What should I do if I fail to be a good person?

You have to be confident, I believe that I am born to be useful. People can't live without self-confidence, especially men. You can not have a lot of money and good looks, but you can't do without self-confidence.

A man who is not confident will not have a woman to love, and if he does, he will not be abandoned for a long time. Of course, not every woman is so ruthless, there are many women who are willing to pay, and stupid women are willing to pay. My boyfriend used to be a person who was not very confident, sometimes he had a little low self-esteem, he was not very educated, his family background was not very good, and he was very unconfident in himself.

He was unemployed a while ago, and he suffered a lot of blows, and he lost his spirit. During this period of unemployment, I ate and drank at home, and when I was full, I would ask if I had anything to eat, and when I was full, I would know that I was playing games on the Internet, and I didn't do anything for me. I was anxious when I asked him to find a job, worried that he would continue to fall like this, lost confidence in our relationship, couldn't see the future, and suddenly felt lost.

I told him everything, and I counted the number of people who should have fallen, and after the number was over, I encouraged him even more, hoping that he would cheer up a little, a little manly, don't let me worry so much, but he is still like this, I really don't know what to do, I just asked God to worship the Buddha and didn't do it, but I also did something similar to this. When I was about to despair, I heard from a friend that ** shop helps you get rich There is a kind of wishing bag that has been opened, and you can send it to any kind of person, especially people like my boyfriend who also need to open their heads, which can make them sober and make people better. I don't know if it's really like what my friend said, I just took a look at it with curiosity, the shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying are very good, they said that the things that open the light are very effective, and many people are rushing to find them.

I think there's nothing I can do anyway, there are some ways to give it a try, just use my boyfriend's dead horse as a live horse doctor, buy him a guard that doesn't work, anyway, it's not bad to do everything this time. As a result, I didn't expect this dead horse to really come back to life, and my boyfriend suddenly seemed to be a different person, cleaned himself up and went out to look for a job. Now he is much more confident than before, his ideas have matured, he has found a new job, he likes his current job, he works harder than before, and he feels sorry for me, I am really a little flattered.

Seeing the way he is now, I feel very worthwhile, the grievances he suffered before are nothing, and he has become the one I love again. Through this incident, I have learned a lot, two people are together to help each other, not to leave when he needs you the most, but to accompany him through the difficulties, pay without asking for anything in return, but maybe get more. If you love someone, you should make him confident, and your love is his self-confidence.

For the people you love, there may be no way to do it, but it is often a way.

It's hard to get started! Nothing is as smooth as you think! Down-to-earth work, serious and serious life!

Don't flinch when you encounter failure, you have to think about those scientists, those great people, who have not experienced setbacks and failures to slowly move towards success! As long as you don't give up and stick to the dream in your heart, failure and unhappiness will pass! It's not terrible to fail, it's terrible to not have the courage to stand up again!

In life, everything will go well. Especially in this stressful society, there is a lot of pressure on both men and women. When you think this way, you have lost confidence in yourself.

Don't think so much about everything, if there is a problem, there must be a key to solving the problem.

Forget about the past and start from scratch.

First of all, put yourself in perspective. Find your strengths. Then, let your strengths play to your strengths.

This is the most basic condition for gaining self-confidence. To gain self-confidence, you must first gain a sense of satisfaction and make yourself feel that you are very good. This is the most basic.

Therefore, you need to make good use of your strengths and try to play to your strengths. Do more, only in this way can you taste the satisfaction of success as much as possible, then you can build self-confidence. If you think you can't do anything, and you don't do anything, you don't dare to do anything.

The less confident you become, it's a vicious circle. As long as you get the satisfaction of success, you can further gain self-confidence. Of course, maybe take your time.

You can start with small things and gradually increase them.

Self-confidence, in fact, is just a state of mind. All you need is to discover it yourself, and you don't need too many complicated processes. As long as you have faith in yourself, then you will definitely be full of strength.

Don't be overly considerate of others, pay too much attention to what others think of you. Deal with any setbacks with a nonchalant and normal mindset.

Self-confidence, in fact, is very simple, just believe in yourself. When you have self-confidence, you will be able to do everything. The key lies in yourself, as long as you have confidence in yourself, you can solve anything.

In addition, the biggest factor of self-confidence is probably the influence of the outside world on you. To know that what others say about us is always what they think, and we don't have to live in someone else's world. Just do your own thing.

Why don't you care so much about him? It is necessary to have the momentum that the world exists only for itself. Have the courage to go your own way and let others do what they say.

No one can change themselves, no one can control themselves. When you succeed, it's your own business, but if you are influenced by others and retreat, it's your own business, so why bother to control yourself for irrelevant people.

In the last sentence, as long as you believe in yourself, you will be full of self-confidence. It's all about the mindset.

If you say you can do it, you can do it. Give yourself confidence, the key is to take the first step, to be bold out, with the first experience, you have the courage to go out for the second time, in this way, you will find that you are very courageous, but you did not play it.

Before you do something, think carefully about how you should do it, exercise your careful thinking, and then work hard to do it, don't have meaningless worries, just have courage and work hard. I believe you are a man of courage.

Then you have to take the first step, this difficult first step. The more you don't like something, the more you have to force yourself to do it. For example:

If you don't like going downstairs, then after dinner, force yourself to go downstairs, greet others, communicate, and try to do it. In this way, only you can help yourself, and after a while, you will find that you will slowly integrate into the crowded situation, and even if you still don't like it, but not as annoying as you are now.

To learn to explain and communicate, this is also the ability of human survival. Read more and communicate more. When necessary, it is also helpful to call for help from a psychiatrist, Xi.

Knowing this, you will be happy, first be good to your mother, wash her feet once, talk about your heart, go to the person you can see in the past and strive to be friends with him, her, and then actively and enthusiastically get along with his friends, people in groups, you will definitely like them, think carefully about the previous job which you like the most, and then go to do it wholeheartedly, remember to keep smiling every day, see people do not smile or talk, it is best to fry a side dish and drink two cups with your father, you will definitely find how comfortable life is, How desirable. Come on, change it if you find it, and it will definitely succeed.

1. Two strokes of words, one stroke forward and one backward, the writing is simple, and it is really difficult to be a man. I thought of Su Qin's words again: Let me have Luoyang Erqingtian, and An Nengpei Six Kingdoms Seal.

2. It's really hard to be a human being, when you are desperate for love, and then you look back and find that you are nothing.

3. It's so difficult to be a man, everyone believes the lies they tell, and no one believes the truth.

4. It's really hard to be a human being, and you have to take care of your own mood and the emotions of others. Life is not easy, you have to focus on making yourself happy and trying to make your family happy. The vicissitudes of time, not only do you not want to let yourself grow old, but also let your children grow up quickly.

5, only now do I realize that it is really difficult to be a man, I don't know when and for what reason, I offended some people.

6, it's really difficult to be a man: today, acting regardless of friendship, and ending up with a ruthless, unrighteous, cold-blooded notoriety, - once you care about kindness, you may be ridiculed as stupid, and you will inevitably suffer a dumb loss!

I'm so lost, I can't do anything, I feel like I'm a waste, I just want to sleep with my head covered, I don't want to do anything, I'm in a bad mood, I feel like I have no place in this world, I'm a superfluous person.

You should find the reason, if there is no reason, you just don't see it, you don't have to think too much, but things have a reason, and it is better to find the cause to solve it. Don't just think that you can't do it, if you want to think about something happy, you will often feel that the world is very beautiful, and being a person is very beautiful!

I think it's okay, there is no failure or failure in this, as long as you have a clear conscience, it's much better than what you mix, and there are more estimates worse than what you mix, so it's good to go one step at a time.

Do something that is easy to succeed, and gradually you will gain self-confidence, and you can start with small things like cooking and growing vegetables.

I also feel like a failure, I still think like this when I go to work today, I feel very useless, I often think like this, I have been working for more than ten years, I still have nothing, sometimes I feel that life is boring, but I still can't let go of a lot of things, and people, you ask me what to do, I can only say that it is the result of no money, work hard to make money, money is your most loyal friend, everything else is fake, it will change, work hard to make money, be a rich person, people like us may slowly become happy.

Change yourself slowly, and you can regain your self-confidence after a long time! It can change the perception of others.

Let's learn Buddhism. A Buddha is an enlightened person, a carefree person.

First of all, we must build our self-confidence, and the premise of building self-confidence is to find the root of our mistakes. If you find the root of your mistake, you have to find a way to change it, and then try your best to make up for your shortcomings.

In this way, you can make up for your shortcomings and have the next try. Be confident in the next attempt, be more cautious and more careful, and then you will usher in the first success.

It's not the only way, but it's the best. Another way you can do this is to choose to forget about it and start from scratch by forgetting your failures.

It's also a good way, anxiety doesn't solve anything, we have to do something practical to change our failures and change our destiny.

Hope to be adopted, thank you.

Failure is the mother of success, work hard, young people.

We should reflect on it, reposition ourselves and find the reasons for our failures!

Tired? Just lie down and rest.

Talk less and do more, and be more tolerant with less calculations.

How can you see color without experiencing wind and rain