Cold war with her boyfriend is clearly his problem

First of all, I'm puzzled, it's hard for such a person to imagine how to catch up with you. Maybe it's because of his low-key personality that you can't stop loving him, in fact, your relationship is still good, really, you both love each other, but he seems to be more in a face problem, and as you also have a reserved side unique to girls. Each other is attracted to each other's unique temperament, which is the key to your love gravitational pull.

It is common for lovers to compete with each other, and it exists in more than 60 percent. But as a man, he should indeed show a gentlemanly demeanor to "admit defeat" to you first, but it seems that he is not that kind of person. If you really like him, you might as well accommodate it, after all, it's only been a month, and there will be a tacit understanding in the future, love is like this, and after a period of time, it will gradually get better.

Maybe he is a person with this kind of character, who doesn't know how to take care of people, and is not careful, you talk to him about your psychology, tell him what aspects you are dissatisfied with him, don't always put it in his psychology and don't tell him, he may not know anything about psychology! said If he is still like this, you really can't bear to pull, then share it with him Because the longer you go, the more painful you will be, and there are examples of this around me!

He may have some concerns or problems, but if you say that he is very simple and muna, it is true. Because my situation is a bit similar to his, but I am not as serious as him, and I am not good at expressing feelings, but I care about her very much, and I personally still think that he may have encountered some problems, you should ask him well, don't think about his bad when you see him, don't get angry, communicate!

Maybe he doesn't care much about you. But you have to monitor yourself first to see if there's anything wrong with you.

Alas! Feelings are like that! I'm having the same problem as you, the difference is that I'm a man.

At the beginning, she chased Snail so fiercely, but now she feels that Snail doesn't even have the least care, we are in a different place, and she never asks Snail how it is! Hit a**always say no, 2 minutes old hanging snail**! I was injured and scolded Snails for deserving it!

Snail is depressed and dies every day!

Break up, that man's may be distracted, and I can't see it on the surface.

Everyone has problems, and it's not entirely anyone's fault.

The Cold War is a normal way of communication between men and women, because the pressure of the other party or what they want is not that the other party will change for themselves, and they will not have any contact with you again. But most of the time, the reason for the cold war between you is not because the other side is too bad. Because when there is a cold war between you, it often means that there are some problems between you.

Or maybe there's a problem with your communication. The Leng Clan's battle is not a good way to communicate.

First, the problem of your attitude.

When you have an argument with your boyfriend, your attitude is to run away. Even if the two of you have been together for a while, it's still a cold war. This attitude leads to the other person asking you what you are doing over and over again, but you don't go to him.

As a result, he can't know what you're thinking, and he's confused. Then he thinks he's lying and prevaricating, and asks you to help him out. You are interested in it because of the interest and freshness of the moment, and when the interest comes, you are cold.

It's not that boys are bad, it's that they can't communicate with girls like friends.

Second, both of them have problems.

When some couples get along with each other, there will be some contradictions, for example, some girls prefer to be mature and steady, and some girls are more selfish, under the influence of these personality differences, it is easy to have conflicts together. If there is a conflict between the two of you, it will definitely lead to a breakup. Because the other person will not think about you and will not think about you.

So both of them had problems that led to their breakup.

3. Personality issues.

If two people have been together for a long time, there will naturally be all kinds of contradictions in Zhaona, and even a cold war. Especially the boys. Guys can easily quarrel over small things when they're outside.

If two people get along for a long time in such a situation, the boy will feel very wronged, so he will start a cold war with the girl, and continue to live with the girl until the matter is resolved. Actually, this is a very wrong way. The boy doesn't want to quarrel with the girl, maybe the boy doesn't realize in his heart that this matter is too important to him, and he wants to quarrel with the girl is the best way to make himself better.

Count regrets, so girls should not rush to make it clear to boys when they have an argument with a boy.

This promotes affection. 1. Share your childhood.

In the childhood life of each of us, I hid the influence of our original family on us, and shared our childhood with our close partner, not only to share the happiness and troubles of our childhood, but also to let the other party enter their own childhood to experience their own happiness and sorrow.

When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.

It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.

2. Make rules for love.

Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

3. Share hobbies.

Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.

4. Talk about each other's view of love.

The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.

Be still and get to the root of the problem.

Often the beginning of the Cold War and quarrels are the same thing, both because of a little mung bean sesame seed, think about the problem clearly, and understand that the Cold War is not because the other party doesn't love you, but because boys like to calm down and deal with problems. Therefore, it is very important for girls to be calm at this time.

Talk to your girlfriend.

Girlfriends are always another good place for girls. During the Cold War, in order to avoid being bored, I went shopping and chatted with my girlfriends, and never put myself in a very passive and helpless situation.

Eat.

Eating is always a perfect way to divert attention. You have to know that during the Cold War, if you couldn't control yourself'Thoughts, you think about whether your boyfriend doesn't love me anymore, whether your boyfriend is going to break up with me, these are all superfluous. In fact, boys just want to calm down and solve problems calmly.

So, what you have to do is eat and let these thoughts fade away.

After 3 days of the Cold War, communication was sought.

The above steps are all about preparing for the present, when you have calmed down for 3 days, if your boyfriend has not come to you yet, and you know that you are wrong, then start communicating.

In the process of communication, remember to maintain an attitude of neither humility nor arrogance, do not lose the information because of the indifference of the other party, so as to keep your voice down, and do not be angry because of the other party's righteousness, what you have to do is just spread out the matter.