Do you have to be in love in college? Do you have to be in a relationship in college?

First of all, the sentence "If you don't fall in love, you can't complete your college life" is so absolute that it can only be said that there will be a little regret. But in the four years of college and thousands of classmates, if you really don't even have a single person who is interested in you, you may also have to reflect on the problems you have.

In fact, it doesn't matter whether you are in love or not, the important thing is that you are doing well. If you find that falling in love will improve your life, you can do it, and if you feel that your life is good now and you are happy, then you can also stop falling in love. However, it is true that the environment will affect oneself, and the most important thing is to see whether you want to or not, and don't suppress yourself too much, otherwise it is difficult to get happiness, because people's desires are endless.

Good luck!

Of course, it's the same as whether you want to get married in your life. Aren't you going to get married in your life?

Although you may not be able to get married in college, after falling in love, you will find that you will feel that you have really grown up, become an adult, and know how to take responsibility.

Not necessarily, love is something that is hard to find! Don't take it for a long time and you'll be happy!

Not necessarily·· Unless you think you really like someone, going with the flow will only waste the money you have... Don't think this is very handsome, in fact, it's nothing, after graduation, they must be together.

No! But if you don't have anything to fill yourself with! If you have nothing to do@

You can go in love!

Let's see if you can find the right one for you

It's best not to talk about it with the idea that someone is not lonely, if that's the case, then when you really fall in love with him and break up, it's still yourself who hurts

If you want to love, find a suitable one to love!

Actually, it's up to you, because that's what determines your happiness!

If you are in love, you will feel no longer lonely, and having a good confidant to accompany you will make you feel very happy, so it is recommended that you talk about it.

If you don't meet the right one, you won't fall in love!!

It's really boring, and sometimes it's a little lonely!!

I also agree with the second floor, there are a lot of free times in college, and it will be boring not to talk all day, and the feeling of college love is not after work.

Whatever you want, you won't be happy if you force yourself.

Strange question, depending on whether you want to or not, and how well your self-control is.

Not necessarily.

People always say: how nice it is to be able to fall in love in college.

A: Energetic, emotionally pure, etc.

B: I have a lot of time in college, I can try more, I know what I want better, and find my suitable other half...

We read the above carefully and repeatedly, and there is no meaning that college students must fall in love.

The choice is still ours.

So, why do you have the question that college students must fall in love? Or what is silently influencing everyone, making everyone subconsciously have the idea that college students must fall in love?

College students are in a stage where they are extremely susceptible to external influences and are constantly learning like the outside world. Following the trend is a common label for college students. We listen carefully to the "advice" of others and change our behavior.

Everyone hears that others share the many benefits of falling in love in college, and everyone else talks about love, but it seems that they are one step behind if they don't talk about it.

But we must know that love is not something that I can really accomplish if I want to do it. This is the attraction between two people, love is beautiful and sacred, how can it start casually. Therefore, if you really have someone who is happy with each other, of course, I wish you a sweet campus love.

If we regret that we have not met the person of fate, then on the way of waiting, we can also continue to work hard, shape ourselves, and meet the future with a better self.

College does not necessarily have to fall in love, when you meet someone you like, you can talk about a campus love, taste the taste of love, if you can't meet the right person, don't have a herd mentality, think that a love is incomplete during college, love does make people yearn, but we must learn to look at love rationally, and rushing to achieve it is counterproductive. When love should come, it will come, don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, but it should be, I didn't have the idea of falling in love, but since you appeared in my world, I want to fall in love. It's as simple as that, there is no reason and no reason.

Falling in love is not a must, it is a choice, love itself is a very beautiful word, and any intention to use it as an end tarnishes its own meaning.

In my opinion, we don't necessarily have to fall in love in college.

1. The goal that some people pursue in college is to study hard, take the certificate well, and then take the postgraduate entrance examination, have a good job, and wait until the job to find a suitable person to fall in love. This idea is naturally right, they take learning as the first place, if they don't meet a particularly suitable and special person, they have probably spent the past four years with learning, and the daily fulfilling study life has made them feel satisfied, and the extra love life seems to make them disrupt the rhythm of the original life, maybe they will not adapt to this feeling.

Second, some male or female students in college have long been accustomed to being single, used to eating with friends or alone, going to the library alone, watching movies and shopping alone. They are immersed in their single life and enjoy themselves. College love is too fragile, fragile and vulnerable, so it's understandable that many people choose not to fall in love and enjoy themselves.

They enjoy the life of a person, concentrate on studying when they study alone, and no one disturbs them when they are chasing dramas, watching the people around them get angry with their other half day by day, they will have a feeling of enjoying being single more and more. Occasionally, they want to fall in love, but when they come back to reality, they will annihilate this idea in their minds, and slowly they feel as if a person is really good, free and free, and has no worries.

3. Fast-food love can also be seen everywhere in college, and this kind of love often comes and goes quickly, so we might as well calm down and not fall in love for the sake of falling in love. Maybe we'll be in a sunny corner of the library on a sunny day, with the leaves moving outside the window, and the person you like is sitting there, and the heartbeat will prove to you that this is love.

I think it's really up to you, if you can find someone you really like in college, and then you fall in love, I think that's a good thing, but if you don't find someone you like, and then just force yourself to have a relationship, I don't think it's good enough.

Not necessarily, love can be a condiment but not a necessity.

Nowadays, people seem to make dating a task utilitarian, as if falling in love has become a measure to prove their worth.

But in fact, the most important thing to provide you with is emotional value and spiritual value When you meet someone who is in tune with you on the same channel Why not establish an intimate relationship with him If you don't meet Single you can also enjoy a lot of freedom and have your own rich emotional value This does not need to rely on dating can have.

Don't worry too much about whether you want to fall in love Can you fall in love Do you have to fall in love When you meet the person you like, these problems are not a problem When you haven't met yet, falling in love for the sake of falling in love is a very unnecessary and meaningless thing.

Hope mine is helpful to you!

No one says that college has to be in love, after all, college is also a place to complete your studies, and your studies are the most important thing. Although it is possible to fall in love in college, if you are in love, you still have to choose the right partner, don't be blind. Make yourself in love.

No one says that you have to fall in love in college, if you don't meet the right one, don't waste time and money, of course, if you meet the right one in college, it's the best.

I don't think college has to be in a relationship. The most important thing in college is to study seriously. Complete your own studies. Although college students are already adults, if you haven't met a suitable partner, don't force yourself.

There is no rule that college students must fall in love, but this period is also a good time to fall in love, after all, it is very happy to experience beautiful love at this age.

If you want to talk about this, you want to talk about it, if you don't want to talk about it, you don't need to talk about it, as long as you have your own interests, you can live your college life to your own liking, live a fulfilling life, and don't care about other people's eyes and words. Because it's your own business.

Not necessarily, for me, studying hard is not more idle than high school, and I have to deal with various exams and certifications during college, and it is not impossible to find time to fall in love, not everyone has the same goal, whether it is to fall in love or not, each has its own way of life.

Not necessarily. Some college students fall in love with revenge, and get back the revenge that they lacked in middle school. This is not advisable. College students don't like someone for the sake of falling in love, but they like someone to fall in love. This needs to be distinguished.

Whether college needs to fall in love still depends on whether you can meet someone who makes you feel excited, and there is no need for college to care about whether teachers let you talk about it.

Not necessarily, it depends on what you think.

Many female college students around us would rather chase dramas in the dormitory than come out to find a partner, mainly because many college students see very clearly that falling in love in college is fruitless.

In fact, many college students are always sober and have not been carried away by love, everyone has the ability to think independently, so they must treat the issue of love rationally.

Is it necessary to fall in love during college, but also respect everyone's ideas and needs, and don't treat this matter as a task to complete, because in addition to love, there are many meaningful things that can be accomplished during college.

Not only academic studies, but also various social practices and club activities, etc., are the best times to improve one's ability, and during this time, you should strive to obtain some certificates to pave the way for future employment.

Instead of thinking about what kind of person you want to fall in love with, it is better to plan what kind of path you want to take in the future and prepare in advance.

If you are in love during college, you should take your relationship seriously.

Everyone has their own ideas, and there are many benefits to falling in love during college on the basis of not delaying your studies.

For example, you can improve your emotional intelligence, and you can also think about your own emotional outlook, two people accompany each other, and work together to make the future better, and good love is indeed beneficial.

But I'm afraid of encountering some bad relationships, like some people who fall in love for the sake of falling in love, at the moment of graduation, they are often facing the time to break up, and the consequences of not cherishing the relationship are bound to bring harm.

When falling in love, you should also be rational and objective, think about whether two people can go on for a long time, whether the future plan is consistent, no matter how you choose, the mentality is still very important.

Regardless of whether you are in love in college or not, college life is very beautiful, freshmen who have just entered the university should enjoy the four years of college, grasp their youth, and wish everyone a happy start to school and a bright future!

College love and sparrow god depends on whether you meet the right person, the right person is attracted to each other, and the mutual congratulations have a good feeling. If you like someone, you can't help but want to get to know him. Appreciate his brilliance and tolerate his shortcomings.

Just like loving a pot of flowers, if you really love it, you can't just love its bright and dazzling flowers, you also love its leaves, love its ugly roots that grow in the soil.

Boys should be gentlemen, and girls should love themselves. Sincerity is nirvana, in this fast-food love era, a long stream of water, natural love is precious.

We should establish a correct view of love and take every relationship seriously.

I think that if you feel that the person you have met is very tempted by your friends, you can boldly fall in love. But don't forget not to waste your studies, and don't lose yourself.

I don't think it is necessary to talk about it, but if there is really fate, it is necessary to talk about it.

I am a college student, and I remember the last time I took a mental health education class for college students, the teacher told us that it was recommended that college students fall in love at least once in college. I think this should be the road that must be taken on the road of life! Through love, we can exercise our ability to communicate with others, improve our own emotional intelligence, and at the same time love life more!

I just feel that when I'm in love, I feel that everything goes well, and I don't know why!

I once heard my senior talk about an interview experience, this senior was excellent in character and learning, won various competition awards, won various scholarships, and graduated from graduate school. During the interview, the interviewer asked him if you were in a relationship when you were in college? Because he was busy with studying, this senior didn't think about falling in love, so he said no!

The interviewer said to him: Okay, then you are eliminated! The senior was very unconvinced and asked why.

Fortunately, the interviewer had a good temper and explained to him: classmate, the most important thing to come to me for an interview is excellent people, to the society, we want a comprehensive talent, you have not been in love, from your words and deeds as soon as you enter the door, you can see that you are a person and lack of flexibility. Are you satisfied with my remarks?

I don't think this can be said to be a common phenomenon, and we can't eliminate everyone who has never been in love! )

In my opinion, love cannot be forced. And everyone's situation is different.

Persistent. Some people just have a different understanding of love. They are loyal to their love, or they don't fall in love, and once they fall in love, it's a lifelong thing!

Enjoyment type. Some people come to college to enjoy life before they work! Falling in love has become their best choice, going to class with their lovers every day, taking a walk, eating, and showing their affection on campus from time to time! Life is delicious, and it couldn't be more beautiful!

Immerse yourself in hard work.

There are also some people who come to university to exercise their various skills and learn various professional knowledge, and they don't put their minds on love at all. During the four years of college, I won various scholarships and scientific research awards.

Is "Gao Leng" just a code name?

There are also some more cold boys! If you think about it, you are all people of this age, how can you not have your own sweetheart. But because of personality, I will be embarrassed to open my mouth and embarrassed to meet.

In short, it's like you're going to be embarrassed to the end!

No matter what type you are, I think as long as you all sit and do what you like, you should be happy! Besides, I don't think everyone has to fall in love in college, as long as they realize their own value, so don't force yourself to pull!