What should I do if I am too serious?

Serious people should be universally respected. But this is not necessarily the case. Serious people often can't tolerate non-serious things happening.

As a serious person, when someone is bullied by a wicked person, stand up and help the bullied person, and everyone will appreciate you; When there is a conflict between colleagues, you come forward to reprimand the colleague who is not good, you help one but offend the other; When you don't have the ability to solve the problem, but you come forward because of a moment of righteous indignation, you are the one who is hurt. Based on the above, it can be seen that integrity should also be used in different situations. Blindly upright, sometimes you can only get the opposite result, you can't help others, but also harm yourself, this is the truth of the easy to break, I hope you think twice.

It's too serious, but it doesn't know how to be flexible, and its emotional intelligence is low. A bad temper is a personality problem. Neither of these can be changed in a short period of time.

However, when encountering different things, this kind of thing has corresponding advantages. It will be much better to make more like-minded friends, travel more, and experience the sophistication of people.

Seriousness is not a problem, it is rare to be upright and have a bright heart. But at the same time, it is necessary to be stronger, more broad-minded, and able to accommodate some things that are intolerable to ordinary people. Since you already feel that your realm is higher than others, then your thoughts should naturally surpass others, and you will no longer be provoked by other people's words and actions.

You can try to lower your posture, make more interesting friends, cultivate more hobbies, sports, travel, and learn your unknown territory are all good experiences! Although I also find it boring. By the way, it's also good to read books.

It's good to spend more time with interesting and outgoing friends, watch more bad jokes and stuff, and improve your sense of humor. Stick to your own principles, don't drag others for suitors you don't like, this is a good girl.

How can you feel so boring, there are obviously a lot of interesting things in life, not what you think, traveling, dancing, reading, so many interesting things, choose one you like and make it good at, you just find too little. If it's too serious, there will really be big problems, and it must be corrected.

I feel like I need to calm down and think about what I really want. It's because I have too little goal or clear goal, which leads to feeling that life is boring, and I think it's terrible to have no hope. When you find such a clear goal, the so-called boring life will become interesting, which is the process of pursuing the goal.

In such a state, those problems are self-defeating.

You should be happy that at least you don't get addicted to something, don't get addicted to games, don't get stuck in a quagmire, and have your own opinion on a lot of activities. And so you deny the meaning of these activities.

In fact, this is a kind of character, some people's character is like this, it is indeed a very axis, it is too serious, like this kind of character, it stands to reason that it has nothing to do with it, but in today's society, people who are too serious are really not very popular, and they need to be slightly optimized, so, if they are like this kind of person, they can be slowly induced, because the character is like this, they can be slowly induced, and they can let him slowly contact this society, and it feels too serious, and it is indeed not very good. You can slowly integrate into the character, press the personality more, natural and easy-going, so that you can get along better.

Personality, if there are some friends around who can live and understand taste, it can be better after a long time.

Read more jokes, humorous stories and the like, get in touch with friends who you feel are rich in humor, imitate their words and deeds, keep up with the pace of the times, keep pace with the times, watch more news, train your ability to beautify your connections, be good at observing and discovering the beauty in life, copy down classic sentences when you encounter them, and learn to use them flexibly, so that you can become a person with rich humor cells. I wish you to become such a person soon.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

It's best to travel to broaden your mind, but it's almost impossible for people who really have the ability to travel to be in this state for a long time, if there is really no hobby that allows you to concentrate on improving the meaning of life, you can only take the extreme route of elegance or refinement, or give up your own full integration into the surrounding environment, let the joys and sorrows in the environment replace your own, the collective strength is great, or be a real hermit, and build a small circle of your soul more solidly, It can also form a set of self-explanatory logic, a space for the survival of the self-soul. Don't worry about really falling into the devil, even if you want to be extreme, your attributes are still biased towards ordinary people.