What should I do if my mother is pregnant and needs surgery?

Pregnancy and mother's surgery do not conflict, it is not easy for your mother to raise you, if you have to have surgery, after the operation can reduce her pain or prolong her life, so it is worth it. If you need a lot of money, you still have to discuss it with your husband, after all, you are already married, and it is not your business alone. I wish your mother a speedy **.

In other words, what does your mother's illness have to do with your pregnancy! If you can, you can help, and if you don't have the ability, you have to make up! You can't see death without help!

My mother said I didn't care? Give more when the conditions are good, and make up less when the conditions are poor, otherwise how can you afford it for your parents! It's not easy to raise us!

Don't leave regrets for yourself, the child can't spend a lot of money in the womb, and it won't cost much if you are born with breast milk, and the mother is better than anything when she is sick! Money can be earned slowly, and if your relatives are gone, what will you do to make up for your regrets?

Whether you are pregnant or not, your mother is sick and needs surgery, you have to do your duty, you have to pay for it, you don't have the money to contribute, you can't use pregnancy as an excuse to ignore it.

Your mother had surgery, and if she is short of money, of course she can help with a little money. This is your mother, and of course you have to do your part.

I still have to help my mother. Because of Mother, it is not easy to give birth to you once. If you have the ability, you can help more, and if you don't have the ability, you can help less. I can't ignore my mother.

During pregnancy, pregnant mothers must do prenatal check-ups on time, and doing prenatal check-ups on time is responsible for themselves and for their babies. Tell you about the importance of pregnancy testing during pregnancy, you can talk to your mother, talk about it, and she will understand.

The importance of pregnancy is mainly reflected in the following three points:

1. Regularly test the physical condition of pregnant women.

Each pregnant woman reacts differently during pregnancy due to her different body constitution. At different times of pregnancy, the physical condition of pregnant women may change due to pregnancy, so regular prenatal examination can understand whether the physical indicators of pregnant women are up to standard in each time period, and if there is a problem, it needs to be timely, otherwise even if the delivery is successful, there will be problems with the body of pregnancy in the future.

2. Regularly monitor the condition of the fetus.

Another important role of prenatal examination is to monitor the condition of the fetus, the doctor will measure the fetal size, heartbeat, and do B ultrasound according to the different stages of pregnancy, if the fetus's physical indicators do not meet the standards, the doctor can give ** in time, and if the fetus is seriously malformed, you can also inform the parents in time.

3. Prepare for a smooth delivery.

While monitoring the pregnant woman and the fetus, another important role of the pregnancy check-up is to prepare for childbirth. If the fetus and the pregnant woman are in good condition, the doctor will recommend a smooth delivery, if the fetus is too large, or the position is not ideal, or the pregnant woman's physical condition is not very good, then a caesarean section will be recommended

Regular check-up during pregnancy is a must, it is generally recommended to do Down's screening at 14-19 weeks of pregnancy, choose a suitable hospital at 20 weeks of pregnancy to establish a pregnancy test card and do a regular pregnancy test (some in the early 3 months of pregnancy began to establish a pregnancy test card to do regular check-ups), after the establishment of a pregnancy test card, it is generally checked every four weeks before 36 weeks of pregnancy, and once a week after 36 weeks of pregnancy, if you feel unwell in the process, you can visit a doctor at any time to increase the number of examinations, and you need to do a four-dimensional color ultrasound prenatal deformity at 22-26 weeks of pregnancy, Four-dimensional color ultrasound can display the color, face, and development of various organs of the fetus in three dimensions, and even the state of the fetus in the mother's body can also be observed; It can be an early diagnosis of fetal malformations, such as cleft lip, cleft palate, abnormal bone development, cardiovascular malformations, etc., and understand the fetal intrauterine dynamics of a fetal movement process.

During pregnancy, we must do a good job in the care of the fetus, and do some necessary examinations in time, and do some examinations regularly can ensure the healthy development of the fetus, and timely find out the problems in the development of the fetus, and solve them in time through medical means, so some important examinations are very necessary.

My mother died a month ago, also because of cancer, to be honest I don't know how to comfort you, I often think about her every day, think about how good she was to me when she was alive, think about the sins she suffered when she was sick, blame myself for why I didn't take her to check her body earlier, I was busy with work and love after graduation, etc., I never took her out to have a good time, I haven't married and had children, my boyfriend's mother always asked me to go to her house for dinner, I don't want to go because I see his mother busy always thinking of my poor mother, complaining about God's injustice, The mother-daughter fate between me and my mother is too shallow, the most regrettable thing about my mother is that I don't have time to wait until I get married and have children with grandchildren, she likes children very much, if I were you, I would consider having a child, take the child to my mother's grave to see often, comfort her soul in the sky, and so that I have more relatives and more responsibilities, so there is not so much time to suffer, although this scar is destined to accompany a lifetime.

It's 11:45 a.m., and I miss my mother too much to find your question. My mom has been away from me for 18 days because of cancer at the age of 50. But I still feel like I'm in a fog, and I hope someone will wake me up from this dream.

Since I was a child, I have never been separated from my mother, even if I live in high school, I always run a day school. When I was in college, I went home at least once a month, and I talked to my mother every day. After getting married, I married near home, my mother is my biggest backbone, and I am also my mother's favorite baby.

She is only one of my daughters, I am the daughter she raised with one hand, and she brought up my children with one hand, but she left us early and did not let me fulfill my filial piety. I miss my mother every day, looking at the previous ** and videos, reminiscing about the bits and pieces of my mother, and I can't suppress the sadness and heartache in my heart. There is no cure for this kind of heart disease.

People around me have told me to look open, and I really don't know what to call it open, because this is simply an unsolvable dead problem. Mom, you are relieved and have no pain, but what you leave for your daughter is only endless thoughts and worries for the rest of her life. Mom, can you come to my dream tonight and let me see you?

I've never seen you for more than a day or haven't talked to you.,It's been half a month.,It's really really unacceptable and can't adapt.。。

I read your post by accident and feel the same way. My mother left in 05, when I was 52 years old, I was 24 years old, I was about to graduate from my senior year, and the salary for the first month of internship had not yet arrived, and my mother suddenly had a cerebral hemorrhage caused by high blood pressure, and left in a hurry in just 14 days. Without any mental preparation, without any opportunity to compensate, it was a bolt from the blue, I couldn't accept the truth for three whole years, I was very depressed about life and work, I don't know how I got through all day, even if there were tears in my smile.

More often wake up from dreams with crying, self-blame, guilt, missing, complaining, various moods. Eight years have passed, during which time I got married, had children, and became a hard-working mother, and my thoughts about my mother have increased unabated. This kind of longing has become a scar that can never be touched in the depths of my heart, I can't cry when I get married, I can't cry when I hold a child after giving birth, I can't stop crying, and I think about the same person in my heart at that time, how good it would be if my mother could still be there...

The difference is that she has now accepted the facts, lived and worked hard, and hoped that her old man could feel her little happiness in the spirit of heaven. Take this opportunity to encourage friends who have similar experiences to take care.

Mother left 234 days, cancer, 61 years old, only 3 months, this kind of pain can only be experienced to experience, can not be replaced and parted, every happy moment I feel how sorry I am for missing my mother, regret my ignorance, do not care about her health, regret too many things, miss only increase, the New Year is coming soon, last year's scenes appear frequently, every time is a heart-wrenching pain, I don't know how long it will take to fade away, maybe a lifetime, I really miss it.

My mom has been gone for three months, and I was in a car accident with my brother. My son and I survived, my mother's life is not easy, I have never enjoyed happiness, I get married and everything is my mother to worry about, my mother took care of the two months, when the accident occurred my second child was only three months, my brother's family was not yet a full moon, my mother also went out for me, I am very guilty, now my father is only alone, she is my best mother, never to see, can not accept, cry every day.

My mother died of stomach cancer for two months. Mom, I won't forget how good you are to me, I really miss you all the time. Are you doing well in heaven? If there is an afterlife, I will definitely be a good son of yours.

That must be to solve the problem of the daughter's pregnancy first.

First of all, the alarm is handled.

Then see what the police do.

Be sure to do it for your daughter.

You can't wait for your child to become a mother under the age of a child.

Hello, you really want to be a mother, but you have never been pregnant, it is recommended that you go to the hospital with your husband to have a check-up to see what the problem is, and then prescribe the right medicine