must be patient with every difficulty in life, I believe that there will always be a rainbow after the storm, and the same is true for your feelings.

This may not be a scumbag, but he may not be very self-motivated, it is recommended that you have your own opinion of him, see what kind of person he is, and be responsible for yourself.

A boyfriend who wins his girlfriend's sympathy, such a person is not a scumbag, he just wants to show weakness in front of his girlfriend.

I think so. Chatting with you every day, when your relationship warms up, I take the initiative to tell you about my emotional experience, I have been hurt by a scumbag, and then I don't believe in feelings. At this time, will you sympathize with him and deeply think that he is the kind of person who is very serious and dedicated to feelings?

I want to remind you not to be deceived so easily, because a good man will not always emphasize to you that he is hurt emotionally. Because in addition to being able to win your sympathy, it can only prove that he is a weak and selfish person.

This depends on the situation, judge, you see what he wants not to do with your sympathy, if it is like this every time, no matter what is the case, then he must be a scumbag.