I had a fight with my boyfriend because of his dad

Updated on psychology 2024-03-06
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I hope you can persuade your boyfriend, everyone has filial piety, if he is a person without filial piety, you don't want to be with that kind of person, you better explain to your boyfriend, after all, it will be the two of you living together in the future, don't always talk about your family, try to explain the reason for things with your family, after all, old people are feudal! Hope it helps! Have fun! ~

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have to say that your boyfriend and his father are indeed ......The way of thinking is not normal.

    In fact, whether to raise or not is just a sentence, your parents will also want you to take care of it, his father said that the money is earned for him, so even if it is earned for him, will your boyfriend really let you give all the money you earn to his father?

    Don't argue for a breath that doesn't make sense because it doesn't affect the substance.

    It's just a good job.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, I personally think the best way is to move out first, don't live with his father, and go out to find a house to live in. This will not only make you feel more comfortable, but also reduce unnecessary quarrels.

    Every month, the two of you earn a little money to give to the elders, more or less just a filial piety, I believe he will not be too little, just let him feel comfortable.

    As for the relationship between your parents-in-law and mother-in-law, I guess it is difficult for you to do any work in your current situation, so let them be. But if you want the two to finally come together, you still have to leave a good impression with your in-laws.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't deal with this situation, what? The money you both earn is his? Hum!

    I don't have a word, what should I do if I dump you one day, if I want to live with such an elder in the future, I feel good with you, and your boyfriend is a filial son, and I will ...... in the futureYou have to talk to your partner now about separating from his father, including the separation in the future, and you have to talk about it now, if you don't want to, forget it, will it be difficult to find a partner now?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Does his dad have this power? Then you have to coax him well, otherwise you will score sooner or later, just like his ex-girlfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, this situation will not affect, your boyfriend's parents will understand, you have to communicate with your boyfriend, don't let them worry, I wish you happiness and filial piety! May I ask if your boyfriend is an only child, are you a stupid daughter, if not, then the situation of your family is different from the situation of his family, your parents will understand, I wish you happiness! How did you meet, are you in free love, or do you know each other on a blind date, if it's free love, then your feelings should be relatively deep!

    Wishing you happiness! May I ask if you are in free love, such as coincidence.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If your boyfriend takes the initiative to mention the quarrel with your father, you can first soothe your boyfriend's emotions, make him happy, and feel that he is in a better mood and then ask tentatively what happened and why you quarreled with your father. Don't just express your opinions and opinions when he talks to you, and don't talk about his father's badness, just be a listener when he says. After all, the other party is his father, and it may also be your future father-in-law, even if there is a conflict, they are still a family, after all, blood is thicker than water.

    Actually, after he finished talking, he almost figured it out, and at this time you can calm his emotions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Persuade him appropriately, because he may not be in a good mood at this time. Then find out what is going on, don't say which of them is wrong, after all, they are father and son, and they have feelings. Comfort your boyfriend first, chat with him more, and if he is really in a bad mood, then accompany you silently.

    Time will dilute everything, your boyfriend and his dad won't have a hard fight, after all, they are father and son, and they both know each other.

    I hope your boyfriend and his dad will reconcile soon, so you can be happy soon

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Persuade your boyfriend to be more considerate of his father. As an elder, he is also for the good of his children, if he disagrees, he can communicate, why quarrel. What to do with the angry old man.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Your boyfriend must be very sad in his heart, you should try your best to persuade your boyfriend to calm down, don't quarrel with your father, you should comfort him, understand the reason for the incident and help him analyze.

    2. As a mediating link between them, you must first know that your dad will quarrel with your boyfriend, and their starting point must be good for you. At this time, if you can accept your parents' anger emotionally first, and let them know that even if they have something inappropriate, your daughter still thinks about them, and they will naturally consider your feelings.

    3. At this time, you must let your boyfriend calm down and think about whether his behavior is correct, if you can't persuade him alone, you can find more good friends around him to persuade him, take your boyfriend out for a walk, and leave all the bad things behind. If you encounter a conflict with each other, you will find a way to solve it, quarrels can't solve any problems, your boyfriend is still too young, not very mature, his way of dealing with things is relatively naïve, even if the sky falls, he should also choose the right way to deal with it.

    4. When your boyfriend has completely calmed down, you can try to guide him to relax himself first, and then patiently tell him the reason for the incident. Analyze who is wrong. The most important thing is that Dad feels that his daughter likes her boyfriend so much, and Dad feels the need to make him more mature and responsible.

    I believe that if you tell your boyfriend like this, the anxiety and guilt in his heart will probably fade a lot. Then, with your help and persuasion, admit your mistake to Dad, and Dad will ignore his previous suspicions. Therefore, when your boyfriend and your dad quarrel, you, as the middleman, must always stay calm and play the role of a mediator, so that the relationship between your dad and your boyfriend will only get closer and closer.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why is it noisy and why is it noisy? Either both sides are comforted and comforted, and immediately as a family, we must work together.

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