Between lovers, do the personalities have to be compatible? Does it have to be tacit?

Two people live together, not a year or two but a lifetime, people's thinking is more complex, two people will inevitably have some quarrels after being together for a long time, not that there are no contradictions between two people with the same personality and common heart, on the contrary, the friction between each other will enhance each other's feelings, the key is how to deal with these contradictions? Since two people love each other and come together, love should trust, tolerate, and care for each other, so no matter what happens, don't be too extreme, think about the other party's good to you, take a step back and open the sky! If you love each other, you have to trust each other's feelings for you and don't doubt each other!

Usually keep in touch more, so that you will not feel lonely in a different place, and you will not be cold to your feelings, choose a gift on a special day to send to each other, think about it is all happy! There is only one sentence: cherish it!

Personality sometimes determines two people, some people are suitable for long-distance love, and some people are not suitable, you should think about it, if two people are in different places, will you guarantee that you will not fall in love with others?

It doesn't have to be tacit. But the personalities must be compatible.

After two people are together, they don't quarrel every day.

Not necessarily, as long as you want to love, you can be together regardless of your temper Why do you need tacit understanding Do you have a job or a partner.

Couples with similar personalities.

Advantages: mutual understanding and empathy. Two people have similar thoughts and behaviors, you make trouble and I make trouble, you are quiet and I am quiet, each other is like another self of the opposite sex, and they can penetrate each other's minds without too much explanation.

Disadvantages: Like falling in love with yourself, the lack of freshness and lead is gradually boring; When encountering an incident, it is easy to make mistakes and be paranoid together, which leads to more and more impasses in the relationship.

Couples with complementary personalities.

Advantages: Learn from each other's strengths. Outgoing and cheerful boys, surrounded by introverted and quiet girls; Girls who are very aggressive, accompanied by meticulous and considerate boys, they learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses, complement each other's strengths, appreciate each other when they smile, and make up for each other's shortcomings and shortcomings.

Disadvantages: Different ways of dealing with problems, easy to cause contradictions, extroverts shouting, introverts holding back internal injuries, poor communication will hurt feelings.

Obviously, "personality" is similar and different, and each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and "personality" cannot be used to frame the mode and stability of couples.

Personality incompatibility refers to disagreements between people due to personality reasons, and is now mostly used by couples as an excuse to break up, which is a seemingly perfect excuse without new ideas.

The so-called personality incompatibility refers to generally, and the incompatibility is mainly caused by the differences in the personalities, tempers, attitudes, habits, life backgrounds, education levels, family backgrounds, social experiences, etc., and the accommodation and tolerance must be both sides and mutual, that is, appreciating each other's highlights and tolerating each other's shortcomings. Unilateral accommodation can only lead to psychological imbalance on one side, and disagreement will arise.

Couples don't have the right personalities.

Many people who have just fallen in love will have some confusion, and the main reason for the confusion is that they can't understand whether the feelings between each other are love. And sometimes it is not clear what caused the conflict. In fact, many times it is caused by incompatible personalities.

First of all, one of the factors in how to judge the personality incompatibility of a couple is whether two people are willing to accommodate each other, which is very important. Although it is easy for people with the same personality to be friends, it is difficult to accommodate each other if there is a real problem. The simplest case is who apologizes first when a couple quarrels.

When the personalities are not compatible, the most likely situation is that both parties ignore each other, and there is a long-term cold war, which is almost devastating to the relationship if it continues. From this point, you can see whether the personality is matched or not.

The correct way to get along as a couple does not mean that all the mistakes are attributed to one party, but when it comes to dealing with some problems, don't take the same approach. Of course, there is another important basis for how to judge the incompatibility of a couple's personality, that is, whether they feel bored or even disgusted in the process of getting along. People during the relationship can be said to be like glue, and every moment of getting along at this time is sweet, but because of the wrong mode of getting along, two people will be physically and mentally exhausted even if they are together for a short time.

Therefore, for couples, the basis for judging personality incompatibility is very clear, if you really encounter these situations, you must communicate with each other well, so that each other can change their personalities.

If the compatibility of couples is not very high, how to do it?

Learn to get to know each other better.

In fact, if you really understand each other, you don't know what the other person likes to eat and wants? Therefore, in daily life, we must find ways and opportunities to understand each other's preferences. When the level of understanding deepens, the tacit understanding will definitely increase.

In any case, we all need to understand a reality, that is, tacit understanding does not exist in a vacuum, but should be run in by ourselves.

Find the right way to get along.

Sometimes some of the ways other couples get along with each other may not be suitable for you. Many girls will like to watch some**, and when they see their boyfriends inside, they will always prepare a lot of surprises to treat their girlfriends, so they will also have this imagination when looking for a boyfriend. But reality is always cruel, TV series are TV series after all, since you are living in reality, you have to find some ways to get along with yourself.

Everyone is different, so two people will definitely have a different way of living together than other couples, and all you want to do is find a way that works for you and makes you comfortable together.

Learn to be inclusive. Why do you say the word tolerance, many people lose their temper when the other person doesn't understand them once or twice. Although the meaning of this is to hope that the other party can think about it before doing a lot of things and find what you like, have you ever thought that every time you react like this, it will actually put more pressure on the other party, and the other party will be more cautious, and the more careful you are, the more you will make mistakes.

Sometimes it is still necessary to learn to accommodate each other, understand each other, consider why the other party makes such a mistake, and then deal with it together, as long as two people deal with one thing together, this work can be fundamentally handled.

Although the fit between couples is not very high, some changes can also be made appropriately, and the two people can adjust it well, and the tacit understanding between couples will gradually become higher and higher.

I think couples need to communicate more with each other, try to accommodate each other's hobbies, and find more topics to talk about, so that they can have a higher degree of compatibility.

Then you have to find a way to improve the fit between the two parties. For example, if you go on an adventure with him and experience some things, the relationship between the two is naturally good.

When you meet your soul mate, you will see the best world through each other, you will find that you are very good, you will feel that the happiness of hail is nothing more than that, you will find the placement of your soul in the dark, and you will find understanding and understanding unconsciously. In fact, soul mates are like a strange feeling, the beauty of the sixth sense, others are stunned to understand what is going on with your old age, but there are countless joys and sweetness between you, which is just a subtle feeling that is not suitable for outsiders.