As a unit leader, how to persuade non retirees not to fall in love?

People who are close to retirement are still called early love.

Tell him you're too tender!

Free society, all working as adults? Still in love? You can only persuade them not to talk about corporate love. Tell them not to bring feelings into their work. Be attentive and dedicated.

Khan: Are you employing child labor? Puppy love is too exaggerated, isn't it?

The leader of this unit is good!! You must have read too many books, and all the children used in your unit are children???

.Adolescent children will have a rebellious mentality, and the more parents and teachers prohibit it, the more counterproductive it will be. In fact, as long as the reasons why they should not fall in love are laid out, many children will make a clear choice.

First of all, it should be clear that the love between middle school students is precocious love, and the reasons for this are as follows:

1.The mind has not yet been finalized. Because middle school students' world outlook has not yet matured and formed, their views on the world, society, and life are still relatively naïve and one-sided, and their ideological and moral qualities will change greatly in their future life paths.

Today may be the same, tomorrow may be divided, and a few years later they are more likely to part ways. Therefore, in real life, the vast majority of people who fall in love in middle school fail, and even fewer who later become partners.

2.Psychologically immature. Secondary school students are still in the stage of psychological and physical development.

In terms of self-will, there is a "blind sense of maturity", which is self-righteous; In terms of emotion, it is impulsive and transferable; In terms of volitional development, self-control is poor. Therefore, middle school students are prone to being emotional in early love, and they may do deviant things. And once deviant, the psychological damage to female classmates is irreparable.

3.The economy is not yet independent. Middle school students mainly rely on their parents for their finances, and they are not yet able to stand on their own, and from falling in love to getting married and having children, all this must have a certain economic foundation. This is one of the reasons why it is generally believed that everything falls in love and gets married after working for a few years.

4.The cause has not yet begun. Middle school is the foundation period, and what kind of career middle school students will engage in in the future has not yet been determined, during this period, people are most energetic, the desire for knowledge is the strongest, and the cognitive ability of observation, memory, thinking, and imagination is also the strongest.

Therefore, the middle school years are a critical period for accumulating knowledge, increasing talents, and laying the foundation for the career you will engage in in the future.

1. Affect learning and life. Some secondary school students mistakenly believe that "as long as two people are like-minded, it will not affect learning" or "promote mutual learning". However, from a medical point of view, young lovers are often centered on love, and their emotions are restrained by each other, coupled with physical and mental immaturity, it is almost impossible to not affect learning.

The reason why many parents and teachers can find out about their children's early love is often because their academic performance has declined.

Second, early love is easy to get hurt. Adolescents have an unstable attitude, are prone to contradictions in love, are psychologically immature, fragile and have poor tolerance, and are easily hurt by emotional twists and turns. Some teenagers doubt their lives because of the frustration of early love, casting a shadow on their emotional life, and even affecting their future married life.

3. Early love is prone to sexual negligence. Teenagers have a germinating sense of sexuality, are easily excited, and are reckless of the consequences of their actions because of their whims. And after deviant behavior, they will be ashamed to speak up and be afraid.

These will have an impact on the rest of your life. The inferiority complex and frustration that some people develop can even seriously affect their later life. In a survey of sexual offences, both male and female offenders were between the ages of 15 and 19 years of age when they committed their first sexual offence.

Fourth, it is extremely difficult to succeed in early love. The blindness and immaturity of early love, as well as the intervention of parents and schools, and too many factors such as going on to higher education, changing schools, and working make it extremely difficult to succeed. According to a study by social psychologists in the United States, men who marry before the age of 23 have the highest divorce rate.

Answer the question of not deliberately talking about early love with children, and do not "beat to death" the phenomenon of early love, let alone scold or humiliate children, which will only arouse strong resistance and rebellion in children. When talking to your child, pretend to be unintentional to guide upwards, slowly guide your child to talk about some feelings in his heart, even if the child's point of view is wrong, don't rush to refute, first express their understanding (but not approval), so that the child can slowly let go of his guard against you, trust you, and you can really enter the child's heart.

Qualified families can take their children out once after enlightening them, regardless of the distance or the length of time, give the children a time to think for themselves, and at the same time let the children get in touch with some new things, so as to divert the children's attention. Children in this period of psychological change quickly, so there is generally no "infatuation".

5 5 Give the child a certain amount of freedom.

When a child has the phenomenon of "early love", parents will involuntarily "monitor" the child's behavior, which will only increase the child's disgust, and the immature "early love" phenomenon will be "promoted". At this time, you should pretend that you don't care about the child's problems, as long as you talk to the child, as long as the child can know you, you can let go and give yourself the freedom to make your own decisions.

I have an old sow at home: one day she got pregnant: she gave birth to a piglet: a few days later: she gave birth to another piglet.

The little pig before is called Xiaobai: the next one is called Xiaohei;

Although Xiao Hei is younger than Xiao Bai: but they both go to school together: not only do they not realize it, they are both in their third year of high school:

Play in the daytime: Xiao Hei studies very well:

Xiaobai: Is Xiao Hei going to play? I recognized a brother today?

Black: I'm not going, I still have to read;

Xiaobai: Don't forget it, hmph, I won't play with you if there's fun, haha (so Xiaobai laughed and left).

In the evening, Xiaobai returned).

Xiaohei: Xiaobai, what's wrong with "You're Back"? Why are you crying! Did something happen?

Xiaobai: It's okay, it's okay.

Blackie: Alright then! It's fine if you're okay. It's going to be the college entrance examination tomorrow, you can review it Xiaobai: I want to sleep!

Blackie: Alright then! Then you have to take the test tomorrow...

After the college entrance examination) Xiao Hei: I was admitted to a good university and left...

Xiaobai: I don't read anymore.

Xiao Hei studied very hard, and the results were good)

Xiaobai started working part-time because he didn't work hard before, so he got married very early, and her husband had a very bad temper) Ending: Xiaohei's life is very good:

Xiaobai is very vicissitudes:

Hope it works, huh.

Generally speaking, it is basically impossible! A lot of people fall in love, and it might be a little useful if you threaten her with friendship! But the price to pay is that she may hate you for the rest of her life!

Puppy love, nothing to fuss about. Some people with self-control can often see the pros and cons of early love, and they know how to use to regulate their emotions and life. Sometimes, this extra feeling can be a motivator!

In fact, 15 years old is just an age full of longing for love, and it is not very understanding of love. Sometimes it's just the mistake of friendship for love. Although you are her good friend, you are only a bystander, and the bystander can only understand, not understand. You first need to know what she thinks before you try to persuade her.

Persuade the monarch not to cherish the golden clothes, and persuade the monarch to cherish the youth.

When the flowers need to be picked, they need to be picked directly, so as not to make the flowers fall into the empty branches.

Give her the example of Du Qiuniang or Du Shi Niang.

Early love, early love, let yourself suffer a setback, you know what's going on, you tell him that he can't listen, and he still secretly loves, if you know, you can also know the development status, you can prevent it early.

The early withering of the early flower! Flowers that bloom in the wrong season often don't have good fruit to eat!

Tell her that early love will lead to poor study, and if you don't study well, you can't become a big thing, and if you can't become an atmosphere, you can only accompany a man who is a scum like her to live a hard life.

Accidents happen in early love, ahem = = If she doesn't know what an accident is, tell her plainly that it's okay and tell her how important it is to a girl. Tell her he's just a kid (though I'm not over 15) and tell her that the world is unpredictable and that she lives for herself.

Let him try to fall out of love once, let him know that too young love is just for fun.

Are you in charge of other people's houses? It's not that people don't like you. You always try to persuade people not to like others?? (Please?) You're not mistaken)

Puppy love is not good, such as:

will affect learning,

Good things come too early, and they go too early.

1: Everything is a season, too early to open, will prematurely wither, since it is spring, do not do autumn.

2: Puppy love is a green apple, whoever picks it can only taste the sourness of the green fruit, but not the sweetness of the ripe fruit.

The fast that is cooked and the rotten is fast (as our teacher said).

In fact, if the other party is very good, it doesn't hurt to fall in love, don't do what you do, don't affect your studies (your friend shouldn't be under 13 years old, if it's when I didn't say it).

At the end of the world, there is no fragrant grass, why bother to love a flower.

A person's life should be wonderful.

I don't think high school students should ban this kind of thing, my high school teacher just managed this matter too strictly, neglected the management of learning, so that my classmates targeted him, and his academic performance also dropped significantly.

Early love is not necessarily a bad thing, and some of them have entered a good university when they meet.

Tell him what to do now and what not to do. Tell him what's at stake!

Wow, that's really not early love, it's early love.

Tell her: The best should be reserved for the worthy people, for the last people who wait for themselves, don't covet the momentary pleasure, leave regrets for the life you haven't spent yet, in the future, there are more worthy of your own treatment of people, why be in such a hurry to entrust yourself to someone who has no future, early love has absolutely no future,

China's education has failed spectacularly.

Chinese children are the most tired of learning, and when they grow up, they have to go to foreign countries to learn and buy science and technology.

Middle school students' early love is caused by a variety of reasons, it is recommended to understand the reasons, patient guidance, if you have other questions, please feel free to consult Henan Boqiang New Concept School.

The post-90s generation is so crazy, and that's how we came over! The key is to let the person concerned understand the disadvantages of doing so, and it is important for him (her) to understand it himself, otherwise no amount of intervention will be of any avail!

It is necessary to move it with affection and understand it with reason.

There's no need to convince, right?

Even if you persuade it, what can you do? Students won't listen.

This is a common problem in adolescence, and it is also human nature, don't blindly reprimand, help them how to deal with emotional problems, focus on learning, especially girls, know to protect themselves.

It's normal to like people, the question is how to like people.

You can talk to him about the concept of love. Tell him that the correct concept of love is that both parties are responsible. If they just want to pursue sexual pleasure, then it is best to see a psychiatrist.

Early love has the benefits of early love, it can accumulate emotional experience, whether it is failure or success, it is just a process in his life, after early love, he has more experience to deal with future feelings, and he will not look at the wrong person after seeing more people, if it is really the same as what his parents said, you can't fall in love early, until you are more than 20 years old after graduation, and when you fall in love again, then you will be a blank slate for love, and you will not deal with it emotionally More than 20 years, you will get married after a few years, and you have entered marriage when you still don't understand what love is When the time comes, the problem of not looking at people will come out, and people with more experience will get along with boyfriends and girlfriends who will understand Of course, don't be too experienced, and look at people too highly, and if you are not satisfied, it will not be easy to find a boyfriend It is that early love affects learning, that must exist, what you should do is to call her or master the study well, and there is no problem in learning stability, just don't pass the last card, like the first floor said, or you will regret it in the future This is what you have to say You are still a child, you don't understand, you understand, I said no.

Don't hang yourself from a tree

Find a few more to try

It's okay, as long as the normal interaction is not too intimate, it's OK.