The landlord s 23 year old comrade has never been in love so far, is there anyone worse than me?

I've never been in love, and there are personality factors, and friends are familiar with the situation, so I won't be inhibited, and I also like various forums, but it's all diving. There are also some houses, which are not very serious. So, the social spectrum is narrow.

What's more important is the family factor, the current work of the boil is at home, eating and sleeping at home every day, the city is not big, with my parents around, I always feel that I can do anything related to comrades, plus the boil is an only child, and the matter of getting married in the future is another hurdle.

In fact, I have always felt that people's literacy is still very important, in the future, if you find a person you like, and it is not the kind of situation that is boring only when the novelty passes, you have to have a little mood, and you have to learn the wisdom of getting along with people for a long time. In fact, when I was in college, there was no pure waste, I learned what I should study, I had my best friends, and I should take the exam, but I guessed that the certificate that I wouldn't use in the future was also tested, and I played what I should play, but I never fell in love, and it was also a pain left by the university.

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Landlord, I'm the same as you, I'm 21 and haven't been in any relationship. It's not that I'm ugly or poor, it's because I can't cheat or coax. So it's not okay for the landlord to fall in love without cheating.

Everything has to go with the flow, and you shouldn't assume you're gay until you've made a decision.

This behavior is called psychological suggestion, and your subconscious will default to being gay and will have an impact on your body and mind.

But understand that homosexuality is not a disease.

There are also many animals in nature that have homosexual relationships, and the black swan is considered a symbol of male homosexuality.

Although sexual orientation can be influenced by the environment to a certain extent, true pure homosexuality is mostly innate.

There is no difference in appearance between homosexuality and heterosexuality, and men who are feminine in appearance and behavior are jokingly called pseudo-mothers, but most of them are not homosexuals. In today's society, homosexuality has become acceptable to most people. So even if you are truly pure gay, you don't have to feel like an unacceptable outlier, but you should actively seek yourself and find a lifestyle that suits you.

Hope you don't get confused anymore.

There is also nothing to be ashamed of being gay, trust your feelings. Homosexuality is legal in many countries, you just have to go with your feelings. Life is alive, just be happy!

Homosexuality is no longer a fuss in this day and age, since it is already like this, let yourself live a little happier, there is nothing wrong with liking men, if being with a man can make you happy.

There's no shame in being gay, it's good that you can talk about it, it's still legal abroad! Try to find people like you and follow your feelings!!

"I don't know what literature you've consulted, and if some of it is outdated." At present, the common saying is "congenital formation" and "acquired formation", and it has been debated endlessly, and there is no conclusive conclusion! If you can't find the real reason from your experience (the content of a few words will not let others understand your experience in depth, your growth, and only you can derive the reason), then "born this way" is the best explanation!

If you want to know more about this information, you can pay more attention to Li Yinhe, Zhang Beichuan, these people, maybe can enlighten you, in addition, I will say one more thing, there are many things that have no answers, people live a lifetime, there are many things that do not need to be concerned, if you are interested in psychology, you can read more Freud's book, I believe it will inspire you!