My girlfriend is divorced and has children, my parents don t like her, what should I do?

First of all, you should ask yourself a question: your girlfriend is divorced and has children, and your parents don't like her, so do you suggest she have children? This question is not nonsense, this is the key point. Because your attitude can basically solve most problems.

I'm sure that since you can tell your parents, this girlfriend of yours has also plucked up a lot of courage. This is actually enough to show that for her herself, you love her very much, and the problem is her children. You first find out if she doesn't have children, then your parents like her.

If the answer is like, then your girlfriend's charisma.

If it's enough to make your parents like it, then you still have a chance to convince your parents. You can talk a lot about your girlfriend's advantages in front of your parents, tell them that your girlfriend is really good, and also show your love for your girlfriend in front of your parents, because parents all over the world want their children to be happy, and if they know that you are very happy with your girlfriend, it will often not be long before your parents will relent, and they will support you in the end. First of all, you have to treat her children as your own, so that you will be truly happy, and her children will truly accept you as a father, and they will be more well-behaved.

It may be difficult for this child to be accepted by your parents, but if it is not possible, then reduce the opportunity to meet. Of course, that's an afterthought. If your parents can accept that the child is better, the family will be more harmonious.

You can praise your child in front of your parents and show that you are responsible.

It's also enough to love children. Because if your parents know that you are really capable of taking care of this child, it means that you are really a good man with responsibility, and your parents will also be pleased.

However, if your parents just don't like your girlfriend as a person, then I advise you not to stick to this relationshipBecause a marriage without parental support is really bad, and you will face more trouble in the future. So in this case, unless you love your girlfriend very much, then you better end the relationship early.

All in all, the main thing is your attitude. Because if you love your girlfriend enough, then you are willing to solve these "problems" for her, you will work hard for your relationship, and your parents will always see your efforts in the end. You must remember one sentence:

Your parents must want you to be happy.

I think you have to communicate with your parents, you have to understand that communication is the best solution, and secondly, you have to make sure that you really love her, if you love her, you have to protect her, and I believe that your parents will understand you.

First of all, I have to reassure my girlfriend and tell her that my parents just hope that I can find someone who suits me, and my girlfriend is the person I am looking for; At the same time, I also have to communicate with my parents, tell my parents how my girlfriend is, she also has many advantages, as for the child, he is innocent, and I hope that my parents can gradually accept them.

You can think about whether it's you in a relationship or your parents and your girlfriend who are in a relationship. If the two of you are really compatible and have a really good relationship, you don't mind her past.

1.In this case, the most important thing is that you need to be clear about your ideas and positions. You need to think about whether your family habits will change and to what extent they will affect your family.

You can then consider encouraging family members to have serious conversations about this issue to help them recognize respect for each other so that they can gain their acceptance and understanding.

4.Of course, there are many other channels and methods of help, such as trying to solve the problem through ** resources, or sharing the relevant problem with group members can also help you feel comforted psychologically.

Summary. Yes, unless you can create more favorable conditions for the other person and the other person's family, you will only let the other person struggle with pain and discomfort all the time.

I'm divorced and have children, my girlfriend's parents don't agree with my girlfriend for four years, we both feel very uncomfortable, and she can't bear to hurt her parents, what should I do?

Hello! If you don't want the other party to struggle in pain and discomfort, you can choose to separate from the other party, even if the other party is desperate to be with you, he is also challenging his own heart, which will lead to a negative impact on the road of struggle. Hope it helps.

Isn't there any other way to be together?

Yes, unless you can create more favorable conditions for the other person and the other person's family, you will only let the other person struggle with pain and discomfort all the time.

He used to want to leave me, but when I was about to leave, he threatened me with all the methods of suicide.

I also wanted to leave him before.

But when I was leaving, he threatened me by any means he could.

<> if you have such a situation, you can try to communicate with the other elders.

He wouldn't have allowed us to meet at all, and people in her family now think we're not in touch.

This is because you personally did not deal with the problem well, you have to let the other party communicate with the family bird clan first, can you bring a sense of security and happiness to others, and others will not allow you to cheat with their daughter.